ʻO nā wāhine ma hope o ke kanahā: pehea mākou e loli ai

ʻIke koke mākou ʻaʻole he pōʻino ka ʻike ʻole ʻana o ka lauoho hina. Pono ʻoe e kala i kou lauoho i kēia manawa? I kēia mau makahiki, he nui ka poʻe e ʻae he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lauoho lauoho ma mua o ka mea maʻamau, akā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ponytail. A, ma ke ala, ʻaʻole pena nā pigtails no kekahi kumu. Kupanaha. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻike mau ʻia nā makahiki inā e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i nā mea ʻē aʻe, a e ʻōpio mau mākou, hou a ʻaʻohe wrinkle hoʻokahi ...

I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua manaʻo mākou he pono e hoʻāʻo iki, a e hoʻomaikaʻi mākou iā ia: e lilo ia i kino o ka moeʻuhane a ulu nā wāwae mai kona mau pepeiao. Akā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole! No laila ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hana o nā makahiki e hiki mai ana: mālama mākou iā mākou iho me ka mālama a hoʻāʻo e hoʻomau i ka hana. A ke hauʻoli nei mākou, hauʻoli, hauʻoli mākou i ka noʻonoʻo paʻa a me ka hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi.

Ma ke ala, e pili ana i ka hoʻomanaʻo. He mea ʻē loa. ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa, ʻike ʻia kona mau lei i ka wā e hoʻomanaʻo ai i kona wā ʻōpio. “Ua hemo au? A he aha ke kumu? Ua pilikia anei au? Ua haʻalele au me kekahi mau hoaaloha? A no ke aha?" ʻAʻole, inā wau e hoʻopaʻapaʻa, a laila, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻomanaʻo wau a hoʻoholo i ka pololei o nā hoʻoholo āpau. Akā ua hana ka manawa insidious i kāna hana. Manaʻo mākou i ka wā i hala, ua uhi ʻia i loko o kahi haze o ka nani, a no kekahi kumu hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi wale nō ma ka ʻili. No nā meaʻino, ponoʻoe e iho i lalo i kahi waihona kūikawā.

A hiki i kēia manawa, ʻo ka haʻuki "nani". ʻO ka ʻōpū palahalaha, ka ʻōpū poepoe - ʻo ia kā mākou pahuhopu. Auē, ʻo ke kānāwai o ka gravity honua, e like me ke aloha o nā mea ʻono, ua lilo i mea hiki ʻole. Piʻi ka ʻōpū i ka lepo, ʻo ka ʻōpū, ma kahi ʻē aʻe, ke hoʻokokoke nei i ke ʻano kūpono o ka pōpō. ʻAe, ʻoiai ʻaʻohe manaʻolana o nā mea a pau, me he mea lā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo maikaʻi i nā haʻuki. Akā ʻaʻole! I kēia manawa ʻaʻohe o mākou koho.

Makemake ʻoe e haʻalele i kahi moena me ka ʻole o ka creak i nā makahiki ʻelua e hiki mai ana, e hele pinepine i nā lā me nā kauka a loaʻa ka manawa e pāʻani ai me nā moʻopuna ʻaʻole i laila, akā ka mea a mākou i manaʻo ai me ka hui pū ʻana o ka weliweli a me ka hauʻoli. ? A laila e hele i mua, i ka yoga - ma ke ʻano o kahi ʻīlio me ka ʻūhā i lalo. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻāwī inā maikaʻi ʻoe.

I ka hakakā ma waena o ka nani a me ka maʻalahi, ua hoʻopiʻi ʻia ka nani. Nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae? Huhu hoʻonāukiuki i ka ʻili? ʻAʻole hanu nā lole, hiki ʻole ke komo i loko o ke kaʻa a kolo paha me nā keiki ma ka papahele? I loko o kona kapuahi. ʻAʻohe mōhai no ka nani. I kekahi manawa, ua nīnau koʻu makuahōnōwai mua me ke kahaha inā ua luhi au i ka lā mai ka lauoho. I koʻu wā ʻōpiopio, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ka nīnau. Hiki paha ke luhi i nā ku'eku'e wāwae?

Akā i loko o nā makahiki ʻelua, haʻalele wau i ka heihei. Me he mea lā ua mākaukau wau no ka hana a ka makuahōnōwai wahine: Ke nānā aku nei au me ka pīhoihoi i nā wahine hiki ke neʻe i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae no nā mamao ma mua o ka hoʻolei ʻana mai ka noho kaʻa a hiki i kahi noho kokoke. Hoʻohana ʻia nā lole Knitwear, cashmere, nā kāmaʻa ugg ʻino a me nā kāmaʻa orthopedic.

