Moe: ke hiamoe nui ke keiki

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā mākaukau kāu pēpē e hiamoe i ka pō?

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē e hiamoe maluhia ana i ka pō a pau ka moeʻuhane o nā mākua ʻōpio he nui! ʻOiai e hiamoe ka hapa nui o nā keiki i mau hola i ka pō, hooloihi kekahi mau keiki hou, mai ka maternity, ko lakou wahi moe. ʻO kēia ka mea i ʻike ai ʻo Aurore, ka makuahine o 2 a me ka hapa mahina ʻo Amélia: " Hānau au i ka hola 17:50 pm Ua hāʻawi wau e hānai koke i kaʻu kaikamahine, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i lawe i kekahi mea. Ua hiamoe ʻo ia. Ma kahi o ke aumoe a i ka hola 3, hele mai nā palekeiki e ʻike iaʻu, akā ua hiamoe ʻo ʻAmelia. ʻO ia ka lā mua. ʻAʻole au i ʻike i ka mea e manaʻo ai. Ua hopohopo iki au, akā ua ʻōlelo wau iaʻu iho ua luhi ʻo ia i nā hola 44 o ka hana. I kekahi lā aʻe, ua noi ʻo ia i kāna ʻōmole mua ma ka hola 8 a laila i kēlā me kēia ʻekolu hola. I ka pō ʻelua, ala ʻo ia e ʻai i ka hola 3 a ma ka hola 7 am “. A mālama ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i kēlā mele i kona hoʻi ʻana i ka home. ” Ua hānau au i ka Pōʻalua, a i ka Pōʻaono, ua like ʻo ia me ka hiamoe piha o ka pō. Hoʻomoe au iā ia i ka hola 1 ma hope o ka ʻauʻau a me kona hope mole, a e ala ana oia i ka hora 7 am ".

ʻEhia hola o ka hiamoe no kaʻu pēpē?

« He hapa liʻiliʻi lākou », E wehewehe ana i ka psychologist Elisabeth Darchis, akā, ala wale kekahi mau pēpē i hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha i ka pō mai ka hānau ʻana. Ma ka awelika, i ka wā e hiamoe ai ke pēpē i ka pō, pono ʻo ia i 12 a 16 mau hola hiamoe i ka lā ma waena o 4 a 12 mahina; mai 1 a 2 makahiki, aia ma waena o 11 a me 14 pm; mai 3 a 5 makahiki, ma waena o 10 am a 13 pm; a laila ma kahi o 9 mau hola mai 6 makahiki. Nui nā kumu e hiamoe ai kā mākou keiki ma mua o ka awelika. ʻO ka mea mua, aia nā keiki hānau hou e hoʻohana pono i ka hānai. " I kekahi manawa, hoʻomaha nā pēpē ma ke ʻano haʻahaʻa e omo ana lākou i ka ʻōmole a i ʻole ka umauma o ko lākou makuahine. Mai nā hola mua a i ʻole nā ​​lā o ke ola, hana lākou i ka mea i kapa ʻia nā ʻakaʻaka o nā ʻānela, i hoʻomaka pinepine ʻia e kahi neʻe ʻuʻu liʻiliʻi. Manaʻo maoli kēia mau pēpē hallucinating he hānai lākou a aia lākou i loko o nā lima o ko lākou makuahine. I ka pololi, e hana hou lakou i keia omo omo. E hana hoʻokahi, ʻelua ... a ma hope o kekahi manawa, lanakila ka pōloli ma luna o ka ʻoluʻolu. Ma ia wa wale no e hoike ai i ko lakou makemake e ai. », Wehewehe i ka loea. Ua aneane hiki i kēia mau pēpē ke " e hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe iho "A" he ola i loko e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaha “. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ” ma ka moeʻuhane i ke alo o ko lākou mau mākua, loaʻa iā lākou ka palekana ma ke kakahiaka nui. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolōʻihi i ko lākou manawa hiamoe a hiki i kekahi mau hola i ke ahiahi, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokaʻawale i waena o ke ao a me ka pō a hiki i ke kolu o ka malama. », hoʻoikaika ʻo ia. Hoʻokomo pū ʻia ke kaiapuni. Pela, e moe malie ana ka mea liilii ma kahi malie.

Pehea e hoʻomoe ai i ka pēpē me ka hānai ʻana?

