ʻO wai ka wahine hou? Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i nā hoʻonaʻauao kiʻekiʻe, e hana i kahi ʻoihana, e lilo i ʻoi aku ka kūleʻa ma mua o nā kāne he nui, akā i ka manawa like, ʻo nā koi no ka male, ʻohana a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻo ka wahine i ko mākou manawa ua lilo i kiʻekiʻe a ʻoi aku ka nui. ʻO ke kūʻokoʻa i manaʻo ʻole ʻia ua hoʻonele iā mākou i nā alakaʻi a me nā meaʻai i hana ʻia - pehea e lilo ai i wahine? E noʻonoʻo kākou!
Uaʻike pahaʻoe i ka manaʻo he "maʻalahi" nā mea a pau no ka wahine:ʻaʻohe kuleana,ʻaʻohe manawa kūpono no kaʻike pono'ī. E mālama i kāu kāne a me kāu mau keiki, mai noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kekahi kūleʻa kaiaulu. Ua wikiwiki wau e hoʻohilahila iā ʻoe: ʻaʻole i wehewehe pono ʻia ke kūlana o ka wahine i loko o ke kaiāulu.
ʻO nā wahine Viking he pūʻali koa piha. I ka feudal Iapana, ua hānai ʻia nā kaikamahine ma nā ʻohana samurai ma lalo o ke code Bushido like me nā keikikāne. ʻO nā ʻeli ʻana o nā lua kupapaʻu Scythian i hōʻike ʻia i waena o nā koa i māhele like ʻia nā kāne a me nā wahine, a he mau peʻa like ko lākou a pau a me nā ʻili kaua. I Roma kahiko, ua komo nā wāhine i nā hakakā gladiator ma ke kumu like me nā kāne. Pono hou nā laʻana?
A hiki i kēia lā ma ka honua hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kekahi ʻano o ka "maʻamau" o ka hoʻokō pono ʻana o ka wahine: polyandry ma Tibet, polygamy i ka Middle East, nā wahine i ka pūʻali koa ʻIseraʻela ... A pēlā aku a pēlā aku. No laila, manaʻo wau ʻaʻole e kālele i kekahi maʻamau - ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake nui. Akā, pehea lā mākou e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka manaʻo o ka wahine?
ʻO ka wahine ma ka pilina
ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia ka wahine i kekahi waiwai mau o ke kanaka, e like me ka nui a i ʻole ke kiʻekiʻe, akā he ʻano pilina. Pehea a no ke aha, no ka laʻana, e hōʻike i ka wahine ke noho ʻoe i kahi noho ʻoluʻolu a heluhelu i kahi puke? ʻO ka wahine ke ʻano o ka pilina a mākou e kūkulu ai me nā kāne hoihoi iā mākou, a ʻaʻole ia he mea kūʻē i ke kāne.
Pono ka wahine i ka pōʻaiapili
Pono ka wahine i ka pōʻaiapili. E like me nā kamaʻilio ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe he naʻaupō loa, aia kekahi mau kāne i ka pilina me ʻoe ʻaʻole like me ka wahine. A ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo he hewa kekahi o ʻoukou: ʻo ke kūlana wale nō.
Ma ka ʻoihana ʻoihana, ʻaʻole pono mākou i ka ʻike ʻia o nā hoahana a me nā hoa āpau me ka ʻole. Pēlā nō, ma ke ʻano o ka pilina, pono mākou i ka nānā a me ka ʻike wale ʻia mai nā kāne koʻikoʻi iā mākou. I kēia manaʻo, ʻo kou ʻano wahine kekahi mea hōʻailona o ke kāne kūpono. ʻO kou ʻano wahine e hilinaʻi ʻia ʻo wai ʻoe a ʻo wai nā kāne i mea nui iā ʻoe, a ma hope o ka manawa hiki ke hoʻololi: ʻo ka ʻike kūloko a me nā hōʻike waho.
ʻO ke ʻano o waho ka wahaheʻe o loko
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui i ka wahine i kāu kiʻi: nā haneli o nā makasina nani e kōkua iā ʻoe. Akā ʻo ka "hoʻolilo" iā ʻoe iho i wahine e like me ke ʻano i hāʻawi ʻia he ala kānalua.
E noʻonoʻo kākou ua loaʻa i kahi wahine a ʻike i ke ʻano o ka ʻaʻahu, nā kumuhana e kamaʻilio ai, pehea e neʻe ai i mea e kūpono ai i kekahi manaʻo kūpono o ka wahine, a me ia mea ua huki ʻo ia i ke kāne o kāna mau moeʻuhane. ʻEhia mau hola, lā, mahina e hoʻomau ai i kāna mea i hoʻomaka ai? ʻEhia ka māmā a me ka hauʻoli e lawe mai iā ia i kēia manawa? A he aha ka mea e hiki mai ana ma hope, ke ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kekahi lā: "ʻAʻole wau, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana hou i kēia!" E manaʻo ke kāne e kumakaia, ʻo ia - kumakaia iā ia iho.
ʻO kekahi o nā koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi no "kou" a "ʻaʻole kāu" kāne ʻo ia ke ʻano o kāna hana ʻana iā ʻoe ke hana maʻalahi a kūlohelohe ʻoe, ʻoiai e waiho ana iā ʻoe iho.
ʻO ka ʻimi ʻana i ka wahine
Me he mea lā ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kekahi o mākou ka pilikia o ka wahine. A pehea lā e hiki ʻole ai ke ola inā he cell wahine kēlā me kēia cell o ko mākou kino? A e like me ka ʻokoʻa o nā genes, ʻokoʻa nō hoʻi ko lākou hōʻike ʻana i ka helehelena, nā neʻe, nā ʻano.
ʻO ka nīnau wale nō pehea e lohe ai i ka leo o ko mākou ʻano ʻokoʻa, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ia ka leo nui loa a ʻo ke kahe ʻana o ka ʻike waho e hoʻopau pinepine iā ia. ʻO ka haʻawina "Pehea wau i ka wahine i kēia manawa?" e kōkua i kēia. ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hōʻailona hola kekahi o kaʻu punahele: hoʻomohala koke lākou i nā hana a mākou e manaʻo ai e hoʻomohala. He mea maʻalahi ke kumu o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa: ʻo ka mea a mākou e hoʻolohe ai e ulu a hoʻomaikaʻi.
E hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo i loko a nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau: Pehea koʻu manaʻo i kēia manawa?
No laila, e kiʻi iā ʻoe iho i uaki me ka hōʻailona hola a i ʻole e hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa ma kāu kelepona. I ka manawa o ka hōʻailona, e huli i kou manaʻo i loko a nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau: pehea koʻu manaʻo i kēia manawa? ʻAʻole ʻoi aku kēia hana ma mua o ʻekolu kekona: hoʻololi mākou i ka nānā, kali i ka pane mai ke kino a hoʻi i kā mākou ʻoihana.
Hana ia no ʻelua, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ʻekolu pule, a e kahaha ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka mālamalama a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia manaʻo - kou ʻano ʻokoʻa a me ka manaʻo o ka wahine.