ʻO ka hōʻailona o nā lole, ka nui a me ka maʻemaʻe o ka pōhaku, ke kala o ka ʻeke - ke kala o kekahi mea - ua pau kēia mau mea i ke ʻano a me ke ʻano. ʻO nā kāhiko lole, nā lole aʻu i hoʻokomo ai i kēia lā a hoʻolei aku me ka mihi ʻole i ka lā ʻapōpō, nā ʻeke liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, ʻo ka hana nui ʻaʻole ia e hōʻeha i ka osteochondrosis, a me ka hoʻokō ʻole i nā ʻano o ke kau - ʻo ia ka mea i kēia manawa ma ka papa kuhikuhi.

Ua ʻoi aku koʻu kanahā a ʻike maopopo wau iaʻu iho. No laila, inā hele mai kekahi ʻano pupule me kahi silhouette a i ʻole kala e hoʻopuka ai i koʻu mau hemahema (e like me kaʻu e manaʻo nei e hana nei ke ʻano no nā makahiki he ʻelua i hala!), hiki iaʻu ke haʻalele i ke ʻano.

I koʻu hihia, ua like ia me kēia: a me nā fiku me ia! Ke hoʻomaka nei mākou e hoʻomaopopo he hiki ʻole ke lanakila i ke ʻano. ʻO kēia mau helehelena paʻa, nā ihu kūlohelohe a me nā lehelehe he mea ʻakaʻaka a weliweli, a ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻaʻohe mea i kōkua ʻia e noho ma kēia ao ma mua o ka mea i hoʻolālā ʻia. No laila, no ke aha kēia hoʻopunipuni ponoʻī?

Aia kekahi mea makemake ʻole i kou mau mākua? Ua hoʻohiki mākou iā mākou iho ʻaʻole e lilo e like me lākou? Haha ʻelua. Inā mākou e ʻoiaʻiʻo iā mākou iho, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maʻalahi ua hāʻawi nā hua āpau i nā ʻōpuʻu maikaʻi loa. ʻO mākou ka hoʻomau o ko mākou mau mākua, me ko lākou mau hemahema a me nā pono. ʻO nā mea a pau a mākou i makemake ai e pale aku, ua pua i loko o kahi haunaele. ʻAʻole hewa kēia mau mea a pau. A hoʻomaka kekahi mea e ʻoluʻolu iā mākou. Auē a ʻoliʻoli paha, ʻaʻole maopopo.

Aia ka wahine i loko o ko mākou ola. Akā i ka iwakālua, me he mea lā ua hele mua nā "ʻelemākule ma luna o ke kanahā" me ka wāwae hoʻokahi i loko o ka lua kupapaʻu a ʻaʻole lākou e hana "kēia". Eia kekahi, ma waho aʻe o ka moekolohe, ʻike ʻia nā leʻaleʻa hou o ka pō. Ua pehu kāu kāne i kēia pō? Hauʻoli kēlā, hauʻoli kēlā!

Aia ma waena o lākou ka poʻe ʻōpio ma mua o mākou! Nānā mākou iā lākou me nā manaʻo huikau. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mau hoa papa lākou! He aha nā kupuna wahine? He aha nā kupuna kāne? ʻO Lenka lāua ʻo Irka! ʻO Pashka kēia, ʻelima mau makahiki ʻōpio! Hōʻole ka lolo i ka hana ʻana i kēia ʻike a hūnā i loko o ka pahu me nā mea hana ʻole. Ma laila, kahi i mālama ʻia ai nā nani makahiki ʻole, nā keke e lilo ai ke kaumaha, nā malihini mai waho, kahi myelophone a me kahi mīkini manawa.

ʻIke mākou i kēlā mau kāne kakaʻikahi e hoʻomau nei i ka leʻaleʻa iā mākou i ka hapa nui o nā ʻōpio ma mua o mākou. Heluhelu mākou inā kūpono lākou iā mākou ma ke ʻano he keiki kāne. Hoʻomaha mākou i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ʻaʻole ia, akā hopohopo ke ʻano. Me he mea lā i loko o nā makahiki he ʻumi e neʻe mau lākou i ka hui "hiki i kaʻu keiki". Hoʻokumu kēia manaʻo i ka hoʻouka kaua weliweli, akā e hōʻike ana hoʻi ʻo ka wahine ʻē aʻe i loko o ke ʻano o kā mākou makemake. ʻAe, maikaʻi kēlā, a mahalo.

