ʻO wai ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻaʻole hiki i ka poʻe ʻelemakule ke aloha, aloha a loaʻa i nā huakaʻi? Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi penihana mai ʻAmelika ma kāna hiʻohiʻona i ka makahiki ʻeiwa o ke ola hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoluʻolu a ʻaʻole e hōʻole iā ʻoe iho i kekahi mea.
He 85 makahiki ʻo Hattie Retroudzh mai New York he ʻelua keiki a ʻekolu moʻopuna. Me he mea lā e hoʻolilo ʻo ia i kona manawa kūʻokoʻa a pau e "kūpono" i nā hana a ka poʻe ʻelemakule: ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka ʻohana, ka mahiʻai ʻana, ka ulana ʻana, ka kuke ʻana ... Akā naʻe, ua koho ka mea penihana i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. Hoʻopaʻa ka wahine i nā kāne ʻōpio, aʻo i nā mea kūʻai aku i nā pilikia pili, a kākau i kahi puke e pili ana i nā mea aloha.
Ua haʻalele ʻo Retrowedge i kāna kāne i ka makahiki 1984 i ke 48 o kona mau makahiki. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hauʻoli no ka hana liʻiliʻi o kāna kāne a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke uku no ke kula kula o nā keiki. A laila ua hoʻoholo paʻa ka wahine mai kēia manawa aku ʻo ia e launa pū me nā kāne ʻōpio.
Wahi a ia, ʻo nā hoa ma lalo o 40 mau makahiki, ʻaʻole like me kāna mau hoa, makemake nui a noʻonoʻo. Manaʻo lākou e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana a hana i nā hoʻolālā, a makemake ka mea penihana e kākoʻo iā lākou. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole kūpono nā kāne o kona mau makahiki i ka wahine, no ka mea, ʻaʻole lākou i maʻa i ka mālama ʻana i ka leʻaleʻa o kahi hoa a hiki i ka orgasm.
"ʻAʻole au i ʻike i kahi kanaka makemake ʻole e moe me aʻu"
I kekahi manawa, ua ʻimi ikaika ka mea penihana i nā mea aloha ma Tinder a hele i ʻekolu lā i ka pule. "ʻAʻole au i ʻike i kahi kāne ʻaʻole makemake e moe me aʻu," wahi āna.
Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole komo ʻo Retrouge i ka pilina me kēlā me kēia kanaka ʻōpio. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hoʻouna kekahi mau kāne i kahi e inu ai, a inā e holo ka uila ma waena o lāua, a laila hoʻi lāua i Retrouge, inā ʻaʻole, a laila hoʻopuehu maluhia lāua. I kekahi lā, ua hoʻolaha kekahi penihana i kahi hoʻolaha ma ka nūpepa, e ʻae ana ua makemake ʻo ia e moe me kahi kāne ma lalo o 35 mau makahiki. Ua loaʻa iā ia nā leka he nui mai ka poʻe i makemake.
I kekahi manawa, ulu ka wahine i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi. No laila, no kekahi manawa, hui ka wahine me John 39 makahiki. I ka makahiki 2018, ua ʻike pū ʻia lākou ma kahi hōʻike televise i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i nā kāne me kahi ʻokoʻa makahiki. Eia naʻe, ma hope koke iho o ke kiʻi ʻana, ua hoʻoholo ka kāne e haʻalele.
"ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke loaʻa nā haku wahine ʻōpio. Huli au i ka pāʻani
I kēia manawa, ua kūʻokoʻa hou ka puʻuwai o ka wahine ʻAmelika, akā aia ʻo ia i kahi pilikia i ʻike ʻole ʻia. Ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia kāna mau moʻokāki ma Tinder a me Match, no laila ke ʻimi nei ka mea penihana i ke aloha ma ka lawelawe Bumble. Ua loaʻa i ka nui o kāna mau hoaaloha ke aloha ma laila, ʻaʻole manaʻo ʻo Retrowedge e haʻalele iā lākou. "I nehinei ua kāhea mai kekahi kanaka ʻōpio o ʻIseraʻela iaʻu a ʻōlelo mai ua aloha ʻo ia iaʻu. Nani ka maikaʻi!» kaʻana like ʻo ia.
Eia kekahi, ua hoʻomaka ka penihana e hana i kahi autobiography, kahi āna i manaʻo ai e kapa ʻia ʻo "Chronicles of a Cougar". Manaʻo ka wahine e kōkua ana kāna ʻike i nā wahine kahiko ʻē aʻe e komo i ka pilina me nā ʻōpio. "ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke loaʻa nā haku wahine ʻōpio. Ua huli au i ka pāʻani!” Hoʻoikaika ʻo Retrowedge.
He aha kāna ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i nā wahine makemake e manaʻo i ka sexy i ka wā makua? He mea maʻalahi kāna meaʻai: pono ʻoe e masturbate, e nānā i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni erotic, kākoʻo i kahi hoa a mai poina e pili ana i ka hana kino. A laila ʻo ke ola wahine a ma hope o 80 mau makahiki ma luna!