ʻO nā mea kākau, nā haku mele, nā alakaʻi e pena pinepine i nā kiʻi o ke aloha kūpono. Makemake mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo kēia ka hihia. I kekahi lā e hele mai ai kekahi aliʻi nani a lawe iā mākou i kahi aupuni fairy. Akā ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi nā moʻolelo aloha mai nā puke me ke ola maoli.
Mai koʻu wā kamaliʻi, makemake au i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni aloha a me nā puke. Ua ulu au me nā manaʻo kūpono e pili ana i ke aloha. Hula nā kāne maikaʻi a me nā wahine hoʻohiwahiwa ma lalo o ka mālamalama o ka mahina a ʻai ʻia me ke kukui kukui e hoʻokani mele. ʻO nā kāne he mau aliʻi i holo lio nani a hoʻopakele i nā lede nani. ʻO nā honi ʻoluʻolu, nā hula sexy, nā manawa palupalu, nā hana aloha - i koʻu noʻonoʻo, nani ke aloha.
A laila ua ulu au, male au a ʻike wau ʻaʻole like ke aloha. Mai kuhi hewa iaʻu. Aloha au i kaʻu kāne. Manaʻo wau he ola nui ko mākou. Hauʻoli mākou a aloha pū kekahi i kekahi, e like me ka manawa i hui ai mākou ma kahi haʻawina kaha kiʻi ma ka papa ʻehiku. Ua ulu a oʻo pū mākou. Ua lilo mākou i hui maoli. Manaʻo wau i ke aloha.
Akā, me kēia mau mea a pau, ʻaʻole au i manaʻoʻiʻo he nani ke aloha. ʻAʻole pēlā ke aloha maoli. Ma hope o ʻelima mau makahiki o koʻu male ʻana, ua ʻike wau ʻaʻole i like ka maikaʻi o ke aloha maoli, e like me ke kiʻi. Aia nā manawa me nā kiʻi kūpono ʻole: nā kiʻi o nā huakaʻi exotic a me nā pāʻina aloha i kau ʻia e nā kaikamahine ma Instagram (kahi hui extremist i pāpā ʻia ma Rūsia). I kekahi manawa loaʻa iā mākou nā bouquets nani a aʻo i ka lani hōkū me kā mākou mea aloha.
Akā ʻokoʻa kēlā mau manawa. ʻAʻole nani ke aloha i nā manawa a pau
ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo ia e hele kokoke i ka nani. ʻO ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, nāna e hoʻopaʻa i ka male ʻana a me ke ola pū ʻana, ʻaʻole kūpono a ʻino hoʻi. He puʻupuʻu kēia o nā hoʻāʻo, nā pilikia a me ke kaumaha, kahi hoʻāʻo ʻana o nā kānaka ʻelua e hoe i ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, ʻoiai nā manaʻo like ʻole a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo.
ʻO kēia ka ʻike o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo: ʻaʻole e lōʻihi ka pōpō male, e hoʻopau koke ka halo o ka honeymoon a me nā ʻōpala o ka champagne. Ma kahi o ka hauʻoli ke ola maoli, ma kahi o ka spontaneity a me ke aloha - nā hopohopo honua
ʻO ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa hoʻopaʻapaʻa no ka ʻohana, ke kālā, a me ka wai hoʻokahe i loko o ka pahu hau. ʻO kēia ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka hopena o ka hū ʻana a me ka luaʻi ʻana ma ke kapena. E haʻalele i nā kīʻaha i hoʻopuehu ʻia a me nā kīʻaha kofe hapa hapa i waiho ʻia ma ke keʻena.
ʻO ke aloha ka hula i loko o ka lumi kuke, me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i nā kuahiwi o nā kīʻaha lepo i loko o ka poho a me ke ʻala o ka ʻōpala i lawe ʻia i waho i ka wā ma mua, e uwē ana ma kona poʻohiwi me nā kahawai o ka hū a me ke kupapaʻu e kahe ana.
ʻO ke aloha ke kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi ke hoʻouna ke ola i nā hoʻokolohua weliweli a ʻaʻohe ikaika e hōʻike i ka minoʻaka
Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ʻo ia i ka hale kūʻai nui āu e makemake ai i ka tick-tock ʻalani, hoʻouka i kāu mele punahele i iTunes. ʻO ke aloha ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i loko o nā manawa paʻakikī loa a me ka ʻole o kēia ʻōlelo: "Aia wau, e noho mau wau me ʻoe."
ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka lauoho a me ka make-up ke aloha, nā pua kupaianaha a me nā pāʻina aloha i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻole he kiʻi hele wāwae ke aloha ma waena o nā māla daisies i ka napoʻo ʻana o ka lā. He paʻakikī ke aloha, ʻeha a weliweli. Aia i loko o nā ʻāpana āu e hōʻike ʻole ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ke aloha ka kānalua, ka hakakā, ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a me nā hoʻoholo paʻakikī.
ʻAʻole nani ke aloha, akā ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea paʻakikī a koʻikoʻi. Hahai mākou iā ia e kū'ē i nā pilikia, hele ma ka ʻaoʻao a lawe i nā pilikia. Ua ʻae mākou i ka ʻino me ka maikaʻi, no ka mea, pili loa mākou i kēia kanaka.
ʻAʻole kūʻai paʻakikī, aloha paʻakikī no ka mana kūpono o ia mea. ʻOiai mākou paʻakikī a makaʻu, ʻike mākou i kahi ala e ʻakaʻaka ai a ʻike i ka nani i nā manawa paʻakikī loa. ʻO kēia ka mana o ke aloha.
No ka mea kākau: ʻO Lindsey Detweiler kahi mea kākau moʻolelo aloha.