ʻOiai ke hoʻolōʻihi nei kekahi mau pēpē i kā lākou mau manawa hiamoe no ka maikaʻi o ko lākou manaʻo, ʻo ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, hiamoe nui lākou no ko lākou manaʻo ʻole. ” Ke ʻike ʻole nā ​​mākua i ke keiki, ʻo ke keiki ka puʻuhonua i ka hiamoe. Hiki i nā kamaliʻi ke luhi: à ikaika e hakakā me ka luhi, uē lākou, hāʻule a no laila e hiamoe lōʻihi ai. Eia kekahi, he hopena ko ka ʻōmole hope loa. Ke hoʻonui koke ʻia, no ka laʻana ma ka ʻōlelo aʻo a nā poʻe ʻoihana kamaliʻi, ʻike ʻia ka lōʻihi o ka hiamoe. », Wehewehe ia Elisabeth Darchis. Ua hōʻoia ʻo Aurore i kēia helu hope: " No nā lā i hala iho nei, ua hāʻawi wau iā Amelia i kahi ʻōmole 210 ml ma mua o ka moe. A ala ʻo ia i ka hola 8 ", Ia nei.

Me kekahi mau ʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo ʻia e hoʻāla i kahi pēpē i mea e hoʻoponopono ai i kāna ʻano hiamoe. Pēlā nō, inā he mea nui ka launa pū ʻana me kahi keiki hānau hou, mai hoʻolōʻihi i nā manawa ala e pale aku ai i kahi hui ma waena o ka hoʻāla a me ka leʻaleʻa a alakaʻi i ka piʻi ʻana o ka nui o nā ala ala. He mea nui hoʻi e kōkua iā ia e hoʻokaʻawale i ke ao a me ka pō i kāna hele ʻana, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka mālamalama maoli a kamaʻilio pū me ia i ke ao, a me ka hāwanawana ʻana a me ka noho ʻana i ka pōʻeleʻele nona. ʻōmole a hānai hānai paha i ka pō. ʻO ka noho ʻana e like me nā papa hana maʻamau e like me ka hiki no ka halepaku, nā pāʻani aʻo mua a i ʻole ka hele wāwae ʻana e hoʻoulu i kahi manaʻo palekana.

No ka hiamoe, pono ka pēpē i ka mālie makua

He hopena maoli ka manaʻo o nā mākua i ka hiamoe o kā lākou keiki, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia e wehewehe i nā mea āpau. Ma ka awelika, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kaumaha o nā keiki hānau hou ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hoʻāʻo ko lākou mau mākua e hōʻike ʻole i ka hopohopo e pili ana i kā lākou hiamoe a me ko lākou mehameha.. " ʻAʻole lākou e ʻōlelo kekahi i kekahi: Pono wau e hoʻomoe iā ia i loko o koʻu mau lima, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka moena… Hiki i ka palekana o nā mākua ke hoʻomaha i kā lākou pēpē. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hana kēia i ka 100% o ka manawa, akā hiki i kekahi poʻe liʻiliʻi ke hoʻolōʻihi i kā lākou hiamoe hiamoe. », Wahi a Elisabeth Darchis. A no ke kumu maikaʻi, loaʻa ke kino o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mākua a me ko lākou pono. Manaʻo nō hoʻi ʻo Aurore he hana nui kāna zenitude: " He zen loa wau i koʻu wā hāpai. Noho mālie au i kēia lā, a ke manaʻo nei au ke manaʻo nei ʻo Amelia.

« I kekahi manawa lohe au i nā mākua e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole hiki i kā lāua pēpē ke kū i kona wahi moe akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo wau ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae e ʻike iā ia wale nō. I kekahi manawa hoʻi, ke ʻōhumu liʻiliʻi ke keiki, ʻohi koke lākou. Me ka ʻike ʻole, haki lākou i ka lōʻihi o ka hiamoe. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka manawa pinepine, pono ka pēpē i kahi maʻalahi maʻalahi e hoʻi i ka hiamoe. Hoʻopaʻa paʻa loa lākou i nā lima, akā pono ke aʻo i ke keiki e hoʻopaʻa pono iā ia iho ma kahi moe », Ke koi aku nei ke kanaka psychologist.

Pehea e hiamoe ai ke keiki i ka pō mai 1 mahina?

He mea nui ke keiki " moeʻuhane i nā lima o kona mau mākua », ʻO ka ʻōmole a i ʻole ka umauma inā hānai ʻia. E like me ka wehewehe ʻana o Elisabeth Darchis, " huikau kekahi mau pēpē i ka hiamoe me ka ʻai. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke lawe i kā lākou mau moeʻuhane a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi i ko lākou hiamoe ʻana. Ke ala koke lākou, e koi lākou i ka umauma. I kēia hihia, ʻaʻole hiki i ke keiki ke loaʻa ka mana kūʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke "ola" me ka ʻole maoli o kona makua. No laila pono mākou e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomoe iā ia i ka wā i pōmaikaʻi ai ʻo ia mai ka hānai ʻana, me ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻole i ka hilinaʻi ʻana i ka lima. “. Eia kekahi, e like me ka psychologist, ʻo nā keiki e moe ana i loko o ka lumi o nā mākua e hana pinepine i kā lākou pō ma hope. ” Nui aʻe ka hoʻoulu a me ka launa pū ʻana ma waena o ka pēpē a me kona mau mākua. Pane nā mākua i ke kelepona liʻiliʻi a ke hilinaʻi nei ke kamaliʻi i ko lākou alo “. ʻO ka paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea hauʻoli no ka mea, i mea e moeʻuhane ai i ka hānai a me ke aloha o kona mau mākua, pono e loaʻa i ka pēpē nā pane kūpono. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ʻo ia e manaʻo he hoihoi mākou iā ia. ” Aia kekahi mau makuahine i noho mālie a hiki ke hoʻokuʻu i kā lākou pēpē. Haʻalele ʻia kēia poʻe liʻiliʻi e hiamoe hou », Aʻo aku iā Elisabeth Darchis.

