No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ka waimaka
ʻO ka waimaka he hōʻailona o ko mākou kūlana. Uwe mākou i nā manawa hauʻoli o ke ola a i ka wā e ʻeha ai mākou, kaumaha, ʻeha. Akā, he aha ke ʻano o ia mau moeʻuhane e ʻike ai i ko mākou waimaka a i ʻole nā ​​​​waimaka ʻē aʻe?

Ke uē mākou, paʻi mākou i ko mākou mau manaʻo, hoʻokuʻu iā mākou iho mai nā negativity. A uē mākou ʻaʻole wale ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā i loko o ka moeʻuhane. He aha ka ʻōlelo a ia mau moeʻuhane? Hiki ke wehewehe ʻia nā waimaka ma ka moeʻuhane i nā ʻano like ʻole, e pili ana i nā kikoʻī i loaʻa i loko. Wahi a nā puke moe he nui, ʻo ke kaumaha i loko o ka moeʻuhane ka manaʻo ʻē aʻe a hōʻike i nā hanana hauʻoli.

E noʻonoʻo kākou i ke kumu e moeʻuhane ai nā waimaka a me nā puke moe kaulana e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana iā ia.

He waimaka ma ka puke moe a Vanga

ʻO ka waimaka ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi. Ke kali nei nā mea maikaʻi iā ʻoe. E uē iki ma ka moeʻuhane - i ka nūhou maikaʻi. Inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane he mau waimaka, a laila leʻaleʻa maoli ke kali nei iā ʻoe. Moe ʻoe i ka hysteria me ka waimaka, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoluʻolu - e manaʻo i ka nūhou o ka male ʻana o kekahi. E uē ana i loko o ka moeʻuhane, akā ʻaʻohe waimaka, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻopiʻi nei iā ʻoe me kekahi ʻoihana i pau ʻole. E noʻonoʻo i ka mea i koe i hoʻopau ʻole ʻia i ʻole kēia hana e pale iā ʻoe mai ka neʻe ʻana. I kekahi hihia, waimaka - i ke kahe o ka waiwai, i ka maikaʻi a me ka pōmaikaʻi.

Nā waimaka ma ka puke moe a Freud

ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻole ʻia, wehewehe ka puke moe a Freud i nā moeʻuhane me ka waimaka. ʻO kēlā me kēia moeʻuhane e ʻike ʻia ai ka wai e hōʻike ana i ka ejaculation. Inā ma ka moeʻuhane ʻoe e uē pau ʻole a ikaika, a laila ʻo kāu hoa hou ka mea āu e makemake ai a ʻo ka mea āu e ʻimi nei. A no laila, kokoke loa ka pilina pili i ka maikaʻi a ʻoi aku ma mua o kou mau manaʻo. Aia hoʻokahi "akā" - pili wale nā ​​mea i luna i kahi moe. A i ʻole, e mamao loa kāu pilina mai ka maikaʻi a, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e launa pū i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā.

hōʻike hou aku

Inā uē ke kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike ʻia kēlā moeʻuhane e ʻimi ke kāne e loaʻa i kahi wahine, ʻike i ka makemake ikaika.

No ka wahine, ʻo ka moeʻuhane me ka waimaka, ʻo ia hoʻi, ua luhi ʻo ia i ka pilina pōkole a ke ʻimi nei i kahi kāne e lilo i makua kāne no kāna mau keiki e hiki mai ana.

He waimaka ma ka puke moe a Loff

ʻO ka waimaka i loko o ka moeʻuhane he pane ia i ka mea e hana nei iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. 'Ōlelo ka puke moe a Loff ua hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻiaʻoe me ka waimaka. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kiko'ī o ka moeʻuhane. He aha ka mea i hoʻomaka ai ka waimaka?

ʻO ka uēʻana i ka moeʻuhane mai ka huhū -ʻo ia moeʻuhane e hoʻomaha ai. E uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane no ka make - e manaʻo i kahi loli i ke ola o kāu mea aloha. Inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻoe e uē a ala i ka waimaka, pono ʻoe e hoʻolei i ka negativity i hōʻiliʻili ʻia, kahi mea e hauʻoli iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Malia paha he kanaka pani ʻoe a ʻaʻole hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo i ka lehulehu, e kāohi iā lākou. E ʻoluʻolu e hōʻike i ka nāwaliwali a me nā hopohopo.

Nā waimaka ma ka puke moeʻuhane Esoteric

ʻO ka puke moeʻuhane esoteric e haʻi iā mākou i ka waimaka i ka moeʻuhane ka hopena o ka ʻeha a me nā ʻike. Inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻoe i ka waimaka no kahi mea liʻiliʻi, kahi kumu ʻole, e loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hana ʻole. ʻO ka mea nui paha, e hāʻule ka huakaʻi i hoʻolālā ʻia, a i ʻole e ʻae ʻia ka papahana āu i hana ai.

