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He aha ka hypersensitivity?
E like me ka inoa o ka inoa, hypersensitivity 'o ia hoʻi, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ka awelika sensitivity, exacerbated. I loko o ka noʻonoʻo, ua wehewehe ʻia kēia manaʻo i ka makahiki 1996 e ka ʻAmelika ʻepekema ʻepekema ʻo Elaine Aron. Ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo "kanaka pīhoihoi loa”, ʻO ia hoʻi a kanaka ko'iko'i loa, e koho i nā kānaka me ka naʻau kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ka maʻamau. Ua manaʻo ʻia kēia mau huaʻōlelo he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ma mua o ka huaʻōlelo "supersensitive”, A no laila makemake ʻia e nā psychologists loea i ke kumuhana.
Wahi a ka noiʻi hou loa e pili ana i ka hypersensitivity, pili kēia ʻano 15 a 20% o ka heluna kanaka puni honua. A ʻoiai, ʻaʻole ʻokoʻa nā keiki.
Nā ʻano: pehea e ʻike ai i ka hypersensitivity i nā keiki?
ʻO ka hypersensitivity, i kapa ʻia hoʻi ka naʻau kiʻekiʻe a i ʻole ka ultrasensitivity, e hopena i kēia mau ʻano:
- he ola loko waiwai a paʻakikī, he noʻonoʻo nui;
- ka hoʻoneʻe ʻia ʻana e ka hana noʻeau (he pena, mele, etc.);
- e lilo ana i palapu ke nānā ʻia;
- ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻouluʻana a iʻole ka hoʻouluʻia e nā manaʻo, nā loli, nā mea hoʻoulu nui (mālamalama, kani, lehulehu, a pēlā aku);
- pilikia i ka hana nui a i ʻole ke koho ʻana;
- ka hiki ke hoʻolohe i nā mea ʻē aʻe, e ʻike i nā mea maʻalahi o kahi kūlana a i ʻole kekahi kanaka.
Loaʻa i kahi keiki koʻikoʻi: pehea e hōʻike ʻia ai ka hypersensitivity i nā keiki a me nā pēpē?
No ka mea he nui nā ʻohana o ka hypersensitivity i nā keiki, hiki ke lawe i nā ʻano like ʻole. Hiki i ke keiki ko'iko'i loa, no ka la'ana e haalele loa, e hoopilimeaai, a i ole ia hōʻike nui e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, aneane like ka nui o nā hypersensitivities e like me nā hypersensitive.
Eia nō naʻe, ua ʻike maikaʻi nā keiki psychologist hypersensitivity i kekahi mau ʻano a me nā ʻano ʻano i nā keiki hypersensitive e kōkua i ka hana ʻana i ka "diagnosis".
Ma kāna hana "Paʻa loa kaʻu keiki", Ua helu ʻo Kauka Elaine Aron i nā ʻōlelo he 17, kahi e manaʻo ai nā mākua i ka hypersensitivity i kā lākou keiki e pane"he mea oiaio"A i ʻole"wahahee".
No laila, makemake ke keiki hypersensitive lele maʻalahi, ʻaʻole mahalo i nā haʻohaʻo nui, e loaʻa i kahi ʻano ʻakaʻaka a me nā huaʻōlelo i kūpono i kona mau makahiki, e loaʻa i kahi intuition hoʻomohala loa, e e nīnau i nā nīnau he nui, pilikia i ke koho koke ana, e loaa pono manawa maliee ʻike i ka ʻeha kino a i ʻole ka manaʻo o kekahi kanaka, e ʻoi aku ka lanakila ma kahi hana inā ʻaʻohe malihini i laila, e makaʻala loa i ka ʻeha, e noʻonoʻo nui i nā mea a i ʻole pilikia ʻia e ka walaʻau a / a i ʻole nā wahi hana, malamalama loa.
Inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu keiki ma kēia mau ʻōlelo a pau, ʻo ia ke koho palekana he hypersensitive ʻo ia. Akā, e like me kā Kauka Aron, hoʻokahi wale nō a ʻelua paha mau ʻōlelo e pili ana i ke keiki akā he mea koʻikoʻi loa ia, a he ʻano koʻikoʻi kēlā keiki.
I loko o kahi pēpē, hypersensitivity e ʻike nui ʻia e kona pane ʻana i ka walaʻau, ka māmā, ka hopohopo makua, nā ʻili ma kona ʻili a i ʻole ka mahana o ka ʻauʻau.
Pehea e kākoʻo ai, mālie a hele pū me kahi keiki hypersensitive e mālama i kona mau manaʻo?
ʻO ka mea mua, he mea koʻikoʻi e hoʻomanaʻo, e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia e ka psychoanalyst Saverio Tomasella i kāna puke " Kōkua au i kaʻu keiki hypersensitive e ulu ", kēlā "He mea nui ka ultrasensitivity i nā kamaliʻi”. E pili ana ia i nā pēpē a me nā keiki a pau a hiki i ka 7 makahiki a ʻoi aku paha, no ka mea e ola mau ana, a i ʻole "naoh” ma hope.
Ma mua o ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i kahi keiki hypersensitive, a i ʻole ke kono ʻana iā lākou e uhi i kēia naʻau kiʻekiʻe, kahi e hoʻokaʻawale hou ai iā lākou, Ua paipai ikaika ʻia e kōkua i ke keiki e hoʻomaʻamaʻa a mālama i kēia ʻano.
No ka laʻana, hiki iā mākou:
- kono i ke keiki e wehewehe i kona mau manaʻo me nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā pāʻani pāʻani,
- mahalo i kona pono manawa malie ma hope o kahi hana walaʻau a i ʻole i kahi hui, i loko ona ka pale ʻana i ka hoʻoulu nui ʻole (laʻana: kūʻai ma hope o ka lā lōʻihi ma ke kula ...),
- kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou naʻau a me ka hypersensitivity ma o laudatory ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole, hoʻomanaʻo iā ia nā ʻano o kēia ʻano (no ka laʻana, kona ʻano kikoʻī a me ka nānā ʻana),
- wehewehe iā ia hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i kēia hiʻohiʻona i mea ikaika,
- E kōkua iā ia e ʻike i kona manaʻo haʻihaʻi a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea e pale aku ai i ka wā e hiki mai ana,
- e kōkua iā ia e kū i nā loli me ka nui o ka maluhia e like me ka hiki…
Ma ka lima 'ē aʻe, ka mea,ʻaʻole i paipai 'ia e hoohalike i ka hypersensitive keiki me ka mea'ē aʻe i ole, no ka laʻana i loko o ka ia kaikunāne, a me keia ina paha he mea hoohenehene, no ka mea, aole hiki keia hoohalike ana. hiki a hiki ke pilikia loa i ke keiki.
I ka pōkole, ʻo ka huaʻōlelo kiaʻi no ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i kahi keiki hypersensitive ʻaʻole kānalua ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻi a me ka Montessori philosophy he mea kōkua nui i ke keiki ultra-sensitive.
kumu:
- Paʻa loa kaʻu keiki, na Elaine Aron, e hookuu ia 26/02/19;
- Kōkua au i kaʻu keiki hypersensitive e ulu aʻe, na Saverio Tomasella, i paʻi ʻia ma Pepeluali 2018