Noho nā kānaka i ka nohona. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i nā hermits a me nā luina mehameha, ʻo ka mea maʻamau e hoʻopuni ʻia ke kanaka e nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, nā hoahana, a me nā mea hele wale. I nā manawa o ka luhi, moe mākou i ka noho mehameha, akā ke kaʻawale mākou me kā mākou mea aloha, makemake mākou i ka mehameha. No ke aha mākou e hoʻopuni ai iā mākou iho me nā kānaka?
He nui ka poʻe i ʻike i ka ʻōlelo i aloha ʻia e nā mea lapaʻau existential: "Ua hānau ʻia ke kanaka hoʻokahi a make wale nō." Apparently, noʻonoʻo e pili ana ia mea, oe pono e manao loa mehameha, pani i loko o kou individuality a loa kuleana. Akā inā noʻonoʻo maoli ʻoe i ia mea, pono ʻoe e ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo he abstraction kēia ʻaʻole pili i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ma mua o ka hānau ʻana, noho ke kanaka i loko o ka ʻōpū o ka makuahine i kahi pilina paʻakikī me kāna ʻōnaehana āpau. A ʻo kona makuahine i ka manawa like e noho ana i ka hui. I ka wā hānau keiki, aia ka pale keiki, ke kauka, a i kekahi manawa nā hoahānau. Eia kekahi, make kekahi kanaka ma ka haukapila a i ʻole ma ka home, akā kokoke i nā manawa a pau i waena o nā kānaka, koe wale nō i nā hihia kakaʻikahi.
I ka wā o ke ola, ʻoi aku ka mehameha ma mua o ka mea maoli. Eia kekahi, inā mākou e nīnau iā mākou iho i ka nīnau koʻikoʻi kahi e pau ai kaʻu "I" a hoʻomaka nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke pane. Ua ulana ʻia kēlā me kēia o kākou i loko o kahi ʻupena paʻakikī o ke kino, ka meaʻai, ka waiwai, ka pilikanaka, ka noʻonoʻo a me nā ʻano pili like ʻole.
ʻO ko mākou lolo wale nō me he mea lā he kino physiological, ʻoiaʻiʻo he paʻakikī, aʻo mau ʻana i ka ʻōnaehana ʻike. ʻOi aku ka moʻomeheu a me ka pilikanaka ma mua o ka biology a me ka physiology. Eia kekahi, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka ʻeha o ka noho ʻana o ke kanaka ma ka ʻōnaehana kaiapuni a i ʻole ka hakakā ʻana i nā pilina pili e like me ka ʻeha kino e pili ana i ka ʻeha kino.
A ʻo kā mākou hoʻoikaika ikaika loa ʻo ia hoʻi. E nānā kākou i ʻelua laʻana. ʻO kahi pepa i loko o ka ululāʻau pōhaku, i ʻōlelo ʻia i ka makahiki i hala aku nei ua lawe ʻia nā 5 tons o nā mōʻalihaku mai kēia mālama ʻana, ua hoʻoulu wale i nā mākaʻikaʻi e lawe hou aku: "Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hana lākou!"
Ua hana ʻia kahi hoʻokolohua: ua nīnau ʻia nā kamaʻāina o kekahi apana i ka mea e hoʻohana pono ai lākou i ka uila: mālama i ke kaiapuni, mālama i kā lākou kālā, a i ʻole ka ʻike e hana nei ko lākou mau hoalauna. He ʻokoʻa nā pane, akā ua hiki mai nā hoalauna ma kahi hope.
A laila, hoʻouna ʻia nā leka i kēlā me kēia me ka hoʻopiʻi e mālama i ka uila, a ua hōʻike ʻia kēlā me kēia o nā kumu ʻekolu. A pehea kou manaʻo i ka hopena ma hope o kā mākou ana ʻana i ka hoʻohana ikehu maoli? Pololei, ʻo ka poʻe i manaʻo ʻia e mālama pū kekahi, ua lanakila lākou ma ka palena ākea.
He mea nui ia kakou e like me na mea e ae. ʻO ia ke kumu e huli ai ka poʻe he nui i ka psychotherapy ke manaʻo lākou e hāʻule ana lākou mai ke kiʻi ʻae ʻia o ke ʻano o ka hana a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. A ma ka laulā, hele pinepine lākou e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia pili. "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kūkulu i kahi pilina" ʻo ia ka noi wahine maʻamau. A pilikia pinepine nā kāne i ke koho ʻana ma waena o nā pilina kahiko a me nā pilina hou.
Me he mea lā ke mālama nei mākou iā mākou iho - ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mālama ʻana i ko mākou wahi i ka ʻōnaehana. ʻO kekahi laʻana o ka mana o ke kaiapuni i kā mākou hana. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi loiloi o ka nui o ka ʻikepili i ka kūleʻa o ko mākou manaʻo e haʻalele i ka puhi paka ʻaʻole i hilinaʻi wale i ka haʻalele ʻana o nā hoaaloha, ua hoʻohuli ʻia e nā hoaaloha o nā hoaaloha a mākou i ʻike ʻole ai.