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Ua pāpā ʻia ka hahau ʻana!
Mai ka lā 22 o Kekemapa 2016, ua pāpā ʻia ka hahau ʻana ma Farani, e like me ka hoʻopaʻi kino. Ua koi ʻia kahi pāpā lōʻihi e ka Council of Europe, ka mea i hoʻohewa iā Farani no ka "ʻaʻole hāʻawi i kahi pāpā maopopo, paʻa a pololei hoʻi i ka hoʻopaʻi kino." No laila ua hana ʻia! Inā lohi kēia koho, ʻoiaʻiʻo no ka mea ua kūʻē ka poʻe Farani, i ka hapa nui o lākou: i Malaki 2015, 70% o ka poʻe Palani i kūʻē i kēia pāpā, ʻoiai inā he 52% o lākou i manaʻo he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻaʻole. hāʻawi i nā keiki (source Le Figaro).
ʻO ka hahau ʻana, ʻaʻole ia he mea koʻikoʻi no ke keiki
Ke nīnau mākou iā lākou, Ua wehewehe kekahi mau makuahine "ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻeha i ka hahau ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa » a i ʻole e ʻōlelo paha: “Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka hahau ʻana i koʻu wā liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻole ia i make iaʻu”. ʻO Olivier Maurel, ka mea kākau o ka puke "Spanking, questions on educational violence", pane maopopo loa "inā e hāʻawi iki i ka hahau, no ke aha e hana ai? Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke pale aku a koho i kahi ʻano hoʻonaʻauao ʻē aʻe ". No ia, inā he paʻi māmā, ʻoiai ma ka diaper, a i ʻole he paʻi, "ʻo mākou i loko o ka hana ʻino māmā a ʻaʻole he mea ʻole ka hopena i ke keiki." ʻOiaʻiʻo, e like me kāna, "ʻo ke koʻikoʻi i hana ʻia e ka lipine e pili pono i ke olakino o ke keiki ma o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā maʻi digestive no ka laʻana". No Olivier Maurel, « ʻo ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo nā neurons aniani o ka lolo e hoʻopaʻa i nā hana āpau i ʻike ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā a hoʻomākaukau kēia mīkini iā mākou e hana hou iā lākou. Pela ke paʻi ʻoe i kahi keiki, hoʻokala ʻoe i ke ala no ka hana ʻino i loko o ko lākou lolo a hoʻopaʻa inoa ka lolo. A e hana hou ke keiki i kēia hana ʻino i kona manawa i kona ola. “.
Hoʻopaʻi me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻole
Manaʻo kekahi mau mākua i ka hahau ʻana he ala "ʻaʻole e nalowale ka mana ma luna o kā lākou keiki." Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo Monique de Kermadec, kahi keiki psychologist “ʻAʻole aʻo ʻia ke keiki i kekahi mea i ka hahau ʻana. Pono e aʻo ʻia nā mākua e hoʻopaʻi me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻole ". ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua wehewehe ka psychologist "ʻoiai inā hiki ka makua i kahi kūlana hopohopo i ka wā e hele ai ke keiki i kahi palena, pono ʻo ia e pale i ka huhū a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hahau iā ia". ʻO kekahi o kāna ʻōlelo aʻo, ʻo ia ka haʻi ʻōlelo a hoʻopaʻi paha i ke keiki, inā hiki, e hele pū me ka ʻōlelo aʻo. No ka mea, ke hāpai ka makua i kona lima, "ua hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia ke keiki i ka hana hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻolohe ka makua i ka hana ʻino e hōʻino ai i ka maikaʻi o kā lāua pilina". No ka psychologist, pono ka makua e "hoʻonaʻauao ma o nā huaʻōlelo ma luna o nā mea āpau". ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokumu ʻia ka mana makua ma luna o ka hana ʻino inā no ke kanaka makua wale nō i ka hana ʻana. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Monique de Kermadec inā "hoʻokumu ʻia ka hoʻonaʻauao ma luna o ka hana ʻino, e ʻimi ke keiki i kēia ʻano hana, e piʻi ana ka piʻi. ʻIke ʻino ke keiki a loaʻa iā ia ka makemake e hoʻopaʻi ".
He ʻano hoʻonaʻauao i hakakā ʻia
Manaʻo ka nui o nā makuahine "ʻaʻole ʻeha ka paʻi ʻana". ʻO kēia ʻano ʻōlelo ʻōlelo he nui nā hui e hakakā nei no kekahi mau makahiki. I ka makahiki 2013, ua paʻakikī ka Children's Foundation me kahi hoʻolaha i kapa ʻia. Ua hōʻike ʻia kēia kiʻiʻoniʻoni pōkole i kahi makuahine huhū e paʻi ana i kāna keiki. Paʻi ʻia me ka neʻe mālie, hoʻonui ka hopena i ka hopena a me ka deformation o ka maka o ke keiki.
Eia kekahi, ua paʻi ka hui l'Enfant Bleu i Pepeluali 2015 i nā hopena o kahi nui hoʻokolokolo hoʻomāinoino. ʻOi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi ma 10 poʻe Farani e hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka hoʻomāinoino kino, 14% i haʻi ʻia ua loaʻa i ka hōʻino kino, ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka naʻau i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi a ʻo 45% ka manaʻo ma kahi o hoʻokahi hihia i ko lākou wahi kokoke (ʻohana, nā hoalauna, nā hoahana, kokoke. hoa). I ka makahiki 2010, ua hoʻomanaʻo ʻo INSERM i nā ʻāina hoʻomohala e like me Farani, make elua keiki i kela la i keia la mahope o ka hana ino ana.
E `ike :
"ʻO ka hahau ʻana, hāʻawi ʻia me ka lima ʻole e like me ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana i nā keiki i kēia manawa, mai ka liʻiliʻi loa i ke kenekulia 18. A laila, i ka 19th a ʻoi aku hoʻi i ka 19th century, ʻoi aku paha ia o ka hana ʻohana. Ma nā kula, paʻi nui mākou i nā koʻokoʻo, a, ma ke kumu, ʻo ka Historical Dictionary o ka ʻōlelo Farani a Alain Rey (Robert) e wehewehe ʻo ka huaʻōlelo "spanking" ʻaʻole mai ka ʻāʻī, akā mai ka "fascia", ʻo ia hoʻi e ʻōlelo “puʻupuʻu” (o nā lālā a i ʻole nā lāʻau wicker). Ma hope wale nō, aia paha i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ke kenekulia XNUMX, ua hiki mai ka huikau me ka huaʻōlelo "buttock", no laila ke ʻano loea: "puʻu i hāʻawi ʻia ma nā ʻōpala". Ma mua, me he mea lā ua hāʻawi hou ʻia ka hahau ʻana ma ke kua. I nā ʻohana, mai ka makahiki XNUMXth, ua pinepine ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka swift. Akā ua pā mākou me nā puna lāʻau, nā pulupulu a me nā kāmaʻa ". (Nīnauele na Olivier Maurel).