Hiki i nā keiki hānau ke kaumaha?

Ke hiamoe nui ka pēpē, ʻoi aku hoʻi ma ka hale hānai, e nānā pono nā poʻe loea. ” Hiki i kēia moe ke hōʻike i kahi leak pili », Hoʻomaopopo ka psychologist. ” I kekahi manawa aia nā pēpē i naʻauao loa, ʻoi aku ka naʻauao. A laila hiki iā mākou ke nīnau iā mākou iho inā ʻaʻole pilikia ke keiki hānau hou. Nui nā hanana wehewehe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hahai ʻana i ka pauku cesarean paʻakikī no ka laʻana, a i ʻole i ka wā i loaʻa ʻole i nā mākua ka ikaika e mālama i kā lākou pēpē. “. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hanaʻia ka pilina makuahine-keiki, mai nā lā mua loa. ” Noʻu, 50% o ka hānai ʻana i hana ʻia me ka waiū a ʻo ka 50 ʻē aʻe me ka pilina. Inā ʻaʻole loaʻa ka makuahine a ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke keiki hānau kahi moena psychic ʻohana e hoʻokipa nui iā ia, hiki iā ia ke hāʻule i hope. Kapa ʻia kēia he mau pēpē kali. ʻAʻole koʻikoʻi kēia haʻalele liʻiliʻi i ka wā mua, ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻolohe a hoʻāla iā lākou i ka leʻaleʻa o ka pilina ma o ka leo i hoʻoponopono ʻia a i ʻole ka maka. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou i ka ʻai a ʻike liʻiliʻi lākou i kā lākou ʻai ʻana a me ka hiamoe hiamoe. », Hōʻike i ka loea. E hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi, hiki i nā pēpē ke hāʻule hou i ka hiamoe ke komo ka makua.

Pehea ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka puʻupuʻu hiamoe o ke pēpē?

« E like me kā kā mākou pediatrician i haʻi mai iā mākou, inā ua lawe ʻo Amélia i kēlā mele, ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi ka manawa e loli ai kēia. », haʻi mai ʻo Aurore iā mākou. ” Hiki i nā pēpē i hiamoe maikaʻi ke hana pēlā no nā pule a me nā mahina. TO 1 malama, hiamoe ke keiki 17 a 20 mau hola o ka lā a hoʻokahi wale nō ala ala i ka pō. Aia paha he mau micro-awakenings, akā ua lawa ka hoʻomoe ʻana iā ia e hiamoe. TO 2 malama, hiki i ka pēpē ke hana kokoke i ka pō piha, i kekahi manawa a hiki i ke kakahiaka nui, ʻo ia hoʻi 6-7 amWahi a Elisabeth Darchis. A kū'ē i ka mea e manaʻoʻiʻo ai kekahi, ʻAʻole pili ka nui o nā naps i ka maikaʻi o ka hiamoe ahiahi.

Akā i ka wā o ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, nui nā pōʻino e hoʻopilikia i kēia pōʻai hiamoe: ka hopohopo kaʻawale ma kahi o ka mahina 8, ka niho ʻana, e alakaʻi ana i ka ʻeha a i kekahi manawa ʻo ka diaper rashes (a laila kākoʻo ke keiki i kāna diaper ma lalo. lepo)… ” Aia nā piʻi a me lalo i ka hiamoe o ke keiki me ka ʻole o kēia pathological», Hoʻoikaika i ka psychologist. ” Ua hiamoe maikaʻi kekahi i ka wā hoʻomaha, a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e huhū a pilikia ka hiamoe. Ma hope, i ka manawa o ka pilikia kū'ē ma kahi o 2-3 makahiki, pilikia hou ka hiamoe. ʻO ke keiki, e ʻōlelo mau nei ʻaʻole i kona mau mākua, i kekahi manawa he mau moeʻuhane i ka pō Ke hoʻomau nei ʻo ia. No laila, he kaʻina hana lōʻihi ka hiamoe no nā kamaliʻi e loli ana i ka manawa.