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He aha ka mea pāʻani no ke keiki kīnā?
ʻO ke kuli, ka ʻike maka, ka liʻiliʻi o ka mākau kaʻa… ʻO kēlā me kēia maʻi o lākou, ulu aʻe nā pēpē kīnā a aʻo i ka wā e pāʻani ana. Pono nō e hāʻawi iā lākou i nā pāʻani i hoʻohālikelike ʻia ...
I kekahi manawa paʻakikī ke ʻike i ka mea pāʻani e kūʻai ai no kāu keiki. A ʻoi aku ka ʻoiaʻiʻo inā loaʻa iā ia kekahi kīnā ʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke koho ʻana i kahi pāʻani maikaʻi a leʻaleʻa no kāu pēpē me ka hoʻokomo ʻole iā ia i ka pilikia i mua o kona maʻi. He mea nui e hiki i ke keiki ke lawelawe e like me kona manao. Inā nawaliwali ʻo ia, pau ka hoihoi o ka pāʻani ... Eia naʻe, pono nā manawa pāʻani no ka ulu ʻana o nā pēpē. Ma waena o nā mea pāʻani palupalu a me nā mea pāʻani aʻo mua, ʻike lākou i ko lākou kino a me ka honua a puni lākou. Pēlā nō i nā pēpē me ke kino kīnā: ma ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī, hoʻohana lākou i ko lākou noʻonoʻo a ʻimi e hoʻopaʻi i kā lākou hemahema, ʻoi aku hoʻi i ka wā pāʻani. No ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe, e ʻike e hāʻawi nā paena e like me Ludiloo.be a i ʻole Hoptoys.fr i nā mea pāʻani i kūpono i nā keiki kīnā. Nā waihoʻoluʻu hoihoi, nā leo like ʻole, ka maʻalahi o ka lawelawe ʻana, ka launa pū ʻana, nā mea e hoʻopā ai, ʻala e honi…. E ʻoluʻolu, ʻaʻole i manaʻo wale ʻia kēia mau mea pāʻani "hana ʻia" no nā keiki me ke kino kīnā: hiki i nā pēpē āpau ke pōmaikaʻi iā lākou!
Pehea e pili ana i nā mea pāʻani "maʻamau"?
ʻAʻole pono ke kino kīnā o kāu keiki mai nā mea pāʻani kahiko. He mea kūpono paha nā mea he nui i ke keiki kīnā, ke mālama ʻia kekahi mau mea e mālama ai. ʻO ka mea mua, pono e koho i nā pāʻani e kūpono i nā kūlana ʻEulopa. A laila koho i ka huahana e like me ka maʻi o kāu keiki, me ka hooki ole i ka makahiki i hoikeia, aole hilinai mau e like me ka hiki o kau keiki. Ua ʻike ʻo Muriel, kekahi o kā mākou mea hoʻohana i ka Pūnaewele: "ʻO kaʻu kaikamahine 3 makahiki e pāʻani mau ana me nā mea pāʻani manuahi i kona wā hoʻokahi makahiki. I kēlā me kēia makahiki, loaʻa iā ia nā mea hou, akā ʻaʻole nui nā mea i kūpono i kāna mau pono ". Hoʻololi kāu keiki ma kona ʻano ponoʻī a he mea nui e nānā i kona holomua a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana āna e kālele nei i kāna mau hana (ka hele wāwae, ka ʻōlelo ʻana, nā mākau kaʻa maikaʻi, etc.). Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i kahi pāʻani e pili ana i kāna mau pono o kēia manawa. Eia naʻe, e makaʻala ʻaʻole e hāʻule i loko o kahi ʻano o ka hoʻoponopono koʻikoʻi, ʻoiai inā aia kāu keiki i ka mālama ʻana a ke kauka. ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻo kāna kumu aʻo a ʻaʻole hoʻi kāna ʻōlelo hoʻoponopono. I ka pāʻani, pono ka manaʻo o ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hoʻololi.
Inā pilikia maoli ʻoe i ke koho ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani, e koho i nā waiwai palekana e like me nā mea pāʻani palupalu, nā mea pāʻani palupalu, nā papa hana a me nā moena pāʻani e hoʻoulu ai, i kēlā me kēia hihia, nā manaʻo o kahi pēpē e ala ana.
He aha ka mea pāʻani e koho ai e like me ke kīnā o ke keiki?
He mea nui e koho i kahi mea pāʻani e pilikia ʻole ai kāu keiki a koho iā ia e like me kona maʻi:
- Paʻakikī i nā mākau kaʻa maikaʻi
Inā pilikia kāu keiki me kona mau lima, ʻoʻoleʻa ko lākou mau manamana lima liʻiliʻi a nele i ka maʻalahi, pono ʻoe e hoʻāla i ko lākou hoihoi. Makemake ʻoe i nā pāʻani maʻalahi e hopu, e paʻa i mea e hauʻoli ai ʻo ia i ka pāʻani me kona mau lima. ʻO nā pāʻani kūkulu, nā pāʻani manipulation a i ʻole nā puʻupuʻu e kūpono. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā puke lole a i ʻole nā mea pāʻani i nā mea like ʻole. E mahalo ana kāu pēpē i ka pili ʻana o kēia mau mea palupalu a hou.
- Nā pilikia lohe
Inā pilikia ka lohe ʻana o kāu keiki, e koho i nā mea pāʻani me nā leo like ʻole. A no ka nā pēpē kuli, pili i nā kala a me nā mea nani. No nā kamaliʻi me nā pilikia hoʻolohe, ʻo ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka ʻike a me ka hoʻopā ʻana ka mea nui. I loko o nā mahina, mai kānalua, e ʻimi i ka ʻono a me ka ʻala…
- Nā haunaele hihiʻo
Me ka ʻike ʻole, pono nā pēpē i ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi. E nānā i nā mea pāʻani e hoʻopā a hoʻomaha i nā kani e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia! I kēia hihia, pono ka launa pū ʻana i nā manawa pāʻani me kāu keiki liʻiliʻi. Mai kānalua e hoʻopā iā ia i nā mea pāʻani ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana a paipai iā ia.
- Paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio
Inā pilikia kāu pēpē i ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia iho a i ʻole ka launa pū ʻana me ka poʻe e puni ana iā ia, makemake i nā mea pāʻani e hāpai i ka kamaʻilio a me ka launa pū ʻana. ʻO nā mea pāʻani kani kahi āu e hana hou ai i nā huaʻōlelo e kōkua iā ia e kamaʻāina i nā leo. E noʻonoʻo pū i nā puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi me nā huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi e hui pū. ʻO ka mea hope loa, e hoʻohana nui ʻia nā mea hoʻopaʻa leo leo me ka microphone a i ʻole nā mea pāʻani palupalu pāʻani.
- Nā pilikia psychomotor
Mai nā pāʻani boules a hiki i ke kaʻa pāʻani, nui nā mea pāʻani e kōkua i nā pēpē me ke kino kīnā e ʻike i ko lākou kino a hoʻomohala i kā lākou mākau kaʻa me ka leʻaleʻa. ʻO nā mea hele wāwae, nā mea pāʻani huki, akā ʻo nā baluna pū kekahi e hāpai i kona hoʻomohala ʻana.