Ke hoʻokokoke nei ka lā nui, pena ʻia ka lumi a kāhiko ʻia, holoi ʻia ka layette a kūʻai aku i ke kaʻa kaʻa, kūʻai ʻia… I ka pōkole, ua mākaukau nā mea āpau e hoʻokipa i ka pēpē. ʻO nā mea āpau, ʻeā? A ʻo nā mākua? Ua lawe lākou i nā papa hoʻomākaukau hānau?

Inā he manaʻo lapuwale kēia manaʻo iā ʻoe a i ʻole inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ka pono o ia mea, e noʻonoʻo hou, hoʻomākaukau i ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino no ka hānau keiki he mea nui e hoʻokipa ai i ka pēpē me ka hiki. Eia kekahi mau kumu maikaʻi e haʻalele ʻole i kēia ʻanuʻu.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i ka palekeiki i kāu mau nīnau āpau

Ua heluhelu ʻoe i nā puke mālama keiki a pau e kū nei ma ka mākeke, akā aia kekahi mau pane āu i ʻike ʻole ai. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, he mau nīnau kāu akā mai ʻaʻa e nīnau iā lākou. Pono e ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka nīnau ʻana i kou hoanoho a i kou makuahōnōwai wahine paha e pili ana i nā mea pili pono ʻole ka mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻoe.

« ʻAʻohe nīnau lapuwale ! », Hoʻohana ʻia e ʻōlelo i nā palekeiki. A i ka wā o ka hoʻomākaukau no ka hānau hānau ʻana hiki iā ʻoe ke kau iā lākou. ” Pehea e hana ai inā makemake wau e hele i ka lua Pono wau e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kaʻu laina bikini? Āhea ʻoe e ʻike i ka wā e hele ai i ka hale hānau? »… ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e nīnau i nā nīnau āpau i kou manaʻo, mai ʻae iā ʻoe iho e haʻalele. Mai ʻaʻa ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana ia i kahi hui? Ke haʻi nei paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho aia paha kahi makuahine e ʻoliʻoli ke ʻōlelo aku ʻoe iā ʻoe ...

E noho mālie ʻoe i ka wā hānau

Mai hele i ʻehā mau ala: ʻae, ʻeha ka hānau ʻana. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ola i waho o kona ʻōpū e pili ana i ka liʻiliʻi o ka ʻeha. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole like ka hope no nā mea āpau a ʻokoʻa loa mai kekahi wahine i kekahi wahine. Hopohopo paha kekahi poʻe i hiki i kahi pēpē ke hele i kahi ala liʻiliʻi.

ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka hoʻomākaukau no ka hānau keiki: ʻaʻole makaʻu hou i ka lā D. Aia ma laila ka palekeiki e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai iā ʻoe, hōʻike iā ʻoe i ke ala e hele ai ka pēpē i kou kino i ka wā o ka hana. E wehewehe ʻo ia iā ʻoe pehea ka mālama ʻana o ka ʻeha, pehea e hoʻopili ai ka mea anesthetist i kēia epidural kaulana, me kahi nila i ʻike lōʻihi ʻia. I ka pōkole, hana ʻia nā mea āpau i mālie ʻoe i ka lā o ka lawe ʻana.

Kūkākūkā iā ʻoe no ka mālama ʻeha

ʻAʻole hiki ke pale ʻia ka ʻeha i ka wā hānau. Akā, ka nūhou maikaʻi, mālama ʻia ia! Nui nā mea hiki ke hōʻemi iā ia, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka anesthesia. Acupuncture, aila pono, lomilomi, homeopathy… E hōʻike ʻia nā mea āpau i ka wā o ka hoʻomākaukau a e ʻike ʻoe i ke ākea o ke koho.

E hōʻike pū ka pale keiki iā ʻoe pehea e mālama ai i kou hanu ʻana e like me nā hana hoʻoliʻiliʻi, kahi e lawe ai e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe a hōʻeleu i ka hana. ʻAʻole paʻa nā mea hūnā nā Balloon, tub a me nā lāʻau kū kau! ʻO kahi hoʻomākaukau kino maoli e pono ai i ka ʻaʻa kiʻekiʻe. A no ke kumu kūpono, me he mea lā ke koi nei ka hānau ʻana i ka ikaika a me ka ikaika e like me ka holo ʻana i ka marathon.

E ʻae i ka makuakāne e ʻimi i kona wahi

I ka makaʻu o ke ʻano kahiko, a hiki i kēia lā, lawe ʻia kahi sperm e loaʻa ai kahi pēpē. Kolo no ka makuakāne, hoʻopau ka nuʻukia i kekahi manawa i ka hāpai ʻana a, ke noho ʻo ia me ka makuahine, ʻoi aku ka nānā o nā mea e hana nei i loko o kāna ʻōpū.

Mahalo, hāʻawi ka hoʻomākaukau no ka hānau keiki iā ia i ka manawa kūpono e lilo i mea hana keaka ma ka hānau hānau. Hiki iā ia ke aʻo e kōkua i ka makuahine e hoʻokele i ka ʻeha, i ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i nā lomilomi. E wehewehe mākou iā ia, no ka laʻana, pehea e hiki ai iā ia ke lawe i ka pēpē i ka manawa hope loa me ka paleke (inā hiki ke ʻoiaʻiʻo) a laila pehea e ʻoki ai i ke kaula (ʻaʻohe pilikia, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻeha i ka pēpē!). E aʻo ʻia ʻo ia i ka hāpai ʻana i ka ʻeke makuahine a me ka pono e kalaiwa me ka akahele a me ka maʻalahi. I ka pōkole, e pāʻani ʻo ia i kona kuleana makuakāne.

Perrine Deurot-Bien

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