Hoʻi i ke kula: ʻaʻole maʻemaʻe kaʻu keiki!

Kuʻu keiki, ʻaʻole naʻe maʻemaʻe no ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki kula

Ke kokoke mai nei ka hoʻomaka o ka makahiki kula a ʻaʻole maʻemaʻe kāu keiki. Pehea e hoʻolauna ai iā ia i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa potty me ka ʻole e hoʻokaumaha iā ia? ʻO Marielle Da Costa, kahu hānai ma PMI, hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo ...

Ma hea hiki, pono e hana malie. ʻO kēia ke kumu e aʻo ai ʻo Marielle Da Costa i nā mākua, inā hiki iā lākou, e hana i uka. "ʻIke au i ka nui o nā makuahine i hoʻokuʻu i nā mea āpau a hiki i ko lākou 3 mau makahiki, a laila ʻo ia ka hopohopo". Eia naʻe, mai hopohopo! Ma ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kekahi mau kuʻuna, hiki iā ʻoe ke maʻalahi i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maʻemaʻe o kāu keiki liʻiliʻi.

Maʻemaʻe: kamaʻilio me kāu keiki, me ka wikiwiki ʻole iā ia

Inā, he mau pule ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki kula, e ʻūhū mau ana kāu keiki i ka ipuhao, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā. ʻaʻohe kumu o ka wikiwiki ʻana iā ia. He mea pono ke kūkākūkā me ia me ka mālie. "ʻO ka hoʻomaha o nā mākua, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā keiki liʻiliʻi. Inā hopohopo ka poʻe mākua, manaʻo paha ke keiki, hiki iā ia ke ālai hou aku. He mea pono loa ia e hilinai iaia », wehewehe ʻo Marielle Da Costa. "E haʻi aku iā ia ua ulu ʻo ia i kēia manawa, a pono ʻo ia e hele i ka ipuhao a i ʻole ka lua." Hiki i nā keiki ke ʻeha liʻiliʻi o ka ʻōpū, nā pilikia ʻōpū liʻiliʻi. I kēia hihia, he mea nui ia e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia, e pāʻani i ke kūlana i mua o kāna keiki hiki ke hopohopo, "wahi a ka loea.

E noʻonoʻo pū wehe i ka diaper i ka lā, i na hora ala. “Pono nā mākua e lawe i kā lākou keiki i ka lumi ʻauʻau ma mua a ma hope o ka hiamoe. "Ma ka lawe ʻana i kēia reflex e ʻike nā keiki liʻiliʻi i nā mea e hana nei i loko o ko lākou kino", e kahakaha ana ʻo Marielle Da Costa. "Hoʻomaka mālie mākou, wehe i ka diaper i ka wā e ala ai, a laila i ka wā hiamoe a hope i ka pō. »Pono kāu keiki e ʻoluʻolu. Inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka ipuhao, makemake ʻo ia i kahi mea hoʻemi i ka halepaku i hiki ai iā ia ke manaʻo paʻa. “Inā maikaʻi lākou, e hauʻoli nō ke kamaliʻi i ka neʻe ʻana o ka ʻōpū a i ʻole ka mimi ʻana. “

Hiki i kaʻu keiki ke maʻemaʻe i loko o kekahi mau lā?

No ke kōkua ʻana i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e maʻemaʻe, akā e hāʻawi iā ia i ka hilinaʻi, mai kānalua Paipai iā ia (me ka hana ʻole i ka nui). "Ma waho aʻe o nā keiki i loaʻa i kahi pilikia physiological, hiki ke hana wikiwiki i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe. Ua oo na kamalii ma ka pae neurological, ua aoia ko lakou lolo, ua lawa wale no e iho i na oihana. A laila, me ka ʻike ʻole, hopohopo ke keiki i ka maʻemaʻe. No laila, aia i nā mākua ke hana iā lākou iho ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou keiki i ka mana kūʻokoʻa a haʻi iā lākou iho ʻaʻole lākou he pēpē. He maikai no hoie aʻo i ka manaʻo kūlike a ma luna o nā mea a pau, mai hoʻi i ke kau ʻana i ka diaper i ka lā, no ka laʻana, "wahi a Marielle Da Costa.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maʻemaʻe ma o ka pāʻani

I ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka potty, e hoʻomau kekahi mau keiki. Ma keia hihia, "he hoihoi paha ia pāʻani wai, ma ka hoohuli ana a hoopau i ka paipu, a i ole ma ka hoopiha ana a me ka hookahuli ana i na ipu iloko o ka wai auau, no ka la'ana. ʻO kēia ka mea e hiki ai i nā kamaliʻi ke hoʻomaopopo he hiki iā lākou ke hana like me ko lākou kino. Me ke kauwela, hiki i nā mākua me kahi māla ke lawe i ka manawa kūpono e hōʻike i kā lākou keiki pehea ka hana o ka hose kīhāpai, i ʻike lākou i ka hoʻomalu ʻana iā lākou iho ma luna o ko lākou kino.

Loaʻa i ka Maʻemaʻe: E ʻae ana i nā hemahema

I nā lā mua o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa potty, hiki i nā keiki ke komo i ka pants. Hiki i ka regression ke hōʻike iā ia iho i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki kula a i ʻole i nā lā mua o ke kula. A no ke kumu maikaʻi, hiki i kekahi mau keiki ke maʻalahi e hooikaika ma keia kaiapuni hou, ua kaawale kekahi poe mai ko lakou mau makua no ka manawa mua. Hiki nō naʻe nā pōʻino liʻiliʻi i ka wā e komo nui ai nā keiki i kā lākou pāʻani. I kēlā me kēia hihia, pono ʻole e " mai huhū, e ae aku i ka hemahema. He mea nui ia e hōʻike i nā kamaliʻihe kuleana ko kakou i na nawaliwali, ʻoiai e haʻi ana iā lākou i ka manawa aʻe e noʻonoʻo ai lākou e hele i ka lumi lua. ʻO ka mea hope loa, pono mākou e wehewehe iā lākou, e like me nā pākeke, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaha iā lākou iho ma nā wahi āpau, "wahi a ka loea.