ʻAʻole kū maikaʻi kekahi poʻe me ko lākou mau mākua. Nui nā kumu no kēia, ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou i kēia manawa. He aha kāu e hana ai e hoʻomaikaʻi i kou pilina me kou mau mākua?
- ʻO ke kūlana koʻikoʻi: pono nā mākua e aloha ʻia a pono e mālama ʻia nā mākua. E hana like e like me kāu e hana ai i kāu mau keiki: me ka mālama, hoʻomaopopo, koi i kekahi manawa, akā palupalu.
E mālama pono i kou mau mākua, i lawa lākou i kou nānā ʻana. ʻAʻole paʻakikī kēia: kelepona, ʻike i ke ʻano o nā mea, kamaʻilio, hoʻouna i kahi leka uila, hāʻawi i nā pua - he mau mea liʻiliʻi kēia a ʻoluʻolu kēia mau mea iā ʻoe a me lākou. Hāʻawi i ke kōkua a me ke kōkua ma kahi e paʻakikī ai nā mākua ke ʻole ʻoe.
He mea paʻakikī i ka makuahine ke huki i nā ʻeke me ka ʻuala a me ka buckwheat mai ka hale kūʻai. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi iā ʻoe ke hana.
- E hana ma kāu mau manaʻo pilikino. ʻAʻole ʻaiʻē ko mākou mau mākua iā mākou. Hāʻawi lākou iā mākou i ka mea nui: ka manawa e ola ai. Aia nā mea ʻē aʻe iā mākou. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā mākua ke kōkua iā mākou inā makemake lākou. Hiki iā mākou ke noi iā lākou no ke kōkua. Akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka noi ʻana i ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo.
- E hoʻokumu i ka pilina kino. I kekahi mau ʻohana, ʻaʻole maʻamau ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. A ʻoi aku ka mahana o ka pilina me ke kino ma mua o ka pilina me ka ʻole. No laila, pono ʻoe e hoʻohui mālie i ka pilina me nā pā. I ka wā mua, pono e maʻalahi, e like me ke ʻano, nā paʻi maʻamau. Ke kū nei ʻo Māmā, e ʻōlelo, ma kahi ala haiki, pono koke ʻoe e hele ma mua o ia. A i ʻole e paʻi, ʻike ʻoe e hoʻokuke iā ia me kou lima, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana "E ʻoluʻolu iaʻu," a me ka ʻakaʻaka. No laila, no kekahi mau pule, a laila — ma ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana ke hoʻopā me kou lima ke hoʻomaikaʻi a ʻōlelo ʻoe i kahi mea maikaʻi. A laila, ma hope, e ʻōlelo kākou, he kaʻawale iki, pūliki, a pēlā aku, a lilo ka pilina kino i mea maʻamau.
- E alakaʻi i nā kamaʻilio ʻana ma ke ʻano leʻaleʻa: me ka ʻoliʻoli, ka ʻoliʻoli a me ka ʻakaʻaka (ʻaʻole wale ka ʻakaʻaka ma ka makua, akā ma ke kūlana a iā ʻoe iho). Ma ke ala ʻoliʻoli e hoʻokomo i nā manaʻo kūpono.
E haʻi mai iaʻu, e ka makua aloha, ua akamai loa au iā ʻoe? E Māmā, hoʻāla mai ʻoe i kahi kanaka palaualelo i loko oʻu: ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i ʻano o ka mālama! Penei mau ia: Kiʻi kiʻi au — hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻoe. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu he aha kāu e hana ai me aʻu ʻole! I loko o ko mākou hale, hoʻokahi wale nō kanaka ʻike i nā mea āpau: e haʻi mai iaʻu e mama, ʻauhea kaʻu kelepona ...
- E hoʻomaka i nā kamaʻilio ma nā kumuhana hoihoi i nā mākua: pehea ia ma ka hana? he aha ka hoihoi? E hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe hoihoi loa. Inā he hōʻike TV kēia, e nīnau a puni ʻo wai āu e makemake nui ai, he aha ka hōʻike e pili ana, ʻo wai ka mea hoʻokipa, pehea ka manawa e hoʻomau ai, a pēlā aku. Inā pili ka hana, pehea ʻoe, he aha kāu i hana ai, a pēlā aku. ʻO ka mea nui wale nō ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻaʻole ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo, ʻaʻole no ka loiloi, akā no ka hoihoi. E mālama i ke kamaʻilio ma nā kumuhana maikaʻi: he aha kāu makemake? A ʻo wai ka mea makemake hou aku? etc. No ka nullify hoʻopiʻi a me ka negativity: paha kino keakea i ke kamaʻilio (wale politely, hoomanao oe e pono e kahea aku i kekahi, e kakau i SMS a pela aku), a laila, hoʻihoʻi ia i ka 'okoʻa kuhikuhi (ʻae, he aha mākou e kamaʻilio nei. No ka mea ua hele ʻoe i kahi sanatorium?), A i ʻole e hoʻololi koke i kahi kumuhana hou.
- Ina he hakaka, e hoopau koke ia ka hakaka. A e hoʻomaopopo - ma hope, i ka wā i maʻalili nā mea a pau. E wehewehe i ka mea makemake ʻole i ka makuahine, e kala mai. ʻOiai inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe e hewa, ma ke kala ʻana, hāʻawi ʻoe i kahi koho no kou mau mākua: he mea maʻamau ka kala ʻana. Ke kala ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, e nānā inā ʻae ʻia ka kalahala. E lohe paha ʻoe i ka ʻae ma ka pane. A laila hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohui i ʻelua mau hewa no ka hakakā. Ua hewa ʻoe ma ʻaneʻi a ma ʻaneʻi (e nānā hou), akā me he mea lā ua hewa ka makua ma ʻaneʻi (he mea nui e ʻōlelo i kahi mea e maopopo ai i ka makua: no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokiʻekiʻe i kou leo ma ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kiola i kēlā.e .w i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a pēlā aku. Hāʻawi ʻoe e kala mai no kēia. Hoʻomanaʻo ua hewa ʻoe, akā ua kala ʻoe. Ma hope o ke kali ʻana i kahi kalahala ma kekahi ʻano, make up ʻO ka mea kūpono, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana i nā lumi like ʻole no kekahi manawa, a laila hana pū kekahi: ʻai, inu kī, etc.
- E hoʻokomo i kou mau mākua i kekahi hana. E hele ʻo ia i kahi hale kūʻai hou, e ʻike i nā lole i kūʻai ʻia ma laila a kūʻai iā ia iho i mea hou (a kōkua ʻoe i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kēia huakaʻi). Hāʻawi e hana i ka yoga (e hoʻomaopopo mua wale nō he hui hoʻoikaika kino maikaʻi kēia, i ʻole e hoʻonāwaliwali i kekahi makemake). E ʻike e pili ana i ka hale hoʻomaha. Mai hana i nā mea a pau iā ʻoe iho: na nā mākua e hana i nā mea āpau ma o lākou iho, a kōkua wale ʻoe iā lākou i nā wahi a lākou e pono ai. E huli i ka helu wahi, wehewehe pehea e hiki ai i laila, a pēlā aku. Hāʻawi i nā puke e kōkua i kou mau mākua e hana i kahi ʻike honua maikaʻi, mālama i ko lākou olakino, nā kau SPA, nā lomilomi, a pēlā aku.