PSYchology

ʻAʻole i hana wale ʻia ka huhū ... Ma ka pili ʻana i kahi hanana i hoʻomaopopo ʻia he ʻōlelo hōʻino, e hoʻokau i ke koʻikoʻi i ka mea lawehala, hoʻohuli mākou i ka huhū (kūʻē, hoʻopiʻi, huhū). Inā pani ʻia ka hiki ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa pololei (ma ka hiki ʻole a paʻa ʻia e ka makaʻu), a laila:

  • No ka huki ʻana i ka manaʻo, hoʻomaka mākou i ka ʻeha (kaumaha a huhū paha), hoʻomaka mākou e hōʻeha iā mākou iho.
  • Huli ka huhū i loko o ke kino, i ka wā o ka hakakā ʻana i nā kaʻina hana physiological e pono ai ke ola o ke kanaka, akā pōʻino i kona olakino.

Huina: Ma keʻano he manaʻo kūʻokoʻa,ʻaʻohe manaʻo o ka huhū. Aia ma hope o ka "huhū" ("hewa") ka huhū maʻemaʻe, a i ʻole ka hui ʻana o ka huhū (huhū), ka makaʻu a me ka huhū.

ʻO ka huhū ka manaʻo paʻakikī ʻole i loaʻa mai ka huhū unexpressed.

I ka manawa a pehea ka ikaika o ka huhū?

ʻO ka manaʻo o ka huhū e ala mai i ka mea nāna i hana iā ia iho - hōʻeha iā ia iho.

Me ka maʻa a me ka makemake e hōʻeha ʻia, ua hewa ke kanaka (offends himself) i kekahi mea.

Puka pinepine ka inaina mai ka hana ike ole me ka huhu. "Ua hewa anei ke kanaka akamai a makua e like me aʻu?" — Ua nāwaliwali ka huaʻōlelo, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō i ka huhū, a inā hoʻomau wau i ka huhū, a laila ʻaʻole wau akamai a ʻaʻole makua ... A i ʻole: "ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e hōʻeha iaʻu iā ia!" - like like.

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