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ʻO ka hoa aloha: no ke aha e piʻi ai nā keiki me kahi makuahine ʻokoʻa
ʻ saylelo nā psychologists ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo mau nā keiki i nā hoaaloha fiction. ʻIke ʻole ʻia.
Wahi a ka noiʻi, loaʻa pinepine nā keiki i nā hoa kuhi manaʻo ma waena o nā makahiki ʻekolu a ʻelima paha. Hiki ke lōʻihi ke "launa ʻana" a hala nā makahiki he 10-12. ʻO ka pinepine, nā poʻe hoaaloha ʻike ʻole ʻia ka poʻe. Akā ma kahi o 40 pākēneka o nā hihia, noʻonoʻo nā keiki i nā ʻuhane, nā mea kaʻao kaʻao, nā holoholona - nā ʻīlio, ma ke ala, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o nā pōpoki i hoa. Kapa ʻia kēia hanana ʻo Carlson's syndrome.
ʻLelo nā loea ʻaʻohe pono e hopohopo e pili ana i nā hoa kuhihewa. ʻAʻole hele mai kahi keiki me lākou no ka mea mehameha ʻo ia. Akā i kekahi manawa ʻaʻohe mea pāʻani pū kekahi, i kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e haʻi i kekahi i ka "mea huna weliweli loa", a i kekahi manawa he hoa ʻike ʻole ʻia kahi mana pono o ʻoe a i ʻole ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻohe mea hewa o kēia, a me ka makahiki, e poina nō ke keiki i ka hoa kuhihewa.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he hua hoʻohui kā ka f fiction: e hoʻolohe ana i nā kūlana a kāu keiki e noho nei me kahi hoa aloha, e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i ka pilikia āna e hopohopo nei i kēia manawa. Malia paha pono ʻo ia i kahi pale, maluhiluhi paha ʻo ia, a i ʻole manawa paha e loaʻa kāna pipi. A ʻo ia hoʻi - he aha nā ʻano e manaʻo ai ke keiki he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka mea nui.
ʻO Blogger Jamie Kenny, ua aʻo ʻo ia i kāna kaikamahine he hoa aloha ʻike ʻole ʻia - ʻo Creepy Polly, he iwi iwi ia, ʻai ʻo ia i nā spider a aloha iā Halloween - ua hoʻoholo e nīnauele i nā mākua ʻē aʻe a ʻike me nā "hoa aloha" o nā keiki ʻē aʻe. ʻAno hoʻomākeʻaka nā hopena.
Mai ka deragona a kaʻuhane
"He lele Pixie unicorn kaʻu kaikamahine. Lele pū like lākou. He pēpē kā Pixie, kahi kamaliʻi unicorn i kapa ʻia ʻo Croissant. Ua liʻiliʻi ʻo ia, no laila ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lele. “
"E pāʻani ana kaʻu kaikamahine me kahi deragona liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi. I kēlā me kēia lā he ʻano hoʻokipa kā lākou, ʻokoʻa mau. I hoʻokahi manawa ua hoʻopakele lākou i ke keiki aliʻi a me ke kamāliʻiwahine i kahi nahele hohonu. He unahi a ʻākala a poni hoʻi ka deragona, i hoʻonani ʻia me nā pōhaku makamae. I kekahi manawa lele kekahi hoaaloha deragona iā ia.
