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E ʻae, ʻaʻole maopopo ʻoe pehea e hana ai. He ʻōpiopio loa kāu keiki… Makaʻu ʻoe ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia ke kūlana, hewa ʻoe a hāʻawi i nā mea āpau. Eia naʻe, pono kāu keiki i nā palena a me nā hōʻailona, nā wehewehe, ka palupalu a me ka mana. ʻO nā mea āpau me ka nalowale ʻole o kou ola kaiapuni a i ʻole kou manawa kaʻawale. He pōʻino, he hana kaulike.
He mea maikaʻi ka noho ʻana he alo a he alo no nā mea aloha. Akā no ʻolua, hiki ke lilo i mea kaumaha. No ka hoʻoulu ʻana i kou pilina a hoʻōla i kou home, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke kulekele puka hāmama. Loaʻa, hele i nā hoaaloha, e kono pū i kāna iho. E hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia e ʻike i nā kānaka a ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō me ʻoe. Pono ʻoe e pale i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kāne pili me kāu keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kou makuahine i ke kakahiaka nui, a laila e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka hiamoe me nā poʻe āu e hilinaʻi ai (ʻohana a i ʻole nā hoaaloha), a hele i nā hopena pule me ʻoe. He mea maikaʻi ka haʻalele ʻana no ʻolua. E lawe i kēia manawa e noʻonoʻo ai iā ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole pono kāu hoʻolauleʻa ʻana iā Kirikou, Disneyland a me ka hui. I ka wā hoʻomaha, hele pū me kahi hui o nā hoaaloha a i ʻole i kahi hui hōkele, nā ʻōlelo e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli pū me ʻoe, akā e hui pū me nā poʻe a hana i nā hoaaloha iā lākou iho. Inā pili ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e hoʻopaʻa inoa iā ia no ka hui keiki kahi e kaʻana like ai i nā hana me nā keiki i kona mau makahiki. ʻOi aku ka hoihoi iā ia ma mua o ka hoʻolohe ʻana i nā kamaʻilio kanaka makua. No kou ʻaoʻao, ma ka launa pū ʻana me nā poʻe o kou mau makahiki, e kamaʻilio ana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o nā keiki, ke hāʻawi nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ke kuleana e ola i kou ola he wahine. E akahele naʻe, ʻaʻole e hoʻolilo i kāu keiki i mea hilinaʻi i kēia mau manawa i hala ʻole me ia. He mea nui ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu keiki, ʻoiai ʻoe e noho ma kou wahi o ka makuahine, a ʻo ia ma kona wahi o ke keiki. E pāpā iā ʻoe iho mai ka haʻi ʻana aku i kou mau manaʻo iā ia. He mea hoʻoluhi a pilikia iā ia. E mālama i kāu mau hilinaʻi no kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa.
E hoʻonoho i nā palena, no kona pono ponoʻī
Tenderness, iā ʻoe no ʻelua. Akā ʻo ka mana, pono ʻoe. ʻO ka pilikia, ua hewa pinepine ʻoe a, no ka uku ʻana, makemake ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i ka ballast, e hao. ʻAʻole ia he lawelawe e hāʻawi iā ia: pono ʻo ia ma mua o ka manawa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i nā lula a me nā palena ʻaʻole e hoʻonui ʻia. ʻO ka hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kou mana ke hoʻonohonoho nei iā ia. ʻOiai inā e hoʻowalewale ʻia ʻoe e hoʻomaha iā lākou, pono e noho ʻokoʻa. A ke ʻōlelo ʻoe "ʻaʻole", ʻo ia ka "ʻaʻole". ʻOiai inā ʻike ʻoe he luhi, pono ia iā ia. ʻO kahi laʻana: ua ʻike kāu keiki he wahi hakahaka ma kāu moena pālua a makemake ʻo ia e komo i loko. Makaʻu, ʻeha ʻōpū, hiamoe: maikaʻi nā kumu ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻaʻole kēia kona wahi. Pono i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou ʻāina ponoʻī, ko lākou wahi pilikino ponoʻī. ʻO ka moe pū ʻana e hoʻokumu i ka pilina ma waena o ʻoukou, kahi huikau o nā kuleana e hoʻolohi i kou kūʻokoʻa a me kou makemake e ulu. A laila, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia he nīnau no ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu keiki e ʻimi nei ʻoe i ke kāne ma nā koina āpau, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iā ia, ma ke ʻano kūlohelohe o nā mea, ʻaʻole pololei ka wahi o ka moena. noho hakahaka mau. ʻO kēia ka mea e pale ai iā ia mai ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe a inā he keikikāne ʻo ia, mai ka lawe ʻana iā ia iho i ke kanaka o ka hale. ʻO ka hope, ʻo ka lā āu e makemake ai e noho hou ma ke ʻano he kāne, e maʻalahi ka lawe ʻana i ka pila.
E hoʻokaʻawale i kāu keiki i kona ola
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o ke ola pālua no ke keiki. No ka ʻimi ʻana i kona ala a puni, hoʻonohonoho ʻo ia iā ia i loko o nā keʻena: ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻo kona ola me ʻoe, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao me kona makuakāne. Mai hoʻokuʻi iā ia me nā nīnau ke hoʻi mai ʻo ia i ka home mai ka hopena pule. He wahi ia o kona ola nona. Pono ʻo ia e ʻoluʻolu e ola i kona pilina me kona makuakāne me ka ʻole o kou aka e kau ana ma luna o lākou. Inā makemake ʻo ia e haʻi iā ʻoe i kāna mea i hana ai, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Akā, nāna e hoʻoholo.
E lawe mai i nā kāne i loko o kona ola
Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i kona makuakāne, pono ʻo ia e ʻike aia ʻo ia. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu moʻolelo, e hōʻike iā ia i kahi kiʻi, e haʻi iā ia i nā hoʻomanaʻo a haʻi iā ia i nā ʻano ʻano i loaʻa mai iā ia. He mea nui iā ia ka loaʻa ʻana o ka makua kāne e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, no laila, inā ua kaʻawale wale ʻoe, mai hoʻolilo i kona makuakāne i mea kapu. ʻAʻahu a holoi paha ʻo ia wale nō? E haʻi aku iā ia e haʻaheo kona makuakāne iā ia. Pono ʻo ia e hoʻolohe ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻolua e launa hou ma ke ʻano he kāne, hoʻomau ʻoe e kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano he mau mākua. Pela hoi, mai hoole akea i ke aloha nana i hanau mai. A e mālama pono i kahi noho kāne i ka poʻe a puni iā ia. E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke kono pinepine ʻana i kahi kaikunāne, kaikunāne, a i ʻole hoa kāne mua i hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻopaʻa. ʻOiai inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hānai iā ia me ka maikaʻi wale nō, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho ʻana i nā kāne. He mea koʻikoʻi kēia no ke keikikāne no ka mea hāʻawi iā ia i mau kumu hoʻohālike kāne. He mea koʻikoʻi ia no ke kaikamahine: inā ulu ʻo ia i hoʻopuni wale ʻia e nā wahine, pilikia ʻo ia i ka ʻike ʻana i nā kāne he mau malihini, hiki ʻole ke komo, hoihoi a, ma hope, pilikia ke kamaʻilio pū me lākou.
E noi i kāu poʻe aloha no ke kōkua
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