PSYchology

Ua hōʻoia ʻia kēia ʻano e nā sexologists, a ma mua o lākou ua ʻike ʻia ka ʻōlelo ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka "wahine-berry hou". He ʻoiaʻiʻo paha i ka lilo ʻana o ka wahine, ʻoi aku ka mālamalama o kāna mau ʻike moe kolohe?

I loko o nā makahiki, i ka wā e emi ai nā manaʻo makuahine i hope, a hoʻololi ʻia nā hopohopo a me nā paʻakikī o ka ʻōpio e ka ʻike a me ka hilinaʻi, lilo nā wahine i mea ākea, hoʻokuʻu ʻia a ... ʻae, nani pū kekahi.

ʻO kēia pua ma muli o ka piʻi nui o ka hana ʻana o nā hormones wahine ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka menopause. Akā ʻoi aku ke ʻano ma mua o kēia manawa: hōʻike nā haʻawina ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine i ko lākou mau makahiki 30 a me 40 mau makahiki ma mua o ko lākou mau makahiki he 20. Loaʻa i ka XNUMXs ka leʻaleʻa koʻikoʻi a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā orgasms.

"Hāʻawi ka makua i nā manawa kūpono no ka ulu ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa wahine. Akā ʻaʻole wau e hoʻopili pololei i ka leʻaleʻa me ka hiki ke loaʻa i kahi orgasm, - ʻōlelo a sexologist Yuri Prokopenko. — He hiki no hoi ke komo pinepine a ike i ka makemake ikaika, aka, aole nae i manao mamuli o ka lealea. ʻO ka leʻaleʻa ka manaʻo leʻaleʻa a mākou e ʻike ai me ko mākou mau manaʻo kino.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻokoʻa ka ikaika o ka makemake wahine, excitability, sensitivity to caresses no kēlā me kēia kanaka. Akā ʻaʻole pili nā hiʻohiʻona physiological i ko mākou hiki ke leʻaleʻa e like me ko mākou ʻike moe kolohe a me ke ʻano.

Hoʻomohala maoli ʻia ka mākaukau a me ka ʻike iā ia iho i nā makahiki, akā ʻaʻole hoʻoponopono ka manawa i nā ʻano hohonu.

No ka nui o ko kakou mau makahiki, hiki ke keakea ka lealea e ka hoole a me ka manao ino ia kakou iho. E pio mau ia e ka hewa, ka hopohopo, ke kanalua, ka hilahila. I ka ho'āʻoʻana e hālāwai me nā manaʻo pilikanaka («ʻo ka manawa kēia e loaʻa ai kahi mea aloha'ōpio!»), hiki i ka wahine ke hōʻike i kahi ola moe kolohe, akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole e māʻona i ka pilina.

"No nā wahine, i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e ka manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka makaʻu, ʻo ka paio ma waena o nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo a me ka wahine e hoʻonui pinepine ʻia me ka makahiki," wahi a Yuri Prokopenko. - A me ka hope, i loko o nā wahine i hāmama i ka leʻaleʻa, optimistic, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, piʻi ka pae a me ka pinepine o ka leʻaleʻa me ka makahiki. Hoʻololi maʻalahi lākou i ka loli—social, emotional, and physical.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, nui nā hanana ma ke ala o ke ola - ka nalowale o nā mea aloha, nā maʻi, nā loli pili makahiki i ka ʻili a me ke kino - e kaupalena i ke kūʻokoʻa e ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa wahine. Akā ma hope o nā mea a pau, he nui nā mea e pale ai ka poʻe ʻōpio: hopohopo e pili ana i ka pilina, ka hilinaʻi kālā, ka maopopo ʻole e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana ...

ʻO ka hope loa, hiki i ka leʻaleʻa ke kiʻekiʻe ke pili mākou iā mākou iho a me ko mākou kino, hilinaʻi i ko mākou waiwai, a hoihoi i nā pilina i kēia manawa.

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