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ʻO ka pāʻani mai ke aʻo ʻana "School of Happy Parents"
Ma ke aʻo ʻana (a i kēia manawa - ka papa o nā webinars) «Kula o nā mākua hauʻoli» Marina Konstantinovna Smirnova kono i nā mākua e pāʻani i ka pāʻani pāʻani "Change Role" me kā lākou mau keiki. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe he keiki ʻoe, a ʻo ia kou makuahine a i ʻole kou makuakāne (ʻoiai hiki iā ia ke lilo i kupuna wahine, ʻanakala, inā makemake ʻo ia).
Hiki ke kumuhana o ka pāʻani i kekahi mea. He mea nui ia e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili o kou ola a he mea hoihoi ia iā ʻolua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i kahi hapa o ka lā ma kēia ʻano, a i ʻole ʻaina awakea, a i ʻole hapalua hola ma hope o ka hoʻi ʻana i ka home mai ka hele wāwae. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke i ka ʻaina ahiahi, a pāʻani me nā mea pāʻani, a i ʻole kamaʻilio wale (e kūkākūkā ma ke ʻano hoʻohuli i kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi no ke keiki).
Hiki i ka manawa o ka pāʻani ke alakaʻi ʻia e kou hiki a me kou hoihoi. E like me ke kānāwai, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ke keiki, ʻoi aku ka pōkole o ka pāʻani. Akā inā e lawe ʻia ʻoe a ʻike i ke ʻano o ia mea, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hana hou i ka ʻike i wehewehe ʻia ma lalo nei.
SA, sketch mai ke ola
Ahiahi. Hoʻomākaukau moe. He 4,5 mau makahiki ʻo Polina, waiho ʻo ia i kāna mau pēpē i kahi moe, ʻeli no ka manawa lōʻihi. ʻImi ʻo ia i nā pākeʻe no nā pēpē a pau, lawe i nā lima lima maʻemaʻe. Ke nānā nei au i kēia "huhū" no ka manawa lōʻihi, hikiʻole ke kū, hāʻawi wau i kahi kauoha.
Polina, e komo i kou kapa moe. E moe wikiwiki kāua. Makemake au e hiamoe.
ʻO kaʻu keiki akamai loa, e hoʻomau ana i kāna ʻoihana kuleana, pane mālie iaʻu penei:
"Mama, no ke aha wau e hana ai i kou makemake i nā manawa a pau?"
ʻAʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kahi pane nona. ʻO ka mua kēia. A laila, manaʻo wau ua hānau ʻia nā keiki akamai i kekahi manawa mai nā mākua akamai.
ʻO ka lā ʻapōpō he lā hoʻomaha, a manaʻo wau iā ia:
— ʻAe, a laila ʻo ka lā ʻapōpō kou LA - ke ola nei mākou e like me kou makemake.
Ua hoʻomaka ka lā ʻapōpō mai ka manawa like a mākou e wehe like ai i ko mākou mau maka, a he nīnau mai iaʻu.
Polina, e moe au a ala paha?
ʻO kaʻu alakaʻi liʻiliʻi, e loiloi ana i ke kūlana, "lawe koke i ka bipi ma nā pū", ʻoiai ʻo ka pipi ponoʻī i nīnau.
Ua wehewehe pōkole au iā ia:
ʻO ke kakahiaka ma mua o ka ʻaina awakea he mea ʻokoʻa loa iaʻu: ua koho lākou noʻu pehea e hana ai au i nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa (holo ʻaoʻao a puni ke keʻena, a lele i hope a i ʻole i ka gallop, ʻo ia ka mea mua i ke kakahiaka). Ua koho lākou naʻu i kaʻu mea e ʻai ai no ka ʻaina kakahiaka (ma ʻaneʻi ua hauʻoli wau noʻu iho i ka koho ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine i ka ʻai laiki me ka waiū, ʻoiai hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i nā sandwiches me ka sausage, akā ua maopopo ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō kāna mālama ʻana iā ia iho). I ka pau ʻana o kaʻu hoʻouna ʻana, ua hāʻawi ʻia iaʻu kahi ʻāpana o nā kiʻi kiʻi (aʻu i pale aku ai me ke ʻano o ka holoi lole no ke kula kindergarten, a ua ʻae koʻu alakaʻi lokomaikaʻi). I ke koena o ka lā, pono wau e hōʻoia i koʻu luna e pono wale mākou e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke keʻena, propolis a holoi i ke kaʻa. Pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ua laki ʻole wau, ʻaʻole i "bull" ka hoʻokele a ʻae pū me aʻu. I ke ahiahi, ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono wau e hoʻomaikaʻi: e pāʻani i loko o kahi hale plastik, kahi i noho ai nā pēpē Winx liʻiliʻi, nāna i hele e kipa kekahi i kekahi. A laila, maʻamau nā mea a pau, makemake ka hoʻokele i ka moʻolelo kahiko - kahi moʻolelo moe, a mākou i koho pū ai.
He aha ka hāʻawi ʻana i kēlā pāʻani?
- He mea pono i ka makua ke noho i loko o ka "ʻili" o kāna keiki, eʻike i kāna alakaʻi i mea e hoʻomaopopo pono ai i keʻano o ke keiki, pehea e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo a hoʻomaopopoʻole paha i kāu mau kauoha.
- ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mau hiʻohiʻona i haku mua ʻia e ke keiki. E hauʻoli i kekahi mea: ua ʻike mua kaʻu keiki i kēia!, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kekahi mea: "Ua ʻike ʻia wau e ʻōlelo like me kēlā, me nā ʻano leo!"
- Mālama ke keiki i ke kuleana o ke alakaʻi, ma hope o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā pilikia o nā mākua. He mea nui ʻaʻole paʻakikī loa ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā hana. Inā lanakila ka makuahine i kāna keiki i kona pupule loa, e uē wale ke keiki: "ʻAʻole au i ʻike i ka mea e hana ai me ʻoe!" ʻaʻole e pāʻani hou i kēia pāʻani.