ʻO ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki e hoʻāʻo i ka ikaika o ke aloha ma waena o nā mākua.
I loko o ʻelua hapakolu o nā kāne, e hāʻule ana ka ʻoluʻolu me nā pilina ʻohana, e like me nā hopena o ka noiʻi, ke piʻi nui nei ka nui o nā paio, a nalowale ka pili o ka naʻau. Akā ʻo 33% o nā kāne ua māʻona kekahi i kekahi. Pehea lākou e hana ai? Pehea ka ʻokoʻa o nā kāne i pepehi ʻia mai nā kāne haku? I ka pane ʻana i kēia nīnau, ʻo John Gottman lāua ʻo Julie Schwartz-Gottman, nā mea hoʻokumu a me nā alakaʻi o ka Gottman Institute a me ka Seattle Center for Family Relations Research, hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hiki iā mākou ke lilo i "mau haku" ma ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā ala like a nā ʻohana kūleʻa e hoʻohana ai. . . Hāʻawi nā mea kākau i kahi ʻōnaehana ʻeono e kōkua i nā mākua e hauʻoli i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kā lākou keiki a me kekahi.
Mann, Ivanov a me Ferber, 288 p.