ʻO Mikhail Labkovsky. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoihoi i ka psychology, ua kamaʻāina paha kēia inoa iā ʻoe. He psychologist nona nā kolamu i heluhelu ʻia, nā nīnauele ua haehae ʻia i loko o nā huaʻōlelo, ʻōlelo ʻia a hoʻouna ʻia kekahi i kekahi e nā haneli, mau tausani o ka poʻe. Nui ka poʻe i mahalo iā ia, ʻo kekahi āna i hoʻonāukiuki ai. No ke aha mai? He aha kāna ʻōlelo a kākau ma laila? He mea hou? ʻOi aku? Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kilokilo, ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia? ʻAʻohe mea like me kēia.
ʻO ke kumu, ʻōlelo ʻo ia i ke ola e hana wale ʻoe i kāu makemake. A makaʻala mua kēlā poʻe: ʻAe, ʻAe? Eia ʻo Labkovsky e hoʻopau ai: inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake, mai hana. ʻAʻole loa. Pīhoihoi hou nā kānaka a pau: hiki ʻole! Manaʻo ʻole! A ʻo ia: a laila, mai kāhāhā ʻoe ʻaʻole hauʻoli, hoʻokō ʻole, hoʻomaha ʻole, maopopo ʻole iā ʻoe iho, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole…
Ua lilo ia i mea hoike. ʻO ka ʻike honua o ka poʻe i haʻi ʻia mai ka wā kamaliʻi e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke kuleana, ka poʻe ʻO ke kumu ma ka kindergarten, a ʻo ka makuahine hoʻi ma ka home, makemake e haʻi hou: ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i kāu makemake.
Ua noʻonoʻo mākou a pau, kūkulu ʻia, maʻa e lanakila a hoʻomanaʻo iā mākou iho: "ʻaʻole ʻino ka makemake." No laila, huikau ka manao o ka lehulehu i kinohi. Akā ua hoʻāʻo kekahi poʻe wiwo ʻole, makemake lākou. ʻAʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo mau lākou he maikaʻi ke hana i kāu mea e makemake ai. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike he maikaʻi ka hana ʻana i kāu mea e makemake ai. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke koho.
A laila hele mai kahi psychologist a me ka hilinaʻi nui, haʻi pololei loa: no laila ʻaʻole ia e ʻeha loa - pono ʻoe e hana i kāu mea e koho ai iā ʻoe iho. ʻO kēlā me kēia minuke. A mai mālama mua i ke ʻano o kona nānā ʻana i nā maka o kekahi. A i ʻole, ʻōlelo lākou, e maʻi ʻoe, kaumaha a noho me ke kālā ʻole.
A ʻaʻole mākou he malihini… i ka manawa mua, manaʻo nā kānaka a pau. E like me: "Ua koho mākou, ua koho ʻia mākou, no ka mea, ʻaʻole i hui pinepine ʻia ..." Akā ua nui aʻe ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo nei e ola e like me nā "Labkovsky rules", a ʻike lākou: hana. A, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu, haʻi paha lākou i kā lākou mau hoaaloha ... A hele ka nalu.
He kanaka ola ʻo Labkovsky, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole nani, ʻaʻole kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi o ka ʻae ʻana iā ia iho
I ka manawa like, ʻo Labkovsky iā ia iho he ola, maoli maoli, ʻaʻole glamorous, ʻaʻole photoshopped hiʻohiʻona o ka ʻae piha ʻana iā ia iho, ke ola ma ka laulā, a no laila, ka hopena o kāna mau lula. Ua ʻae ʻo ia i kēlā Ua hele au e aʻo i ka psychology no ka mea pono wau e hoʻoponopono koke i koʻu mau pilikia ponoʻī. He aha ʻO ka hapa nui o kona ola he neurotic maʻi ʻole a uhaʻi i ka wahie, no ka laʻana, i ka pilina me kāna kaikamahine, ua puhi ʻo ia "e like me ka pupule" a hāʻule wale i nā wahine i mālama ʻole iā ia.
A laila ua lilo ka helu o nā makahiki i noho i ka ʻoihana i kahi ʻano hou a "lawe ʻo ia i ke ala o ka hoʻoponopono." No laila ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Ua hana au i mau rula a hahai aku au ia lakou. A ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo i ke ʻano o ia mea mai waho.
Me he mea lā ua hauʻoli loa ʻo ia i ka nīnau: a he aha, aia nā poʻe paʻakikī ʻole? Pane ʻo ia penei: mai manaʻoʻiʻo - aia nā ʻāina holoʻokoʻa me ka ʻole o nā paʻakikī!
A hiki i ko makou manaoio.
Ua luhi nā mea a pau, a ke ʻimi nei nā mea a pau i kahi mea kikoʻī, ke holo wikiwiki nei nā vectors kūloko, me he mea lā ma kahi panana demagnetized
A loaʻa iā mākou, he manawa mōʻaukala paha? ʻO ke kūlana kipi o ka ʻike nui - i ka manawa ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona o ke ola kahiko i hala loa iā lākou iho, akā ʻaʻole i hāpai ʻia nā mea hou. I ka wā o ka "sausages" o ka hanauna waena, ua pohō ko lākou mau alakaʻi mua, ua hōʻole ʻia nā luna, ʻo nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo makua no ka maikaʻi wale nō ka waiwai o ka mōʻaukala ...
