E huhū paha ke keiki inā ʻaʻole kūʻai ʻo ia i mea pāʻani hou? E hakakā anei ʻo ia i nā keiki ʻē aʻe inā makemake ʻole ʻo ia i kekahi mea? A laila pono mākou e wehewehe iā ia i ke ʻano o ka pāpā.
E hōʻole mākou i ka manaʻo kuhihewa nui: ʻaʻole hiki ke kapa ʻia ke keiki ʻike ʻole i ka pāpā ʻana, no ka mea, lilo ʻo ia i mea hoʻopaʻa i kona mau manaʻo ponoʻī a me kona mau manaʻo, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kapa iā ia he hauʻoli, no ka mea ke noho nei ʻo ia i ka hopohopo mau. ʻO ke keiki i waiho wale ʻia iā ia iho, ʻaʻohe manaʻo ʻē aʻe o ka hana ma mua o ka hoʻokō koke ʻana i kona makemake. Ua makemake i kekahi mea? Lawe koke au. ʻAʻole hauʻoli i kekahi mea? Paʻi koke, haki a haki paha.
"Inā ʻaʻole mākou e kaupalena i nā keiki i kekahi mea, ʻaʻole lākou e aʻo e hoʻonoho i nā palena no lākou iho. A e hilinaʻi lākou i ko lākou mau makemake a me nā manaʻo, "wahi a ka mea hoʻoponopono ʻohana ʻo Isabelle Filliozat. — ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomalu iā lākou iho, ʻike lākou i ka hopohopo mau a hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka hewa. E noʻonoʻo paha kekahi keiki penei: “Inā makemake wau e hoʻomāinoino i ka pōpoki, he aha ka mea e hoʻōki iaʻu? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻohe mea i kāohi iaʻu mai ka hana ʻana i kekahi mea. "
"E kōkua nā pāpā i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilina ma ke kaiāulu, noho pū me ka maluhia a kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi"
Ma ka hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻana i nā pāpā, hāʻawi mākou i ka ʻike ʻana o ke keiki i ka honua kahi e noho ai lākou e like me nā kānāwai o ka mana. Inā ʻoi aku koʻu ikaika, a laila e lanakila wau i nā ʻenemi, akā inā ʻike ʻia ua nāwaliwali au? ʻO kēia ke kumu e ʻike pinepine ai nā keiki i ʻae ʻia e hana i kekahi mea i ka makaʻu: "Pehea e hiki ai i kahi makua hiki ʻole ke koi iaʻu e hahai i nā lula ke pale mai iaʻu inā e uhaʻi kekahi i ke kānāwai kūʻē iaʻu?" "E hoʻomaopopo pono nā keiki i ke koʻikoʻi o nā pāpā a koi iā lākou iho, e hoʻonāukiuki i ko lākou mau mākua me kā lākou huhū a me nā hana ʻino e hana i kekahi mau hana., Ke koi ikaika nei o Isabelle Fiyoza. - ʻAʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻāʻo lākou e kau i nā palena no lākou iho a, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, hana lākou ma o ke kino: hāʻule lākou i ka papahele, e hōʻeha iā lākou iho. Hoʻopili ke kino iā lākou inā ʻaʻohe palena ʻē aʻe. Ma waho aʻe o ka pōʻino, ʻaʻole pono kēia mau palena, no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e aʻo i ke keiki i kekahi mea.
Kōkua nā pāpā i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilina ma ke kaiāulu, e ʻae iā mākou e noho pū me ka maluhia a kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ke kānāwai ka mea hoʻoponopono i koi ʻia e hoʻoponopono i nā hakakā me ka ʻole o ka hana ʻino. Hoʻohanohano ʻia ʻo ia a mahalo ʻia e nā mea a pau, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻohe "luna hoʻokō kānāwai" kokoke.
He aha kā mākou e aʻo ai i ke keiki:
- E mahalo i ka pilikino o kēlā me kēia makua a me ke ola o kā lāua mau kāne, mahalo i ko lākou ʻāina a me ko lākou manawa pilikino.
- E nānā i nā loina i ʻae ʻia ma ka honua āna e noho nei. E wehewehe ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana i kāna mea e makemake ai, ua kaupalena ʻia kona mau pono a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa nā mea a pau āna i makemake ai. A inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi ʻano pahuhopu, pono ʻoe e uku no ia mea: ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i mea haʻuki kaulana inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e aʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo maikaʻi ma ke kula inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa.
- E hoʻomaopopo aia nā lula no kēlā me kēia kanaka: hoʻolohe pū nā mākua iā lākou. ʻIke ʻia ʻaʻole kūpono nā kapu o kēia ʻano i ke keiki. Eia kekahi, e pilikia ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia manawa no lākou, no ka mea, ua nele ʻo ia i ka leʻaleʻa pōkole. Akā me ka ʻole o kēia mau ʻeha, ʻaʻole hiki ke ulu ko mākou ʻano.