ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui, maʻalahi, hoʻomaka ka hanauna hau e hoʻokau i nā pilikia i kona poʻe kūpuna, he ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ko lākou mau code. Hānau ʻia me ka ʻenehana, polikika pololei, ʻaʻole hoʻokahuli aupuni, ʻaʻohe o nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e kēia mau ʻōpio ʻōpio, mamao loa mai Mei 68 a me cobblestones. Me ka hoʻi ʻole i ka pūʻali koa o ka hoʻonaʻauao post-68, e hoʻokō ʻia kā lākou kipi ʻana ma o ka ʻike ʻana i ka mīkini uila me ka hacking a i ʻole nā ​​virus virus.

ʻO ka hanauna Snowflakes

Manaʻo paha kekahi e hoʻohana ʻia kēia ʻōlelo i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i nā kānaka i kēlā me kēia kanaka e like me nā snowflakes, ke ʻano like, akā ʻo ka mea ʻokoʻa i kā lākou kūkulu.

ʻAʻole pēlā. No ko mākou mau hoaaloha ma ka ʻĀkelanika a ma ke kahawai, ʻo ka snowflake ka mea pejorative. Hoʻohana ʻia kēia ʻōlelo i ke kiʻi i kahi hanauna i paʻa ma waena o ka ʻōpio a me ka makua, ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia he emi ke kūpaʻa ma mua o ko lākou mau mua.

ʻO ka moʻolelo o kēia hanauna

Hānau ʻia i ke kakahiaka nui 90, ua kū kēia hanauna i ke ʻano makua i nā makahiki 2010. Wahi a nā sociologists, ʻike ʻia kēia hanauna e kona ʻaoʻao "maʻalahi", kona kūpaʻa o ka naʻau a me kona kūpaʻa haʻahaʻa ma muli o kahi wā kamaliʻi pale ʻole.

Ua kapa ʻia hoʻi ka hanauna "millennial", ua kapa ʻia ia he hanauna snowflake e pili ana i ka puke Fight Club, i kākau ʻia e Chuck Palahniuk. Hoʻololi ʻia no ka hale kiʻi ʻoniʻoni na David Fincher i ka makahiki 1999, me Brad Pitt Edward Norton, haʻi kēia kiʻiʻoniʻoni i ka moʻolelo o nā kāne ʻōpio i neʻe aku, i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke ʻano e hui pū me kahi hui hakakā e hoʻihoʻi i ko lākou mana, ko lākou ola i ka lima, mahalo i ka hakakā ʻuhane.

Kūlike ʻole i ka manaʻo o ka mea mele kaulana ʻo Pharell Williams nāna i kākoʻo i kahi ʻano kū hoʻokahi: “ʻAʻohe kanaka i like; like mākou me nā hulu hau, ʻaʻohe o mākou like akā maikaʻi mākou a pau, "hoʻohana ka mea kākau Chuck Palahniuk i kēia metaphor e hele kūʻē i kēia ʻano noʻonoʻo, e hōʻike ākea ana i ka nāwaliwali o ke ʻano e hoʻonāukiuki ʻo ia.

Ma kēia ʻano kaʻao kahi a ka nonconformist ʻo Tyler Durden i paipai ai i kāna mau kāne e hakakā i kā lākou waiho ʻana i ke kaiāulu mea kūʻai aku me kā lākou mau lima ma o ka hoʻomaka ʻana mai ka manaʻo ʻaʻohe mea kūikawā kekahi: Hana ʻia mākou i ka meaola pala pala like me nā mea āpau, ʻo mākou ka maka o kēia ao i mākaukau no kekahi mea, pili mākou āpau i ka puʻu palu o humus. “

Na wai i hana ka manaʻo? E like me nā manawa ma mua, koi kekahi mau kumuwaiwai i ka mea kākau. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoluʻolu a kahe ka nui o ka inika.

Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ua komo ka huaʻōlelo i ka Collins English Dictionary, ka mea e wehewehe nei i ka hanauna snowflake ma ke ʻano he "ʻōpio makua o nā makahiki 2010, ka mea i ʻike ʻia me ka liʻiliʻi o ke kūpaʻa a maʻalahi hoʻi i ka hanauna ma mua o nā hanauna i hala." Ua lilo ia i ʻōlelo i hoʻohana ʻia i loko o ka politika e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa i ka poʻe Pro-European a me ka anti-Trump.