“He nahesa nā hoaaloha a kaʻu kaikamahine! Nui a haneli lākou. ʻIke lākou i ka hoʻokele kaʻa. I kekahi manawa hoʻonohonoho ke kaikamahine i nā haʻawina aʻo inā hewa ka nahesa. “
"Ua haʻi mai kaʻu kaikamahine iaʻu he hoa kāna kāna e ʻike ʻole ai, a huhū mai kēlā iaʻu. Ua hoʻoholo wau e nīnau iā ia i kona ʻano. Ua lilo ia i manō keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo, ʻo Didi kona inoa, a hele ʻāhi loa ʻo ia. “
"He hoaaloha kā kaʻu kaikamahine - he pōpoki ʻuhane i kapa ʻia ʻo TT. ʻOlokaʻa kaʻu kaikamahine iā ia ma kahi kowali a hoʻolei pinepine i kāna mau hana maʻa iā ia. “
Kūlanakauhale holoʻokoʻa
“ʻAʻohe o kaʻu kaikamahine he hoaaloha e like me ia, akā he ʻuhane noʻonoʻo wale kāna. ʻLelo pinepine ʻo ia he makuakāne kāna i kapa ʻia ʻo Speedy, nona ka lauoho ānuenue, kahi pālule poni, a me nā kapa ʻalani. He kaikuahine nō hoʻi kāna, ʻo Sok, a he kaikaina, ʻo Jackson, i kekahi manawa ʻike ʻia kekahi makuahine, ʻo Rosie kona inoa. ʻO kāna "makuakāne" ʻo Speedy kahi makua makua ʻole. Hāʻawi ʻo ia iā ia e ʻai i nā kanakē i ka lā holoʻokoʻa a holo i nā dinosaurs. “
“ʻO kā ka hoa aloha o kaʻu kaikamahine i kapa ʻia ʻo Coco. Ua kū ʻo ia i ka piha ʻana o kāna kaikamahine he aneane ʻelua makahiki. Ua heluhelu a pāʻani pū lākou i nā manawa āpau. ʻAʻole ʻo Coco he mea hana naʻaupō, he hoa maoli ʻo ia a noho me kāna kaikamahine ma kahi o ʻeono mau mahina. No laila e maopopo ai iā ʻoe, ua kū mai ʻo Coco i ka wā i hānau ʻole ai wau. Inā hiki ke hāʻawi i ka hāpai ʻana, e kāhea wau i kaʻu kaikamahine ʻelua ʻo Collette, a ma ka home e kapa mākou iā ia ʻo Coco. Akā ʻaʻole ʻike kaʻu kaikamahine ua hāpai au. “
"He kūlanakauhale holoʻokoʻa kā kaʻu kaikamahine o nā hoa aloha noʻonoʻo. Aia nō he kāne, ʻo Hank kona inoa. I kekahi lā ua huki ʻo ia iaʻu: kahi ʻumiʻumi, nā aniani, nā pālule huluhulu, noho i ke kuahiwi a hoʻokele i kahi van keʻokeʻo. Aia ʻo Nicole, he mea lauoho, lauoho lōʻihi, lahilahi i nā lole makamae a me nā umauma nui. ʻO Kauka Anna, ke kumu hula ʻo Daniel e hoʻokau nei i nā hōʻike hulahula i kēlā me kēia lā. Aia kekahi, akā paʻa kēia mau mea. Noho lākou a pau i ko mākou hale ʻoiai he ʻelua mau makahiki o ke kaikamahine, ua ʻike mākou āpau a kamaʻilio pū me lākou me he mea lā he mea maoli kēlā. I kēia manawa he 7,5 kaʻu kaikamahine, a ʻaʻole hele pinepine mai kāna mau hoaaloha. Haʻo wau iā lākou. “
“He 4 mau makahiki o kaʻu keiki. He hoa kolohe kāna i kapa ʻia ʻo Datos. Noho ʻo ia ma ka mahina. “
"He kaikamahine aloha ʻole kā kaʻu keiki kāne ʻo Apple kona inoa. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hele i loko o ke kaʻa a hoʻopaʻa wau iā ia, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke waiho i ka ʻeke ma kona wahi. Ua kū ʻo ia ma hope o ka make make ʻole o kā mākou hoaaloha. A ua make mau ʻo Apple i nā pōpilikia pū kekahi. Manaʻo wau ʻo kēia ke ala a ke keikikāne i hoʻāʻo ai e kūpale i kona mau naʻau ma hope o ka make ʻana o kahi hoa. A he makuahine kuhihewa kā ke kaikamahine me kāna e kamaʻilio mau ai. Hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia i nā kikoʻī liʻiliʻi loa, haʻi e pili ana i nā mea āpau a "makuahine" e ʻae ai iā ia e hana: e ʻai i kahi mea ʻono loa, loaʻa i kahi keiki keiki. “