Contents
- Pehea ka ʻike ʻana o ka pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne?
- ʻO nā pēpē pēpē a Pāpā: mai kānalua e kamaʻilio e pili ana
- Nā Pāpā Pōlū a Pāpā: Kōkua iā ia e ʻimi i kahi o kona Makua
- No ka lanakila ʻana i nā pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne: kōkua iā ia e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi
- Kāohi i ka pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne: aia i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou wahi
- Pehea e pale aku ai i nā pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne?
Pehea ka ʻike ʻana o ka pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne?
ʻEhā o ka ʻumi makua kāne e hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne. ʻO kēia nā helu i hoʻolaha ʻia e kahi noiʻi ʻAmelika e pili ana i ka pēpē pēpē no nā kāne. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hana mau ka makuakāne e like me kona makemake i ka hiki ʻana mai o kāna keiki. ʻO ka mea i ʻike i ka noho ʻana i kahi manawa o ka hauʻoli kūʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli piha. ʻO ke kaumaha, ka luhi, ka huhū, ke kaumaha, ka ʻai ʻole, ka paʻakikī o ka hiamoe ʻana, ka haʻalele ʻana iā ia iho… Ke kau nei ke kaumaha. Manaʻo ʻo ia ua haʻalele ʻia ʻo ia e ka makuahine nona nā maka no kāna keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻO ka manawa kēia e hana ai.
ʻO nā pēpē pēpē a Pāpā: mai kānalua e kamaʻilio e pili ana
Ke pilikia ka makuakāne i ka pēpē pēpē, pono ke kamaʻilio. ʻOiai ka manaʻo o ka mea hope e hoʻohewa iā ia, pono e ʻae mua ʻia ʻo ia i kona kūlana a pale aku i nā koina a pau ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻopaʻa iā ia iho me ka hāmau. I kekahi manawa, hiki i kahi kūkākūkā maʻalahi me kāna hoa a / a i ʻole nā mea e pili ana iā ia e pili ana i kona pilikia hiki ke wehe i nā mea. Pono ka makuahine e hōʻoluʻolu i kāna hoa ma ka wehewehe ʻana iā ia ʻaʻole ʻo ka pēpē kona hoa hakakā a ʻaʻole hoʻi e pani i kona hakahaka. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, e pili ana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ʻohana lokahi. Na ia no hoi keia keiki, a he kuleana nui kona. He mea nui ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana iā ia i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi.
Nā Pāpā Pōlū a Pāpā: Kōkua iā ia e ʻimi i kahi o kona Makua
ʻAʻole maoli ka lilo ʻana i papa moa. I ka pō, hele ke kāne mai ke kūlana o ke keiki kāne a i ke kūlana makua kāne ma o ka lilo ʻana i kuleana no kahi mea liʻiliʻi. ʻOiai inā he ʻeiwa mau mahina e hoʻomākaukau ai, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka maʻa mau, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻomaka. ʻO ka pilina ma waena o ka makuahine a me ka pēpē, hui pinepine ʻia, hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi. Pono ka makua kāne e hoʻokau mālie iā ia iho. Kokua ʻia e kāna hoa pili, e hoʻoikaika mālie ʻo ia i kahi pilina me kāna keiki: pūliki, ʻoluʻolu, nānā ... Pono ka makuahine e hoʻomaopopo i ka poʻe e pono ʻo ia e hoʻomaha ma luna o ka makuakāne. Ma kēia ala, e manaʻo ʻo ia he mea nui loa ia.
No ka lanakila ʻana i nā pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne: kōkua iā ia e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi
ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha i ka uē ʻana o ka pēpē, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i palaka i kāna mau hana? He mea nui e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia i kona hiki ke lilo i makua kāne. Hoʻololi, ʻauʻau, mālama, ʻaʻahu, ʻōmole, etc. No nā manawa he nui e hiki i ka makuakāne ke kaʻana like me kāna keiki. Akā i ka wā mua, ʻaʻole pono kēia mea e ʻaʻa. ʻO ka makaʻu i ka hana hewa, ka manaʻo o ka makua kāne kūpono… ʻO ka pōkole, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o nā wāwae. Pono e paipai ʻia e hoʻomau. ʻO kēia ke ala e hoʻokumu ai ʻo ia i kahi pilina kūikawā me kāna keiki a ʻike ʻo ia he hiki pono iā ia ke lawe i nā mea i loko o kona mau lima ponoʻī.
Kāohi i ka pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne: aia i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou wahi
ʻAʻole ʻike nā kāne i ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki e like me ka wahine. Ma kēia ʻekolu hou, pono e loaʻa i nā mea a pau ko lākou wahi. I kēia manawa, lawe ka makuakāne i ke kuleana o ka makua kāne a me ka hoa. I kekahi manawa, liʻuliʻu kona hoʻoponopono ʻana. ʻO ka makuahine, ma waena o ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo, hiki ke loli ka nānā ʻana o kāna kāne i kekahi manawa. No laila e hoʻomanawanui…
ʻO ka hoʻomaka hou ʻana o ka pilina pili kāne hiki ke lilo i kumu. A laila ʻike nā kānaka a pau i ko lākou wahi ma ke ʻano he kāne a he wahine, he mea pono no ka male. Pono e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ka wahine ʻaʻole ʻo ia he makuahine wale nō. A hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia: nā pua pua, ka pāʻina aloha, nā makana kūpono ʻole… ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi e hoʻā hou i ka lapalapa a hoʻoikaika i nā pilina!
Pehea e pale aku ai i nā pēpē pēpē a ka makuakāne?
He mea nui e hana i ka manawa i ʻole e lilo kēia puʻuwai pōkole i ke kaumaha postnatal. Inā hoʻomau a ʻoi paha nā hōʻailona i kekahi mau mahina ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nīnau i kahi loea nāna e kōkua i ka makuakāne e lanakila i kēia ala paʻakikī a ʻike i ke kaulike kūpono ma waena o kāna kuleana makua a me ka hoa. Hiki i kekahi mau hui ke hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo a kuhikuhi paha iā ia i nā loea. ʻO kēia ka hihia o Māmā BluesʻAʻole kōkua wale ia i nā makuahine me nā pēpē pēpē. Kākoʻo pū ʻo ia i nā makuakāne.
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