Hānau ʻia ma waena o nā 80 a me nā 90, ua ulu aʻe kēia mau ʻōpio ʻōpio me ka ulu wikiwiki o nā ʻenehana hou. No laila he poʻe loea uila, hoʻohana i ka mea hana i ko lākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā, a ʻike ʻole i ke ola me ka ʻole o kahi noi. I loko o kāna puke, ua wehewehe ʻo Tamar Almog ua hoʻohālikelike ʻia kēia hanauna ʻōpio e kahi hui kūpilikiʻi a me ka hoʻowahāwahā nui, ka hakakā, a me ka nohona ʻoihana; ka mea kūʻai aku a me nā mea e hoʻolaha ana i ka media, individualistic a me globalized. No ka mea kākau, he mau keiki egocentric lākou o ke au uila, hānai ʻia ma ke ʻano he mau keiki aliʻi a me nā kamāliʻiwahine, pale ʻia e nā huaʻōlelo o ka hoʻomaikaʻi a me ka hōʻoia o kā lākou mau kumu a me nā mākua.

Hopohopo nā psychologists e pili ana i nā hopena o ke aʻo ʻana, i mea e paipai ai i ka "manaʻo pilikino", ua ālai i ka hiki ke nīnau iā ʻoe iho. Claire Fox, wehewehe "ʻAʻole hewa kēia mau ʻemepela liʻiliʻi me ka ʻili hypersensitive. ʻO mākou ka mea nāna lākou i hana ”. Kāhea ʻo ia i kahi hoʻololi i nā ʻano aʻo. Ua pale aku nā mākua a me nā kumu palekana i kēia hanauna i nā ʻike e ʻae ai i ke oʻo makua makua. Pēlā e mau ai kona mau lālā i kahi wā o ka hoʻomohala psychic.

Nā Manaʻo Manaʻo ma Y Generation Y

Hoʻopiʻi mau kēia hanauna:

• koi i "wahi palekana" (kahi e hiki ai i kekahi ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ka manuahi);
• "Trigger warn" (ka hana o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka haʻalulu o nā ʻike);
• "No-platforming" (pāpā i kekahi ʻano pilikino mai ke komo ʻana i kahi paio).

ʻO nā hana e hopohopo nei kekahi e hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kahi hoʻouka ʻana i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka haʻi ʻana a me kekahi censorship ma nā kula nui Pelekane a me ʻAmelika.

Nui nā kumu kula nui e hoʻomaopopo i ka hemahema o ka hoʻohewa iā ʻoe iho ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā haumāna, kahi pilikia i ka nīnau ʻana iā lākou iho, kahi paʻakikī i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa.

ʻO ka loea ʻo ka Hoʻololi Mua ʻo Greg Lukianoff a me ka loio psychologist ʻo Jonathan Haidt i nīnau i nā kumu no kēia mau pilikia pā kula hou. ʻO lākou ko lākou kumu i loko o ʻekolu mau manaʻo weliweli i ʻoi aku ka nui a hoʻohui ʻia i ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka aʻo o kēia hanauna.

• he aha ka mea e pepehi ʻole ai iā ʻoe e nāwaliwali ai;
• paulele mau i kou mau manaʻo;
• he kaua ke ola ma waena o ka maikaʻi a me ka hewa.

Wahi a nā kānaka noiʻi, ua kūʻē kēia mau mea wahaheʻe nui ʻekolu i nā loina psychological maʻamau i ka pono a me ka naʻau kahiko o nā moʻomeheu he nui. Ke ʻae nei i kēia mau ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole - a me ka moʻomeheu hopena o ka palekana - hoʻopilikia i ka ulu ʻana o ka nohona kanaka, ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka poʻe ʻōpio. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī no lākou e lilo i mau mākua kūʻokoʻa, hiki ke alo i nā pilikia o ke ola. Wahi a ka loiloi a Lukianoff lāua ʻo Haidt, ʻo kēia mau mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole mai ke ʻano kaiāulu kahi i ʻauʻau ai kēia hanauna:

• ke piʻi nei ka makaʻu makua;
• ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi o nā pāʻani i mālama ʻole ʻia a alakaʻi ʻia e nā keiki;
• ka honua hou o ka pāpaho kaiapili, ʻōpio ʻōpio.

He hanauna paʻakikī e hoʻokele

Ma o 2020, kahi hapalua o ka poʻe hana e hele mai mai kēia hanauna i paʻa ma waena o ka ʻōpio a me ka makua. Concretely, ka luna o ka hau hau e hana me kāna mau mea kikoʻī a kū i alakaʻi.

ʻO kahi laʻana maoli e ukali a me kahi lunamakaʻāinana o ka mana, pono ʻo ia:

• hele pū me ia;
• kaʻi iā ia;
• ke kākāʻōlelo.

Ma muli o ka maʻalahi o kēia hanauna i ka ʻike, he mea nui ia no ka luna e ʻike i ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hana i hāʻawi ʻia.