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No ke aha e paʻi ke keiki i nā mākua a me nā mea e hana ai
ʻO ka huhū ke paʻi ke keiki i kona mau mākua ʻaʻole pono e nānā ʻia. Hiki ke nānā i kēia hana i nā keiki ʻōpio loa. A he mea nui loa ia e kaohi i ke kūlana a mākaukau e hoʻohālua i ka ikaika o ka pēpē i kahi ala ʻē aʻe i ka manawa.
No ke aha e hahau ai ke keiki i nā mākua
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e hakakā ana ke keiki no ka mea ʻaʻole aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Inā kū kēia i kahi keiki hoʻokahi makahiki ʻelua mau makahiki, a laila ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kūpale i nā naʻau. ʻAʻole maopopo iā ia ma ka lawe ʻana i kahi spatula i kāna makuahine aloha a i ʻole ke kīloi ʻana i kahi pahu iā ia, ʻeha ʻo ia iā ia. Hana wale kēia a me ka ʻole ʻole.
Kuʻi ke keiki i nā mākua me ka ʻole o ka ʻehaʻeha
Akā aia kekahi mau kumu ʻē aʻe no ka huhū keiki:
- Ua pāpā ʻia ka keiki ʻaʻole e hana i kekahi mea a ʻaʻole i hāʻawi ʻia i kahi mea pāʻani iā ia. Kīloi ʻo ia i nā manaʻo, akā ʻaʻole ʻike pehea e kāohi ai a alakaʻi iā lākou i nā mākua.
- Hoao nā keiki e ʻumeʻume iā lākou iho. Inā hana nui nā mākua me kā lākou ʻoihana ponoʻī, hoʻāʻo ke keiki e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia iho iā ia iho i kekahi ʻano. Hakakā ʻo ia, nahu, ʻuʻikuʻi, me ka ʻike ʻole he ʻeha kēlā.
- Kope ke keiki i ka hana a nā mākua. Inā kū nā hakakā i ka ʻohana, hoʻopaʻapaʻa nā mākua a ʻuwā, lawe ka pēpē i kā lākou ʻano.
- ʻIke ka pēpē a ʻimi i nā palena o ka mea i ʻae ʻia. Makemake ʻo ia i ka ʻano o ka hana a kona makuahine i kāna hana, inā paha e hōʻino a ʻakaʻaka wale paha ia.
I kēlā me kēia hihia, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o kēia hana o ka pēpē a loaʻa i kahi hopena kūpono. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e komo i ka manawa kūpono, e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kāohi ʻana i ka hana hoʻomāinoino makua.
He aha e hana ai inā paʻi ke keiki i nā mākua
Aia mau ʻo Māmā ma hope o ke keiki, a ma ona lā e pīpī pinepine ʻia ai kona mau manaʻo. Hōʻike i ka pēpē āu i ka ʻeha, hōʻike i ka huhū, e aloha ka makuakāne iā ʻoe. I ka manawa like, e hana hou i kēlā me kēia manawa ʻaʻole maikaʻi ke kaua. Mai hāʻawi i ke keiki e loli a mai hoʻopaʻi iā ia. E hoʻohuli a kūpaʻa i kāu mau hana. E hoʻāʻo i kekahi o kēia mau mea:
- E wehewehe i ke kūlana i kāu keiki a hāʻawi i kahi hopena. ʻO kahi laʻana, makemake ʻo ia e nānā i kahi katuna. ʻ Saylelo ua maopopo iā ʻoe kona makemake, akā i kēia lā ua luhi kou mau maka, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele wāwae ʻana a i ʻole pāʻani, a ʻapōpō e nānā pū ai ʻoe i ke kīwī.
- E kamaʻilio malū iā ia, e wehewehe kūpono ana ua hewa ʻo ia. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonā i kou mau pilikia me nā puʻupuʻu, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi e pili ana iā lākou, a na kou makuahine e kākoʻo iā ʻoe.
- Hoʻonohonoho i nā pāʻani hoʻolālā ikaika.
- Hāʻawi e huki i kou huhū. E hōʻike ke keiki i kona mau manaʻo ma ka pepa, a laila hoʻohui pū i kahi kiʻi o nā kala māmā.
Mai hoʻohālikelike i ka pēpē me nā keiki hoʻolohe a mai hōʻino. E haʻi iā mākou pehea e ʻeha ai a hoʻonāukiuki ai iā ʻoe. E aloha ʻiʻo nō ʻo ia iā ʻoe a apo ʻoe.
Lilo ke kaikuaʻana i ke keiki, ʻo ka pinepine a me ka hoʻomau mau e pono e wehewehe iā ia i ka inadmissibility o ka hana kolohe. I ka manawa like, he mea nui e ʻōlelo me ke kaohi, me ka mālie. ʻAʻole e holo ka nānā ʻana a huhū a hoʻokiʻekiʻe loa i ke kani.