ʻO ka hāpai ʻana a me ka wahine: pono anei e lawe i kahi manawa?

I ka wā hāpai, hoʻololi ke kino o ka wahine, e like me kona ʻano o loko. Pono ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo no ʻelua, hiki iā ia ke ʻike i nā loli a me nā makemake. Hiki paha i kekahi hoa ke kanalua: pehea e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kahi wahine aloha i kēia moku'āina hou? He pōʻino paha kāna hana ʻana, e ʻae ʻo ia iā ia? Akā no kekahi, lilo kēia manawa i manawa o nā ʻike kupaianaha a me nā manaʻo hoihoi hou.

E loli paha ka moekolohe i ka wā hāpai? "ʻAe a ʻaʻole," wahi a ka wahine wahine ʻo Caroline Leroux. "ʻAʻohe manaʻo like ʻole o ka poʻe loea no kēia mea, akā ʻae lākou i kahi mea: hiki ke loli ka makemake o ka wahine ma muli o ka trimester." Ma waho aʻe o nā ʻano noʻonoʻo, pili ka libido i nā loli hormonal a me ke kino.

ʻO ka hāpai a me ka makemake

"I ka manawa o ka trimester mua, ua paʻa ka umauma, pinepine ka makemake i ka nausea," wehewehe ka sexologist. — ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi mau wahine ke aloha i kēia mau kūlana. ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā hormones a me ka luhi maʻamau e kōkua pū i ka emi ʻana o ka libido. ʻO kekahi makaʻu ʻē aʻe i nā wahine hāpai, ʻoi aku hoʻi i nā mahina mua, ʻo ia ka hopena o ka hāʻule ʻana. "Ke hopohopo pinepine nei nā wahine i ka manaʻo e hoʻokuke i ka ʻōpū o kā lākou kāne," wahi a Caroline Leroux. "Akā ʻaʻole kākoʻo nā haʻawina i kahi loulou ma waena o ka wahine a me ka hāʻule ʻole ʻana, no laila hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia kēia makaʻu ma ke ʻano he prejudice."

I ka lua o ka trimester, ʻike maopopo ʻia nā loli kino: ua pōʻai ka ʻōpū, pehu ka umauma. Manaʻo ka wahine i ka makemake. "ʻAʻole ʻo ia e ʻike i ke kaumaha o ka pēpē a hauʻoli i kāna mau ʻano, he mea hoʻowalewale iā ia," wahi a Caroline Leroux. — Ke hoʻomaka nei ke keiki e neʻe, a nalowale ka makaʻu o ka hāʻule ʻana. ʻO kēia ka manawa maikaʻi loa no ka moekolohe.

I ke kolu o ka trimester, hiki mai ka pilikia kino kino. ʻOiai inā paʻakikī ke kūlana ma muli o ka nui o ka ʻōpū, hiki iā ʻoe ke moe a hiki i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hānau ʻana (inā ʻaʻohe ʻōlelo kuhikuhi kūikawā mai nā kauka). ʻO kēia mau mahina hope o ka hāpai ʻana he manawa kūpono ia e ʻike ai i nā kūlana hou a me nā leʻaleʻa.

"I ke kolu o ka trimester, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pale ʻana i ke kūlana "kanaka ma luna" i ʻole e hoʻokau i ke kaomi ma ka ʻōpū," wahi a Caroline Leroux. — E hoʻāʻo i ke kūlana “spoon” (e moe ana ma kou ʻaoʻao, e kū pono ana i ke kua o ka hoa), ke kūlana “hoa ma hope” (“ʻano ʻīlio”), nā ʻano like ʻole o ka noho ʻana. Hiki i ka hoa ke hoʻomaha loa i kona wā ma luna. "

Eia naʻe, aia kekahi pilikia?

ʻO kēia kekahi o nā moʻolelo maʻamau: hoʻonāukiuki ka orgasm i ka ʻokiʻoki ʻana o ka ʻōpū, a ke alakaʻi nei kēia i ka hana preterm. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i nā hakakā. "Hiki i nā Orgasms ke hoʻoulu i ka ʻōpū o ka ʻōpū, akā maʻamau ka manawa pōkole, ʻekolu a ʻehā wale nō," wehewehe ʻo Benedict Lafarge-Bart, he ob/gyn a me ka mea kākau o My Pregnancy in 300 Questions and Answers. ʻAʻole manaʻo ke keiki i kēia mau ʻokiʻoki, no ka mea, pale ʻia ia e ka pūpū wai.

"Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi maʻi maʻamau a i ʻole i hānau ʻia i ka wā ma mua, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pale ʻana i ka pilina," wahi a Caroline Leroux. ʻO ka placenta previa (inā aia ma ka ʻaoʻao haʻahaʻa o ka ʻōpū, ma ke ala o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki) hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he contraindication. Eʻoluʻolu e kūkākūkā me kāu kauka i nā mea pili i ka moekolohe.

Hoʻomaka ka leʻaleʻa me ka hoʻomaopopo

I ka moekolohe, nui ka hilinaʻi i ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka mākaukau e hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa ka hāpai ʻana ma kēia ʻano. "ʻO ka nalo ʻana o ka makemake ma muli o ka paʻakikī o nā hoa, makaʻu i nā manaʻo ʻokoʻa a me nā pilikia," wehewehe ʻo Caroline Leroux. - I ka wā e kūkākūkā ai, lohe pinepine au i nā hoʻopiʻi mai nā kāne: "ʻAʻole wau i ʻike pehea e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kaʻu wahine", "manaʻo wale ʻo ia i ke keiki, me he mea lā ua pau wau i ka noho ʻana." Hiki i nā kāne ke hopohopo ma muli o ke alo o ka "kolu": me he mea lā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia, nānā iā ia mai loko a hiki ke pane i kāna mau neʻe.

"Ua hoʻopaʻa pono ke ʻano i ka mālama pono ʻana o ke keiki i loko o ka ʻōpū," wahi a Benedict Lafarge-Bart. Aʻo ka sexologist i nā kāne e kūkākūkā i nā mea a pau e pilikia ai lākou. He ʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia no nā kāne, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "Pono paha ʻoe i kahi manawa e maʻa ai i ke kūlana hou. Akā, mai hōʻeha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma mua o ka manawa. I ka wā hāpai, hoʻololi ka wahine, lilo i wahine a hoʻowalewale. E hoʻolauleʻa, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia, a e uku ʻia ʻoe.