Inā ma ka moeʻuhane e uē ana ʻoe no kekahi leka, ʻo ia hoʻi, e hālāwai koke ʻoe me kahi kanaka o ka wā i hala e hoʻohauʻoli iā ʻoe. E ho'āʻo e hoʻopili i ka mea nui i nā mea liʻiliʻi inā he moeʻuhane ʻoe e uē ai no ke kaumaha o kekahi.

Nā waimaka ma ka puke moeʻuhane Islam

Wahi a kēia puke moe, ʻo ka waimaka ma ka moeʻuhane ke ʻano o ka hauʻoli, ka hoʻopakele ʻana mai ke kaumaha, nā pōʻino. He hōʻailona maikaʻi inā uē ʻoe no ka mihi no kāu mau hana a i ʻole nā ​​manaʻo ʻeleʻele. Inā manaʻo ʻoe aia nā waimaka anu ma kou mau maka - e hauʻoli. Akā inā wela ka waimaka - manaʻo i ka pilikia.

He waimaka ma ka puke moe a Miller

ʻO ka puke moe a Miller e wehewehe i ka waimaka ma ka moeʻuhane penei: ʻike ʻoe i ka waimaka ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoe e uē. Hoʻopilikia ka waimaka i ka poʻe i ʻike iā lākou ma ka moeʻuhane. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa ka ʻike ʻana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane. ʻO kēlā moeʻuhane e hoʻohiki i ka lono maikaʻi mai kāu poʻe aloha. Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka nui o ka waimaka ma kou mau maka, e mākaukau no kahi ʻeleʻele o ke ola.

Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine i kahi hoa uē, hiki koke ke haʻalulu nui kona kūlana kālā.

Inā uē ka wahine a hōʻoluʻolu ka mea aloha iā ia, hōʻike kēia ʻaʻole e lōʻihi ko lāua pilina.

Inā nui ka poʻe e uē ma ka moeʻuhane - i ke ola hiki iā ʻoe ke noho ʻole i lohe ʻia.

Nā nīnau a me nā pane kaulana

Pane i nā nīnau heluhelu kaulana ʻO Veronika Tyurina, psychologist-consultant ma ke kahua o ka pilina interpersonal, coach, energy therapist:

He aha ka manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane āu e ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho i ka waimaka?
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane i loko o ka pōʻaiapili o nā manaʻo i hōʻike maopopo ʻia i loko o ka moeʻuhane e ʻōlelo nei i ko lākou ʻano ʻē aʻe. Inā ma ka moeʻuhane ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e uwē ana, i ka waimaka, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kahi hanana leʻaleʻa e kali nei iā ʻoe i ke ola, kahi e hana ai i kahi ʻano maikaʻi no ʻoe. Maanei hiki iā mākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka wehe ʻole ʻana o ka ʻeha huna, ka huhū a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana mai ia mea. Ma keʻano he kūlana, ma ka moeʻuhane pono'ī,ʻo ka waimaka a me ka uē ka hopena o kekahi kumu, kahi āu e hoʻomanaʻoʻole ai i kou alaʻana. Hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo ua hana ka psyche no kekahi manawa, i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻoponopono pono'ī.
Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe i nā keiki uē, he aha ke ʻano?
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane ʻike ʻoe i nā keiki e uē ana, he hōʻailona kēia i loko o kāu pōʻai kokoke aia nā poʻe e hopohopo nui nei iā ʻoe i kēia manawa, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi ʻano weliweli - akā, makemake lākou iā ʻoe, no ka laʻana, kahi hoʻoholo wikiwiki o kekahi kūlana. , lanakila ma ka hoʻokūkū etc.
He aha ke ʻano o ka lohe ʻana i ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, akā ʻaʻole ʻike i ka mea e uē ana?
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane e lohe ai ʻoe i ka uē ʻana, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ka mea nona a no hea mai ia, hōʻailona kēia i ka pono o loko e ʻōlelo, e "uē". Aia kekahi kūlana, ʻeha, kahi āu e makemake ʻole ai e kamaʻilio, a pono ia i kahi ala i waho. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana ai ma ia ʻano, ʻo ia ke noʻonoʻo, e ʻohi i kahi pepa a me kahi peni, a hoʻomaka e kākau i ke kahe o nā manaʻo ma kou poʻo. E kōkua kēia ʻano puʻupaʻa iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka ʻeha huna a hoʻopau iā ia.

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