PSYchology

ʻO Chok ka laiki Thai porridge, viscous a me ka ʻono ʻole, akā i ka manawa like he mea koʻikoʻi, no ka mea, mahalo i kona haʻahaʻa a me ka maʻalahi, ola ka hapalua o Thailand. No laila, ʻo ʻoe, e kuʻu hoaaloha.

Eia hou, ʻo koʻu hāʻule ʻana i ka nīnau a kahi wahine i piha i ka ʻeha ma ke kumuhana “I hea i hele ai nā kāne “ʻoiaʻiʻo?”, noʻonoʻo hohonu wau. Ke kaʻana like nei ʻoe i kahi?

Mai kaʻana like i nā wahi āpau! E nā kaikamāhine, eia nō kāua. Me nā hemahema a pau, ka makaʻuʻole a me ke kuleana ʻole o ka honua kāne ʻē aʻe, aia nō nā kāne maoli i ko lākou wahi. ʻO ia, aia a e lilo ana. A kuhikuhi.

I kēlā me kēia manawa ke kipa ʻia nei au e ka luhi o ka snot e pili ana i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana o nā kāne "ʻoiaʻiʻo". Hoʻomaopopo, hope, he mea maʻalahi - «chok» e noho mau «chok», a me nā kāne maoli - nā kāne maoli. A inā ʻoe e hālāwai me "chok", koʻu aloha iā ʻoe. E pili ana paha ia iā ʻoe, no ka mea, hoʻokipa like.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i "mea maoli" nā kāne a pau. ʻOiai i nā lā i holo wikiwiki ai mākou ma mua o ka sprinter Jamaican Usain Bolt, me ka manaʻo e hiki i ka ʻāʻī o kahi antelope. Ua māhele ʻia nā kāne i ʻekolu mau ʻano maʻalahi. E like me nā hua i nā moa hoʻomoe. ʻO ka mea like wale nō mākou a pau he mau makaʻu maoli nō mākou. E like me nā ʻīlio ʻAmelika Staffordshire. Lilo mākou i nā ʻīlio hakakā me nā makahiki a me nā hakakā wale nō.

ʻAe, ʻae, a ʻaʻohe mea e manaʻo ai ʻoukou e nā kaikamāhine ma laila, ʻaʻohe poʻe makaʻu ʻole. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o nā ʻelele o kēia mau ʻano ʻekolu, ʻo ia ka makaʻu o ka mea mua e ʻae aku he makaʻu lākou, ʻike ka mea hope i kēia, akā ʻaʻole hana, a ʻo ke kolu e hoʻomanaʻo mau i kēia a hana i nā hana e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ke kūlana deplorable.

Ma ke ala, eia kekahi nānā 'ē aʻe — ka loa «makaʻu ole», mai ka wahine manaʻo, kanaka i loa paha ma kahi o ka mua elua waeʻano. ʻO ka pōkole, ʻo ka mea ʻuā nui loa ka mea makaʻu loa.

ʻAʻohe hewa o ka makaʻu. Ua like ia me ka makemake i kahi mea liʻiliʻi. ʻO kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i ka wā e kū mai ai kahi pilikia nui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele a pee, a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kū, e naʻaupō, e kali i kou manawa a "ʻo ia" lā, a, ma hope, e wehewehe iā ʻoe iho. ʻO wau iho, ʻaʻole oʻu hilahila i ka ʻae ʻana he mau mea i kēia ao aʻu e makaʻu nei. Inā ʻoe e huki mai iaʻu i ka leo holoʻokoʻa o nā phobias, nā makaʻu, nā pilikia a kau iā ia ma ka pepa, ʻoi aku paha, e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi puke e like me ka nui o ka Baibala. Maopopo maopopo iaʻu kēia, a ke noho nei au me ia maʻamau. ʻIke wale nō wau ʻaʻole ʻo ka wiwo ʻole maoli inā ʻaʻole makaʻu. ʻO ia ka manawa i lawe ai ʻo ia a hana, ʻoiai ʻo ka nui o ka ʻomi ʻana i kahi wahi hilahila.

I ka pane ʻana i ka nīnau "Ma hea kahi i hele ai nā kāne maʻamau?", ʻAʻohe oʻu makemake iki e lawe i ke kuleana no nā ʻelele āpau o ke kāne kāne. ʻO ka nui loa e hiki iaʻu ke hana ma ʻaneʻi, ʻo ia ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ʻelua a ʻekolu mau huaʻōlelo noʻu iho a me koʻu mau hoaaloha. No ka poe i maopopo ia'u. Hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo no kaʻu mau haumāna puka.

ʻAʻole mākou e hōʻeha ʻia e ka pilikia a ko mākou poʻe hou, me ko lākou hāʻule ʻana i ke kiʻi o Justin Bieber, e hoʻohaumia i ka hoʻomanaʻo o nā kūpuna heroic. ʻAʻole wau a me koʻu mau hoaaloha e hāʻule i ke kūlana o kahi hoki hoʻoheheʻe ʻia.