A paupauaho na mea a pau, a me na mea a pau i ka huli ana i kekahi mea kiko'ī, kūloko vectors holo e pili ana, me he mea la ma ka demagnetized panana, a hoike okoa kuhikuhi: Freudianism, Buddhism, yoga, one pena, kea-stitching, pono, dacha a me kauhale hale. …
A laila hele mai kahi loea me ka ʻike a haʻi wiwo ʻole: ʻae i ke olakino! … E hana i kāu makemake, ʻo ka mea nui e hauʻoli ʻoe! ʻAʻole hoʻopaʻi ʻia, ʻaʻole hilahila. ʻAʻole hiki wale kēia, akā pono. A ma ka ʻōlelo maʻamau - ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e hauʻoli ai.
Kūʻē ʻo ia i kekahi hana ma ke kumu. E kū'ē i nā mea a pau "ʻAʻole au makemake e hana", aʻoi aku ma muli o kaʻeha
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka psychologist artistically, convincingly, convincingly, me nā hiʻohiʻona mai ka wā i hala o ka ʻāina (a me ke ola o kēlā me kēia kanaka) haʻi i ke kumu e kūʻē ai ʻo ia i kekahi mau hana ma ke kumu. E kū'ē i nā mea a pau "ʻAʻole au makemake e hana", aʻoi aku ma muli o kaʻeha. I ka pōkole, kū'ēʻo ia i nā mea a pau i hanaʻoleʻia e ke kanaka maʻamau, kūʻokoʻa, noʻonoʻo. (Akā ma hea ʻoe e loaʻa ai kēia mau mea?)
Hana i nā pilina? - Mai!
Hoʻomāinoino iā ʻoe iho me nā meaʻai? “ʻAe, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i aloha nui iā ʻoe iho…”
E ʻae i ka pilikia? Mai hoʻomaka.
Holoi i ke kanaka? - E nānā, e hoʻoheheʻe, e nalowale iā ʻoe iho a me ke kāne ...
Nā haʻawina me kahi keiki? I ke ahiahi, i ka waimaka, i ka lua i kahi puke puke? — Aole loa!
ʻO ka launa pū ʻana me kekahi mea hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoewaimaka? — ʻAe, he masochist ʻoe!
Noho me ka wahine hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe? "E ʻoluʻolu, inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻeha ..."
E kala mai, he aha? ʻO ke ahonui a me ka hana nui? Kuʻikahi? — ʻAe, inā makemake ʻoe e lawe iā ʻoe iho i ka luhi hopohopo ...
E mālama pono i nā keiki? Kane e sculpt mai ka mea i? E ʻeli iho i loko o ʻoe iho, e kālailai i nā ʻeha o ka wā kamaliʻi, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka ʻōlelo ʻino a kou makuahine i kou mau makahiki ʻelima a me ke ʻano o ka pāpā? E hāʻule! Mai.
E hoʻoholo i kāu makemake maoli a hana. A e maikaʻi nā mea a pau.
ʻAʻole anei he hoʻowalewale?
ʻAe, hoʻowalewale loa!
ʻAʻole hilahila ʻo Labkovsky i ke koi ʻana, hoʻohewa a kuhikuhi i nā mea e pono ai ʻoe e hana.
ʻOiai ʻo ka nui o nā ʻatikala e pili ana i ka psychology ma ke ʻano kuʻuna o ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa, non-intrusive, aʻoaʻo māmā a ua kākau ʻia e like me ke kumu sterile "no ka mea e hiki mai ana", a hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo mai iā lākou ma kēia a me kēlā ʻano, ʻaʻole ʻo Labkovsky. hoʻokaʻulua e koi, hoʻohewa a hōʻike i kāu hana e pono ai ke hana.
A e ho'āʻo, wahi a Mikhail Labkovsky, e hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻoluhi i ka wā o ka orgasm, AT LEAST i ka wā o ka orgasm! O ia, inā maikaʻi kou manaʻo - kipaku aku i ka manaʻo o ka hewa. ʻO wai ka makemake ʻole? ʻAe, he manaʻo lāhui hou kēia! A he perpendicular i ka mua.
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I kēia manawa ke ʻike wale nei nā mea a pau i ka "Labkovsky rules", e ʻono iā lākou a hauʻoli i ka maʻalahi o nā mea āpau: e hana i kāu makemake. A mai hana oe i kou makemake ole. Akā ʻaʻole koke, e hoʻohuli koke ʻia kā mākou huikau ʻeono a me ka lolo slagged he mea paʻakikī ke hoʻoholo ma ke kumu i kā mākou makemake maoli. A ʻo ka hahai ʻana i nā makemake ma waho o ka maʻamau ʻaʻole hiki loa.
E hala ka makahiki a ʻelua paha, a laila e ʻike mākou inā e hoʻihoʻi hou ʻia a e lilo paha mākou i ʻāina paʻakikī ʻole. A e ʻike kākou i ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi o kāna mau mea hoihoi a inā paha e noho pū lākou me Labkovsky, ka mea e hoʻāʻo nei e hahai i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo: "inā manaʻo ʻoe i ka ʻino i ka pilina, e haʻalele i ka pilina." A i ʻole e hele i nā kula kiʻi wahine…