"Inā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o koʻu hāpai ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, no ka pēpē a noʻu pū kekahi (ma waho o nā maʻi maʻamau: nausea, ʻeha hope, luhi…), ʻaʻole wau makemake i ka hāpai ʻana. Nui nā nīnau e ala mai no kēia hāpai mua ʻana, koʻu kūlana makuahine hou: e hoʻi au i ka hana ma hope? E maikaʻi ana ka hānai ʻana? E lawa anei au i ke ao a me ka po e hānai iā ia? Pehea wau e hana ai me ka luhi? Nui nā nīnau no ka pāpā. Ua kaumaha wau a me ka manaʻo o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻole ʻia e ko'u mau hoa hele. O ia me he mea la ua nalowale au... "
Morgane
"He aha ka pilikia iaʻu i ka wā hāpai?" Ka nele o ke kuokoa (o nā neʻe a me nā papahana), a ʻoi aku ka kūlana nāwaliwali he aha ka manaʻo a me ka mea hiki ʻole ke hūnā! ”
Emilia
“ʻO ka hāpai ʻana he pilikia maoli. Me he mea lā, no ʻeiwa mahina, ʻaʻole mākou i ola hou! ʻAʻole wau iho, ʻAʻohe aʻu mea hoihoi e hana. Me he mea lā, ʻaʻole mākou he poepoe hoihoi e like me ke kinipōpō. ʻAʻohe pāʻina, ʻaʻohe waiʻona, luhi au i nā manawa a pau, ʻaʻohe lole nani no ka wahine hāpai ... Ua loaʻa iaʻu ke kaumaha i hala ʻeiwa mahina. Eia naʻe, Aloha au i kaʻu keiki me ka pupule a he makuahine loa au. Makemake ko'u hoa i ke keiki lua, ua ha'i aku au ia ia, 'o ia ka mea e hapai ana! ”
ʻO Marion
" Aʻohe oʻu ʻaʻole makemake iki i ka hāpai ʻana, ʻoiai ʻo ka hāpai ʻana a ka poʻe e lili mai iaʻu. Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka nausea a me ka luhi maʻamau o ka trimester mua, akā ʻaʻole au i ʻike ʻino loa, he ʻāpana ia o ka pāʻani. Eia naʻe, i nā mahina aʻe, he moʻolelo ʻokoʻa. ʻO ka neʻe ʻana o ka pēpē, i ka wā mua ua ʻike wau he mea ʻole ia, a laila ma hope o ka manawa, Ua ʻeha wau (Ua ʻoki au i ka ate, he 20 knm koʻu ʻili, a ʻo ka mea hiki ʻole ke ulu ka pēpē ma lalo o ia). I ka mahina i hala, ua ala au i ka pō e uē ana i ka ʻeha ... Ma hope, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke neʻe maʻamau, ua lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o ke kau ʻana i koʻu mau kāmaʻa, pono wau e hoʻohuli iaʻu iho i nā ʻaoʻao āpau i ʻike hope ua pehu ke keiki bipi. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke lawe hou i kekahi mea kaumaha, i ka wā e hānai ai mākou i nā holoholona, pono mākou e kāhea i ke kōkua no kahi mauʻu pōʻino. lilo kekahi i hilinaʻi, ʻoluʻolu loa!
ʻAʻole au i ʻaʻa i ka ʻōlelo ʻana he hewa ia, no ka makaʻu i ka haʻalulu kanaka. Manaʻo nā kānaka a pau he hauʻoli loa ka hāpai ʻana, pehea lā mākou e wehewehe ai he mea hoʻopailua mākou? A no hoi, ka hewa o ka hana ʻana i kaʻu pēpē pēlā, ka mea a'u i aloha ai mamua o na mea a pau. He hopohopo nui koʻu o manaʻo kaʻu kaikamahine ʻaʻole aloha ʻia. ʻEā, ua hoʻopau wau i koʻu manawa e kamaʻilio me koʻu ʻōpū, me ka haʻi ʻana iā ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka mea i hoʻopilikia iaʻu, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kali e ʻike kino iā ia ma mua o koʻu ʻōpū. Lawe au i koʻu pāpale i kaʻu kāne, nāna i kākoʻo a hōʻoluʻolu iaʻu i kēia manawa, a me koʻu makuahine a me koʻu hoa aloha. Me ka ʻole o lākou, Manaʻo wau ua lilo koʻu hāpai ʻana i ke kaumaha. Aʻo wau i nā makuahine e hiki mai ana i loaʻa iā lākou iho i kēia kūlana e kamaʻilio e pili ana. I ka wā i hiki ai iaʻu ke haʻi aku i nā kānaka i koʻu manaʻo, Ua lohe au i ka nui o nā wahine e ʻōlelo ana "ʻike ʻoe, ʻaʻole wau makemake i kēlā"… ʻAʻole ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo i kēlā, no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka hāpai ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike pehea e aloha ai i kāu keiki… ”
Zulfaa