PSYchology

ʻO ke kope "He kanaka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻoe!" hoʻokokoke a kokoke e lilo i mea hōʻino. Me he mea lā makemake ka poʻe me ka manaʻo ʻole e hoʻomaha iā lākou iho ma ka hoʻohenehene ʻana i ka poʻe i haʻalele ʻole i ka ʻimi ʻana iā lākou ...

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i mākaukau e hāʻawi i ka hopena, ua kapa ʻia ʻoe he idealist: ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, he moeʻuhane pono ʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa, kahi ʻano pōʻino me kahi manaʻo. I kēia manawa, ʻo ka poʻe i loaʻa nā manaʻo e hoʻololi i ka honua, a i ka manawa like ʻaʻole lākou he "ideologists".

He manaʻo noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo?

ʻO ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo ka mea e noho pio ana i ka «loiloi o hoʻokahi manaʻo." A ʻo ka mea idealist, ma kahi ʻē aʻe, e hakakā nei e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma ka inoa o kāna kūpono. No laila, inā ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka mana o nā manaʻo: wahine, humanism, liberalism, Buddhism, Christianity - e wikiwiki e ʻike inā ke alakaʻi nei ka mea maikaʻi iā ʻoe i ke ola a i ʻole ʻoe e paʻa i ka manaʻo.

He ho'āʻo maʻalahi loa kēia. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike pono i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana o ka manaʻoʻiʻo i ka mea maikaʻi i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā, a laila he mea maikaʻi maikaʻi ʻoe. Inā ʻōlelo wale ʻoe he mau manaʻoʻiʻo kou, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ke ʻano o kou manaʻoʻiʻo i ka holomua, a laila aia ʻoe i ka pōʻino o ka neʻe ʻana i ka manaʻo.

ʻO nā pepehi kanaka nui o ke kenekulia XNUMX i hana ʻia e nā ideologues, ʻaʻole nā ​​mea idealists. ʻO kahi Karistiano e hele ana i ka hale pule i ka lā Sābati, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā waiwai Karistiano ma ka papaʻaina, a i ka wā e alakaʻi ʻole ʻia ai kāna ʻoihana e ke aloha i kona hoalauna, ʻaʻole ia he idealist, akā he ideologist. ʻO ka wahine i kēlā me kēia manawa e ʻōlelo ai he wahine ʻo ia, akā hoʻomau i ka lawelawe ʻana i kāna kāne a lawe i nā hana a pau o ka hale, ʻaʻole ia he idealist, he manaʻo kona.

Hana a ʻōlelo paha?

Ma kahi ʻano, loaʻa mākou i ka kānalua ke kamaʻilio nui mākou e pili ana i nā waiwai a mākou e paʻa ai. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho ʻana e like me kēia mau loina, e hoʻokō i ia mau mea, ma mua o ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana. No ka mea paha mākou i manaʻo nui e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou ʻaʻole mākou e unuhi i nā waiwai i nā hana i lawa a ʻike mākou iā mākou iho?

Hoʻopaʻi mākou no ka nele o nā hana me ka nui o nā huaʻōlelo: ka hoʻohana kaumaha ʻana i ka ʻōlelo, a ma kēia hihia e lilo i huaʻōlelo ʻole.

A ʻo ka hope: e lilo i idealist maoli ʻo ia ke aloha i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a hiki i nā mea liʻiliʻi loa no ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, e aloha e neʻe i mua ma ke ala o ka holomua, ʻoiai inā he ala lōʻihi.

ʻO ke kaula paʻa o ka idealism

Ua ʻike maopopo ka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻo kāna kumu he manaʻo wale nō, a ʻokoʻa ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ia ke kumu e hiki ai i kā lākou hālāwai ke nani loa: hiki ke loli ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka wā e pili ana i ka mea kūpono, a ʻo ia hoʻi.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki i ka mea idealist, ʻaʻole like me ka ideologist, hiki ke hoʻoponopono i kāna kūlana ma muli o ka pilina me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.

E hoʻololi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma ka inoa o ka mea kūpono: ʻo ia ka mea a Max Weber i kapa ai i ka "ethics of persuasion." A ʻo ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka manaʻo kūpono e pili ana me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "ethics of responsibility."

Pono kēia mau ʻāpana ʻelua e lilo i kanaka hana, he mea hoʻokō kuleana. No ka noho ʻana ma kēia uea paʻa, ma kēia ʻano gula ma waena o ka manaʻo a me ka hoʻolohe.

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