ʻaihue lākou mai iā mākou i ka manawa hiamoe, hoʻomaha, kamaʻilio me nā mea aloha. Ua lilo kā mākou mau smartphones i mea nui iā mākou ma mua o kā mākou mau keiki a me nā moʻopuna. Manaʻolana ʻo Psychotherapist Christophe Andre no ka hanauna ʻōpio a manaʻo ʻo ia i ka liʻiliʻi o ka hilinaʻi ʻana i nā hāmeʻa.
Hana ʻia ka moʻolelo mua ma ke kaʻaahi. He kaikamahine ʻekolu a ʻehā paha makahiki e kaha kiʻi ana, e noho kūʻē ana i kona mau mākua. Ke nānā aku nei ka makuahine i ka huhū, me he mea lā ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana he paio a i ʻole kekahi ʻano pilikia: nānā ʻo ia i ka puka makani a hoʻolohe i ke mele ma nā headphone. Nānā ʻo Pāpā i ka pale o kāna kelepona.
No ka mea ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio ai ke kaikamahine, kamaʻilio ʻo ia iā ia iho: "Ma kaʻu kiʻi ʻana, mama ... Hoʻolohe ʻo ia i kāna mau headphone a huhū ʻo ia, koʻu makuahine ... Hoʻolohe ʻo Mama i kāna mau headphone ... ʻAʻole hauʻoli ʻo ia ... «
Hoʻopuka pinepine ʻo ia i kēia mau ʻōlelo mai ka mua a i ka hopena, me ka nānā ʻana i kona makuakāne ma ke kihi o kona maka, me ka manaʻo e hoʻolohe ʻo ia iā ia. Akā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole makemake iki kona makuakāne iā ia. ʻO ka mea i hana ʻia ma kāna kelepona e hoʻopio nui iā ia.
Ma hope o kekahi manawa, hāʻule ke kaikamahine - ua hoʻomaopopoʻo ia i nā mea a pau - a hoʻomau i ka hukiʻana i ka leo. A laila, ma hope o ʻumi mau minuke, makemake mau ʻo ia i kamaʻilio. A laila hiki iā ia ke waiho i kāna mau mea a pau i kamaʻilio hope ai kona mau mākua iā ia. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻāhewa ʻia ma mua o ka mālama ʻole ʻia…
ʻO ka moʻolelo ʻelua. … Huli ke keiki me ka nānā ʻole ʻana a hele e kamaʻilio me kona kupuna kāne. I ka hele ʻana mai me lākou, lohe au: “E ke kupuna kāne, ua ʻae mākou: ʻaʻohe hāmeʻa ke ʻohana mākou!” 'Ōlelo ke kanaka i kekahi mea me ka weheʻole i kona mau maka mai ka pale.
Kupanaha! He aha kāna e noʻonoʻo ai i ke ahiahi o ka lā Sābati, e ʻimi ana i kahi mea hoʻopau pili? Pehea e ʻoi aku ka waiwai o ke kelepona iā ia ma mua o ke alo o kahi moʻopuna?
ʻO nā keiki i ʻike i ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana o nā pākeke iā lākou iho me nā smartphones e loaʻa i kahi pilina naʻauao me kā lākou mau hāmeʻa.
ʻAʻole ʻaihue ʻia ka manawa i hoʻolilo ʻia ma mua o nā pale kelepona mai nā hana ʻē aʻe. I loko o ko mākou ola pilikino, ʻo ia ka manawa i ʻaihue ʻia mai ka hiamoe (i ke ahiahi) a mai kā mākou pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: ʻohana, nā hoaaloha a i ʻole ke ahiahi. ʻIke mākou i kēia? Ke nānā au a puni, me he mea lā, ʻaʻohe…
ʻElua mau hihia aʻu i ʻike ai e hoʻonāukiuki iaʻu. Akā, hoʻoikaika lākou iaʻu. Minamina wau i ka hoʻoluhi ʻana o nā mākua a me nā kūpuna i kā lākou mau hāmeʻa.
Akā, hauʻoli wau i nā keiki, ka poʻe i ʻike i ka ʻilihune a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana o nā mākua iā lākou iho me kēia mau mea hana, e mālama i kahi pilina ʻoi aku ka makaʻala a kūpono hoʻi me kā lākou mau hāmeʻa ma mua o nā hanauna kahiko, nā mea i loaʻa i ke kūʻai aku, ka poʻe i kūʻai kūleʻa i kahi kahawai pau ʻole o ka ʻike. nā polokalamu no ka ʻai ʻana (" ʻO ka mea pili ʻole ʻaʻole ia he kanaka maoli", "ʻAʻole wau e kaupalena iaʻu iho i kekahi mea").
E nā ʻōpio, ke hilinaʻi nei mākou iā ʻoe!