ʻIke ʻia ʻo nā noi e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻololi i ko lākou helehelena i makemake nui ʻia i waena o nā mea hoʻohana ʻōpio loa. A ʻo ke ʻoki pololo uila. A hoʻonāukiuki kēia i ka poʻe loea.
ʻO nā helehelena nani i Snapchat, nā wahine ʻōpio maka nunui a maka ma hope o ka hana ʻana ma Meitu, hana ʻia kahi make-up kupaianaha ma kāu kelepona paʻalima ... No ke aha he maikaʻi ʻole. Akā manaʻoʻiʻo nā kānaka noiʻi mai ke Kulanui o Manchester i kēlā me kēia.
Ua koi ʻia ka Bioethics Council e puhi me ke aloha ʻole i nā noi āpau a me nā pāʻani pūnaewele e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻololi i kou helehelena me ka hao wela ʻulaʻula mai nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. Wahi a ka poʻe akamai, ʻo nā keiki ka mea kūʻai nui o ia mau noi.
"Ua pīhoihoi mākou i ka ʻike ʻana i ka hana make-up a me nā ʻoki lula e kuhikuhi ana i nā kaikamahine i ka piha ʻana o ʻewalu a ʻumi paha makahiki," wahi a Jeanette Edwards, he polofesa no ka nohona anthropology ma ke Kulanui o Manchester nāna i alakaʻi ke aʻo.
ʻO kēia mau noi āpau he manawa kūpono. A ʻo ke kumu e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kaikamahine e hoʻololi maoli i ko lākou helehelena ka hoʻolaha ʻana a me ka gloss.
"Ua hoʻolahalaha ka pāpāho kaiapili i nā manaʻo kūpono ʻole a hoʻokae pinepine e pili ana i ka pehea e nānā ai ka poʻe, keu hoʻi i nā kaikamahine a me nā wahine." ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ke polopeka ma aneʻi.
Hoʻoweliweli nui ʻia nā loea e ka mea pāʻani “Surgeon Pahu” a me kona mau pōhaku he nui. ʻAe iā ʻoe e hoʻololi i kou helehelena - ke alo a me ke kino. Aia kekahi mau noi ʻē aʻe e hāʻawi nei e hana i kahi nani mai kahi moʻo nui e hoʻohana ana i ka palekiko like. I ke kūlana o kahi moʻo nui - kahi kaikamahine me nā niho kekeʻe a me ke kaupaona. A he mea pono ke hoʻouna iā ia ma lalo o ka pahi, ke hoʻololi ʻia kahi nani.
"A ʻo kēia mau mea a pau no ka makemake! Manaʻo ka poʻe e lawe mai ka nani iā lākou i ka hauʻoli, e kūleʻa ai lākou, "wahi a Jeanette Edwards.
A ʻo nā mea kaulana pū kekahi. ʻO Kylie Jenner, ke kaikuahine o Kim Kardashian, ʻaʻole hūnā i ka mea i ka makahiki 19 ua hoʻololi hou ʻo ia i kona helehelena. Akā kūleʻa ʻo ia. A, me he mea lā ma waho, me ka hana ʻole ʻana i loko. A ʻo kahi hopena, e like me ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe loea, ua ʻaneʻane nā keiki mai kahi moe e moeʻuhane i ka plastic i mea e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kā lākou mea kūpono. Mai aneʻi he kiola pōhaku ia i nā neuroses, bulimia me ka anorexia a me nā mea ʻino ʻē aʻe. A me he mea lā, he helehelena nani wale nō.
ʻO kahi ʻike ʻē aʻe
ʻO Natalia Gabovskaya, ka hoʻoponopono o ka kolamu "Kamaliʻi":
- E hoʻokaʻina koke wau - he keiki kaʻu, he kaikamahine ʻōpio. A ke manaʻo nei wau ua lawe loa ʻia ka tantrum a puni ka pāpili kaiaulu. "Whale Blue"? ʻAe, e kala mai iaʻu, ʻaʻole kahi keiki hoʻokahi i loaʻa nā mea āpau ma ka home e hoʻolei iā ia iho ma luna o ka hale ma 4:20, no ka mea e "zombifying" ana kekahi iā ia ma laila. ʻO kahi keiki, mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ua haʻi ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia he nani, kupanaha a kupaianaha hoʻi ia, ʻaʻole e moemoeā e ʻoki a kūkulu paha i kekahi mea. A i ʻole ʻaʻole ʻoe e wehewehe i nā kamaliʻi i nā pūnaewele a he aha nā mea ola e noho ai iā lākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe he pēpē wale nō ia akā ʻaʻole ia he kumu hoʻohālike?
Hiki iā ʻoe ke luku i ka ʻoihana nani, e hana ana i kahi ʻoihana o ka honua i loko waiwai. A hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu kanaka liʻiliʻi e manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho a aloha iā ʻoe iho. A i ʻole makemake mākou e luku i ka makemake i nā keiki e lilo i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ikaika, a nani hoʻi? Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e kāpae i nā pilikia āpau a hiki ʻole hoʻi mai ka honua waho. A hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou a pale aku iā lākou. A i ʻole makemake mākou e ulu i kahi mea kanu hoʻomehana honua e puhi ʻia e ka makani mua?
E alo alo ana nā keiki i ka honua i waho, me kona mau kūlana o ka nani a me ka kūleʻa. A ke hoʻomohala nei lākou i kahi neurosis i ka maka o kēia mau kumuhana āpau ʻaʻole paha e pili iā mākou wale nō.
A me nā noi - Na ke Akua e hoʻopōmaikaʻi iā lākou. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka make-up ma mua o kaʻu hoʻonani ponoʻī, hamo ʻia i kahi e hiki ai.