😉 Aloha mai ka poʻe a pau i hele mai i ka pūnaewele! E nā hoaaloha, "Aia kekahi poʻe e haʻi mai iaʻu. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo e haʻi mai nā poʻe like iaʻu e pili ana iā ʻoe. ” ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo ʻōlelo. Mai komo kākou i loko o ka ʻōlelo ʻōhumu. Pehea e pane aku ai i ka namu?
He aha ka ʻōhumu
He mea leʻaleʻa i kekahi manawa ke kamaʻilio wale a "holoi i nā iwi" o nā hoa pili i loko o kahi pōʻai o nā hoaaloha. Ma kahi hui, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā hoa hana. Akā ma ke ʻano like, ʻōlelo ʻē kekahi e pili ana iā mākou, a ʻaʻole maikaʻi kēia. No laila, pono ʻoe e kau iā ʻoe iho ma kahi o ka mea e kūkākūkā ʻia nei.
Ke haʻi aku nei au he hewa nō hoʻi au, ʻaʻole he ʻokoʻa. Akā, ke ulu nei au, lilo i mea naʻauao, hilinaʻi i ka ʻike ola, hana liʻiliʻi i nā hewa. Me ʻoe, hana wau i ka hoʻomohala ʻana iā ʻoe iho. I kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka ʻōlelo a me ke ʻano o ka pane ʻana i ia.
He ʻino ka haʻihaʻi, ʻoiai he PR no ka mea kaulana. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka haʻihaʻi ʻana, ʻaʻole pili i ka mea i hoʻopilikia ʻia. ʻO ka "Gossip" mai ka huaʻōlelo "ulana," akā ʻaʻole hiki ke ulana ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka haʻihaʻi he lono e pili ana i kekahi, kekahi mea, maʻamau i hoʻokumu ʻia i ka ʻike pololei ʻole a ʻike ʻole paha i ka ʻike i hana ʻia. Synonyms: ʻōhumu, rumor, speculation.
ʻO ka pinepine, ʻo ʻoe iho, me ka ʻike ʻole, lilo i mea hoʻolaha e pili ana iā ʻoe iho. A laila hele hou kēia mau lono, e loaʻa i nā "mea kikoʻī" hou.
No ke aha ka ʻōhumu? Pehea e wehewehe ai? Ua maʻa nā kānaka i ka hoihoi i kekahi i kekahi, e kaʻana like i ko lākou hauʻoli a me ke kaumaha. A laila hoʻomaka ke kapa ʻia nā hōʻike ʻuhane i nā nūhou hou loa mai ke ola o nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa.
Ke ʻōlelo ʻino ka poʻe, ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻo ma ka haʻi wahaheʻe ʻana a i ʻole ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mea huna o kekahi, hiki iā lākou ke pau ka hilinaʻi iā lākou iho no ka wā pau ʻole. ʻO ke kanaka e hoʻolilo i ka manawa nui e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe - ola i ke ola o haʻi, ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia iho.
Nā Hua'ōlelo Gossip
- "Ua lohe au i ka ʻōlelo hōʻino iā ʻoe a ʻaʻohe oʻu kanalua: he kanaka kupanaha ʻoe!" ʻO Oscar Wilde
- "ʻO ka moekolohe i hōʻoia maikaʻi ʻia ma ka puʻuwai o kēlā me kēia ʻōlelo ʻōlelo." ʻO Oscar Wilde
- "Inā maikaʻi ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana iā ʻoe, a laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻoe." ʻO Oscar Wilde
- “E ʻōlelo i kahi mea maikaʻi e pili ana i kekahi a ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe. Akā e kōkua ke kūlanakauhale holoʻokoʻa i ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi lono hoʻopunipuni. " ʻO Harold robbins
- "Aia mau ka poʻe e wikiwiki e hoʻolaha i ka ʻōlelo ʻōlelo. ʻAʻole ʻike ka hapa nui o lākou i ke ʻano o ia mea. ” ʻO Harold robbins
- "No ke aha e loaʻa ai i kahi kāne nā hoaaloha inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kūkākūkā ākea iā lākou?" Truman Capote
- "ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kaumaha, ʻaʻohe mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kahi kamaʻāina liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻino." ʻO Jody Picoult
- “Inā ʻakaʻaka lākou iā ʻoe, ʻo ia hoʻi ke ola nei ʻoe a hoʻopilikia i kekahi. Makemake ʻoe e hana i kahi mea nui i ke ola? Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo e loaʻa i kāu kumu nā kākoʻo a me nā hoa paio. ” Evelina Khromchenko
- "Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ka nūhou, i haʻi ʻia ma kahi huna, ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki ma mua o ka nūhou." Yuri Tatarkin
- "No ke aha e hoʻohewa ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe? E noʻonoʻo pinepine iā ʻoe iho. E kau ʻia kēlā me kēia keiki hipa e kona huelo ponoʻī. He aha kāu e mālama ai i nā huelo ʻē aʻe? ” St. Matrona Moscow
- "Inā ʻōlelo ʻoe i nā mea ʻino e pili ana i ka poʻe, ʻoiai inā pololei ʻoe, ʻino kou loko." Saadi
- "Makemake ka lehulehu e manaʻoʻiʻo i nā lono maikaʻi ʻole ma mua o ka maikaʻi." Sarah Bernhardt
- "ʻO nā pilikia a pau a kou ʻenemi hewa e hōʻike ai i kou alo he mea ʻole. Hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā mea a kāu mau hoaaloha e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana iā ʻoe ma hope o kou kua. ” ʻO Alfred de Musset
- "ʻAʻole e ʻeha ka pahi ʻoi e like me ka ʻeha wahaheʻe me ka ʻōlelo ʻino." ʻO Sebastian Brunt
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