Hana ʻia i kekahi manawa i nā kāne e kū koke ka ejaculation ma mua o ka makemake o hoʻokahi. Kapa ʻia kēia ejaculation premature, a i ʻole premature. He aha kēia maʻi ma muli a he aha nā ala e hoʻolohi i ka manawa o ka ejaculation?

ʻO ka ejaculation ma mua ka hana maʻamau maʻamau i nā kāne. ʻO ka hopena i ka hiki ʻole ke kaohi i ka manawa o kāna ejaculation, a laila wikiwiki aʻe ma mua o ka makemake. He mea maʻamau kēia maʻi, keu hoʻi i waena o nā kāne ʻōpio, i ka hoʻomaka o ko lākou ola moekolohe. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e aʻo e hoʻokele i kāu ejaculation a no laila e kāohi i ka "manawa" o ia, pono ʻoe i kahi ʻike a ʻike pehea e kaohi ai i kou leʻaleʻa. 'Lelo mākou e pili ana i ka ejaculation ma mua o 3 mau minuke ma mua o ka hoʻomaka o ka stimulate o ka peni (ma o ka penetration, masturbation a fellatio paha). Ma waena o 3 a me 5 mau minuke, hiki iā mākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi ejaculation "wikiwiki", akā ʻaʻole wikiwiki. ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻaʻole ka ejaculation ma mua i ka hana kino a i ʻole physiological, a no laila e mālama maʻalahi ʻia.

ʻO ka ejaculation ma mua ʻaʻole ia he maʻi ʻaʻole hoʻi he make. ʻOiai, me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo āpau e hoʻokele maikaʻi i kou pīhoihoi a pēlā e kaohi ai i ka manawa ke ejaculate ʻoe. Hiki i ka mea hoʻoponopono moekolohe ke lilo i ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi, a kōkua iā ʻoe e wehewehe pū i nā ʻenehana e hana i kou leʻaleʻa a kūleʻa i ka hoʻolohi ʻana ke hiki mai ka manawa. Pēlā nō, he mea nui ʻaʻole e hilahila a kūkā kamaʻilio. ʻO ka ejaculation ma mua i kekahi manawa ma muli o ke koʻikoʻi a i ʻole ka nui o ke kaomi i ka wā o ka moekolohe, kahi e wikiwiki ai i ke kaʻina hana a hoʻonui i ka leʻaleʻa me ka wikiwiki loa. No laila hiki i kēia ke kūkākūkā i loko o kāu pilina a i ʻole me kāu mau moekolohe wahine, i mea e loaʻa ai nā hopena.

Aia nā wehewehe ʻokoʻa, psychological, no kēia ʻano moekolohe. ʻO ka mea mua, a me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻohe ʻike a i ʻole "makaʻu pae". I ka wā o ka moekolohe mua, pinepine ka leʻaleʻa he paʻakikī e "pale" iā ia. Hoʻohui ʻia, ʻike ʻia ka ejaculation ma ke ʻano he hoʻomaha i nā kāne: no laila, inā ikaika loa ke kaomi, hiki i ka lolo ke hoʻouna i ke kauoha e ejaculate, ma mua. No laila, stress, hopohopo a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa kolohe hou ke kumu. Pēlā nō, trauma trauma, e like me kahi ʻike moekolohe maikaʻi, hoʻomanaʻo a i ʻole haʻalulu manaʻo hiki ke kumu o kēia maʻi. ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ke alapine o ka moekolohe ke pili pū kekahi: pinepine ʻole, a i ʻole laha ʻole, hoʻonui ka pilina i ka makaʻu o ka ejaculation pinepine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka nui o kā mākou hana ʻana i ke aloha i nā manawa āpau, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ke kūkulu ʻana.

Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau hana e hoʻopaneʻe i ka ejaculation. ʻO ka mea mua e hana i ka foreplay hope loa i mea e mākaukau maikaʻi ai a aʻo e hoʻokele i kou pīhoihoi. Pēlā nō, nā keikikāne kahi o ke kāne ma luna e pono ai ka pono, i hiki ai ke hoʻolohi i ke ala ke ʻike ʻo ia i ka pīhoihoi e piʻi wikiwiki ana. ʻO ke ʻenehana "kū a hele", ʻo ia hoʻi ke kū nei i ka neʻe ʻana, hiki ke maikaʻi i ka pale ʻana i ka ejaculation. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā manawa iki i kahi kumuhana ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaha ai i kou huhū moekolohe. E noʻonoʻo i ka hopena, ʻo kahi ʻenehana hope loa e kaomi i ka frenulum, aia ia ma lalo o nā glans, ʻoiai ke kaomi paʻa ʻana i ke kumu o ka peni. E hoʻomaka kēia kuhi e hōʻoki i ke ʻano physiological o ka ejaculation.

Inā makemake ʻoe e kaohi i kāu ejaculation a hana i kou kūkulu ʻana i ka lōʻihi e like me ka hiki, ʻo ka lula gula ke ʻike pehea e kaohi ai i kou leʻaleʻa. ʻOiai, ke kokoke kahi i ka orgasm, hiki i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole mamao loa ka ejaculation. No laila, inā ʻoe e manaʻo e hoʻokokoke ana ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa nui, e hoʻolohi a i ʻole hoʻokū loa i nā neʻe no kekahi manawa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i ka manawa kūpono e kia i kāu hoa, ma ke kālele ʻana a me ka honi ʻana iā ia, a pēlā e hoʻomaha ai i ke kaomi i kēia manawa. ʻO ka manaʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole e lilo i ka pīhoihoi āpau, akā e hoʻoponopono iā ia. ʻO ka hope loa, ʻo kahi ejaculation i ʻike ʻia e ka wā ma mua e ʻaʻole paha pēlā e kāu hoa. Inā manaʻo ʻolua he manawa ko ʻolua e hiki aku ai i ka orgasm i ka wā o ka moekolohe, a laila ʻaʻohe wahi o ka panikō: ʻaʻole hoʻokūkū ka wahine!