He poʻo ko mākou ma ko mākou poʻohiwi, nā niho ʻoi, nā ʻiʻo ikaika a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, he makemake hiki ʻole ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kēia manawa. Ua lawa kēia iā mākou i ʻole e paʻakikī a ʻaʻole e hoʻopaʻa ʻia i kahi hanana kaiaulu a i ʻole ke apo mokomoko. Loaʻa iā mākou ka wiwo ʻole e ʻae aku ua makaʻu mākou a pau, a laila e hoʻomau. E hele no kou hopohopo, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho a me ka honua a puni ʻoe.

ʻAʻole mākou hopohopo e pili ana i ka pepehi ʻana o ko mākou mau kupuna kāne i ko mākou mau makahiki i ka Nazi. Inā pono, lawe maʻalahi mākou i nā mea kaua. ʻO wau iho, loaʻa iaʻu ke akamai e wehe a hui hou, a me ka wiwo ʻole e huki i ke kumu i ka pohā.

Ua haʻi ʻia mai iā mākou ua ʻoi aku ka ʻino. Ma ke ʻano hea lākou i ʻoi aku ai ka ʻino? Ua emi anei ko kakou naauao? ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu? kuleana ʻole? A i ʻole hiki iā mākou ke lawe i ka wahine i ka orgasm? ʻO ko mākou emi kino paha ia?

Aʻole 'oiaʻiʻo. Ua kokoke mākou i ka piko o kā mākou pāʻani. Ke ala wau i kakahiaka, ʻike wau i kēia lā e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka nehinei. Hoʻokahi kekona wikiwiki, hoʻokahi minute ʻoi aku ke kuleana, hoʻokahi ʻōlelo akamai. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe oʻu ikaika a i ʻole ka manaʻo no ia mea, e loaʻa iaʻu kahi ala e hōʻike koke ai.

Nui nā kumu e hōʻoia ai i ko mākou naʻaupō. ʻO ka nele i ka hānai makua, ka hoʻomāinoino o nā kumu hoʻomāinoino, kahi moʻomeheu a me ka moʻomeheu e paipai i ka hele ʻana i ka hale kūʻai no ke kālā hou ma mua o ka palau ʻana i ka hale haʻuki. Akā ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻohana iā lākou. Ua hoʻomaopopo lōʻihi mākou ua kau ʻia ke kuleana o ko mākou ola a me ke ola o kā mākou poʻe aloha ma luna o ko mākou poʻohiwi e kēia ao. A, ʻoiai kēia ukana kilotona, ua maʻalahi ka maʻalahi o ka noho ʻana. No ka mea, ua loaʻa iā mākou kekahi o nā kumu kumu o ke ʻano o ko mākou ola ʻana. Ua hoʻomaka mākou e nīnau pinepine iā mākou iho i ka nīnau: "ʻO wai, inā ʻaʻole wau?"

Ua ʻoi aku ko mākou hele ʻana ma mua o ka hanauna ma mua, e hana ana i ka hana maʻamau a nā kāne. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole mākou e hānai a mālama i kā mākou mea aloha, akā hoʻokele pū mākou e kaʻana like i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha, e hopohopo nei i ka maikaʻi o ka manaʻo o ka wahine e kokoke mai ana a hōʻike iā ia iho.

He aha nā mea e pono ai iā mākou?

Mālama mākou i kā mākou ʻai. ʻAʻole mākou puhi a inu kakaʻikahi. Hele mākou me ka poʻe ʻelemakule ma nā paka, a i loko o ko mākou puʻuwai ke aloha nui i nā keiki. Kōkua mākou i nā hale noho a hoʻonohonoho i nā holoholona home ʻole i nā ʻohana. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou i nā hale haʻuki a hiki i ka pau ʻana. Hana mākou i ke kālā. Ma kahi moe, hoʻomaopopo mākou i ka maikaʻi o ke kaikamahine e like me mākou. Ke walaʻau kekahi hoa noho ʻona ma lalo, hele mākou e kipa iā ia me ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻeke kinipōpō. He aha hou aʻe mākou e pono ai?

Auē, nani a nani kēia nostalgia no ka wā i hala! Ma mua, ua nalowale nā ​​​​poʻo o nā naita no ka wahine ma nā hoʻokūkū. Ua hakakā lākou i nā duels. Ua hou lakou i kekahi i kekahi me ka pahikaua. Nani ka hoʻouna ʻana i ke kanaka e pepehi i ke poʻo o ka deragona i mea e hōʻoia ai i ke koʻikoʻi o kāna mau manaʻo i ka lede…

ʻAʻole i hele nā ​​kāne maoli. ʻO mākou, ʻoiai a e noho nei mākou, me ka nānā ʻole i ka nui o nā ʻīlio i pepehi ʻia. A inā ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike i kekahi i kekahi, no ka mea wale nō ʻoe e huki i nā mea nona nā hua manu o ka papa mua a me ka lua. A ʻo ka helu serial ma ʻaneʻi, ma ke ala, ʻaʻole ia e ʻoluʻolu.


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Nā kumuhana o ke kamaʻilio ʻana: He aha ke ʻano o ka wahine e pono ai ʻoe i mea e male kūleʻa ai? ʻEhia mau manawa e mare ai nā kāne? No ke aha he kakaikahi na kanaka ma'amau? keiki ʻole. Ka makua. He aha ke aloha? He moʻolelo i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka uku no ka manawa kūpono e pili kokoke i kahi wahine nani.

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