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ʻO ke kumu o ka hana a ke keiki he pale
Ua ʻike nā mākua o Angie e neʻe ana ʻo ia mai nā hana ʻohana. Ua ano kanikau kona leo, a me ka hoonaukiuki iki, ua hoomaka koke no oia e uwe. Inā noi ʻia ʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea, ʻuhū ʻo ia a ʻōlelo: "ʻAʻole au i ʻike pehea." Ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e ʻōhumu me ka maopopo ʻole ma lalo o kona hanu, a no laila ua paʻakikī ke hoʻomaopopo i kāna makemake. Ua hopohopo nui kona mau mākua i kāna hana ma ka home a ma ke kula.
Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Angie e hōʻike ma kāna ʻano i ka pahuhopu ʻehā - ka ʻalo ʻana, a i ʻole, ʻo ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa. Ua pau kona hilinaʻi iā ia iho a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e lawe i kekahi mea. Ma kāna ʻano, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "ʻAʻole au i kōkua a maikaʻi ʻole no ka mea ʻole. Mai koi i kekahi mea iaʻu. E waiho mai iaʻu". Ke ho'āʻo nei nā keiki e hoʻoikaika nui i ko lākou mau nāwaliwali no ke kumu o ka "ʻalo" a hoʻomaopopo pinepine iā mākou he naʻaupō lākou. ʻO kā mākou pane ʻana i ia ʻano hana ke aloha iā lākou.
ʻO ka hoʻonohonoho hou ʻana o ka pahuhopu "ʻalo"
Eia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho hou i kāu keiki. He mea nui e hoopau koke i ka minamina ia ia. Ke aloha nei i kā mākou mau keiki, paipai mākou iā lākou e aloha iā lākou iho a hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou ua nalowale mākou i ka hilinaʻi iā lākou. ʻAʻohe mea e hoʻopōʻino i ka poʻe e like me ke aloha iā ia iho. Inā mākou e hana i kēia ʻano i ko lākou manaʻo kaumaha, a kōkua pū iā lākou i ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hana pono no lākou iho, hoʻomohala lākou i ka maʻamau o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea a lākou e makemake ai me ke ʻano ʻino. Inā hoʻomau kēia ʻano a hiki i ka wā makua, a laila ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia ke kaumaha.
ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻololi i kāu mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka mea a ke keiki e hana ai a nānā i ka mea a ke keiki i hana ai. Inā manaʻo ʻoe e pane ke keiki i kāu noi me ka ʻōlelo "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu", a laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nīnau ʻole iā ia. Ke ho'āʻo nei ke keiki i ka mea maikaʻi loa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe ua nele ʻo ia. E ʻae ʻole i kēlā pane ma ka hana ʻana i kahi kūlana i hiki ʻole iā ia ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe i kona hemahema. E ʻoluʻolu, akā, mai manaʻo i ke aloha i ka wā e hoʻāʻo ai e kōkua iā ia. No ka laʻana: "Me he mea lā ke pilikia nei ʻoe i kēia mea," ʻaʻole loa: "E ʻae mai iaʻu e hana. He mea paʻakikī loa iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole anei?" Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo me ka leo aloha, "Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e hana." E hana i kahi e holomua ai ke keiki, a laila e hoʻonui mālie i ka pilikia. I ka paipai ʻana iā ia, e hōʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli. Hiki i kēlā keiki ke noʻonoʻo a kānalua i nā ʻōlelo hoʻoikaika i haʻi ʻia iā ia, a ʻaʻole paha e manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe. Mai ho'āʻo e hoʻohuli iā ia e hana i kekahi mea.
Eia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona.
Ua loaʻa i kekahi kumu he haumāna ʻewalu makahiki ʻo Liz ka mea i hoʻohana i ka pahuhopu «evasion». Ma hope o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi hoʻokolohua makemakika, ʻike ke kumu ua nui ka manawa i hala, a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ʻo Liz i ka hana. Naʻe fehuʻi ʻe he faiaká ʻa Liz ko e hā naʻe ʻikai ke ne fai ia, pea naʻe tali ange ʻe Liz, “ʻOku ʻikai te u lava.” Nīnau maila ke kumu, “He aha ka māhele o ka haʻawina āu e makemake ai e hana?” Ua ʻohi ʻo Liz. Ninau ke kumu, "Ua makaukau anei oe e kakau i kou inoa?" Ua ʻae ʻo Liz, a ua hele ke kumu no kekahi mau minuke. Ua kākau ʻo Liz i kona inoa, akā ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Ua nīnau ke kumu iā Liz inā ua mākaukau ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono i ʻelua mau hiʻohiʻona, a ua ʻae ʻo Liz. Ua hoʻomau kēia a hiki i ka pau ʻana o Liz i ka hana. Ua hiki i ke kumu ke alakaʻi iā Liz e hoʻomaopopo he hiki ke loaʻa ka holomua ma ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā hana a pau i nā pae kaʻawale a hiki ke hoʻokele piha ʻia.
Eia kekahi laʻana.
Ua hāʻawi ʻia ʻo Kevin, he keikikāne he ʻeiwa, ʻo ka nānā ʻana i ka huaʻōlelo o nā huaʻōlelo i loko o ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo a kākau i ko lākou manaʻo. Uaʻike kona makuakāne ua ho'āʻoʻo Kevin e hana i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻaʻole nā haʻawina. Ua uē paha ʻo ia me ka huhū, a laila uē aʻe ʻo ia no ka nele, a laila haʻi i kona makuakāne ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i kēia mea. Ua ʻike ʻo Pāpā ua makaʻu wale ʻo Kevin i ka hana ma mua a hāʻawi aku iā ia me ka hoʻāʻo ʻole e hana i kekahi mea. No laila ua hoʻoholo ʻo makuakāne e wāwahi i ka hana holoʻokoʻa i nā hana ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a hiki iā Kevin ke maʻalahi.
I ka wā mua, ʻimi ʻo makuakāne i nā huaʻōlelo ma ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo, a kākau ʻo Kevin i ko lākou manaʻo ma kahi puke puke. Ma hope o ke aʻo ʻana o Kevin pehea e hoʻopau pono ai i kāna hana, ua ʻōlelo ʻo makuakāne e kākau ʻo ia i ke ʻano o nā huaʻōlelo, a e nānā pū i kēia mau huaʻōlelo ma ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo ma kā lākou leka mua, ʻoiai ʻo ia e hana i ke koena. A laila huli aʻela ʻo makuakāne me Kevin e ʻimi i kēlā me kēia huaʻōlelo ma hope o ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo, a pēlā aku. Ua lōʻihi ka manawa e hoʻopau ai i ke kaʻina hana, akā ua pōmaikaʻi ia i nā haʻawina ʻelua a Kevin a me kāna pilina me kona makuakāne.