Ua ʻike mākou i ka palena o kēlā me kēia kumuwaiwai - manawa, ikaika, olakino, ikaika, manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka manaʻolana. I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole mākou i noʻonoʻo iki. Aia ka manaʻo o ka palena ʻole. Ua hala, a ua piʻi aʻe ke kumu kūʻai o kahi kuhihewa. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolilo i ka manawa a me ka ikaika i nā hana hoihoi ʻole, nā kānaka hoʻoluhi, nā manaʻolana a i ʻole nā ​​​​pilina luku. Ua wehewehe ʻia nā waiwai, ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā mea nui.

No laila, ʻaʻohe kanaka i koe i ko mākou ola. ʻO ka poʻe i pili i ka ʻuhane, mahalo nui mākou. A mahalo mākou i nā pilina a ʻike koke i nā makana o ka hopena ma ke ʻano o nā hālāwai hou a nani. Akā, e like me ka wikiwiki, me ka mihi ʻole a me ke kānalua ʻole, kā mākou wele i ka ʻili.

Ke loli nei nā ʻono palapala. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hoihoi i ka moʻolelo moʻokalaleo, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā moʻolelo pilikino, ka mōʻaukala, nā hopena o nā kānaka a me nā ʻāina. Ke ʻimi nei mākou i nā hiʻohiʻona, e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻomaopopo i nā kumu. Ma mua o ka wā ma mua, lilo ka moʻolelo o ko mākou ʻohana ponoʻī i mea nui iā mākou, a ʻike nui mākou ʻaʻole i ʻike hou ʻia.

Ke komo hou nei mākou i kahi manawa o ka waimaka māmā (ʻo ka mua i ka wā kamaliʻi). Piʻi ʻole ka manaʻo o ka manaʻo i nā makahiki a hele koke i waho. Ua hoʻokahe mākou i nā waimaka o ka manaʻo ma nā pāʻina o nā keiki, e hamo i nā koena o nā mea hoʻonaninani i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni, uē i ka wā e hoʻolohe ana i nā mele, a ʻaʻole hoʻokahi kelepona no ke kōkua ma ka Pūnaewele e haʻalele iā mākou me ka manaʻo ʻole.

ʻO nā maka ʻeha - nā keiki, nā ʻōpio, nā ʻīlio, nā pōpoki, nā ʻatikala e pili ana i ka uhai ʻana i nā kuleana o nā hoa kamaʻāina a me nā iʻa, nā pōʻino a me nā maʻi o nā malihini holoʻokoʻa - ʻo kēia mau mea a pau e hōʻino iā mākou, ʻo ke kino. A lawe hou mākou i kahi kāleka hōʻaiʻē e hāʻawi i kekahi i ke aloha.

Ua lilo ka makemake o ke ola kino. Auwe. Mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ua lohe mākou i nā toast: "ʻO ke olakino ka mea nui!" A ʻo lākou iho i makemake mau i kekahi mea e like me ia. Akā ma kekahiʻano kūlana. Me ka ʻole o ke ahi, me ka maopopo ʻole i ka mea, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou. I kēia manawa, ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻike ko mākou makemake no ke olakino i ka poʻe a puni mākou. Kokoke me ka waimaka. No ka mea i kēia manawa ua ʻike mākou i ka mea nui.

Maikaʻi mākou ma ka home. A maikaʻi ke noho hoʻokahi. I koʻu wā ʻōpiopio, me he mea lā ua hana ʻia nā mea hoihoi loa ma kahi o waho. I kēia manawa aia nā leʻaleʻa a pau i loko. ʻIke ʻia ua makemake au i ka noho hoʻokahi, a he mea kupanaha. ʻO ke kumu paha he mau keiki liʻiliʻi kaʻu a ʻaʻole hana pinepine kēia? Akā ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia. Me he mea lā ke neʻe nei au mai kahi extraversion a introversion. Manaʻo wau inā he ʻano paʻa kēia a i ʻole ma ka makahiki 70 e aloha hou wau i nā ʻoihana nui?

ʻEkolu kaʻu o lākou, ʻaʻole naʻe au makemake e haʻalele i ka manaʻo e pili ana kēia helu i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i luna. ʻOiai mai kahi hiʻohiʻona kūpono, a mai ka manaʻo o kaʻu intervertebral hernias, ʻo kekahi hāpai ʻana he mea waiwai ʻole. A inā ua hoʻoholo mua mākou me ka hernias, ʻaʻole naʻe au e hoʻokaʻawale me ka hoʻopunipuni. E hāmama ka nīnau. Noʻonoʻo nō hoʻi au i kekahi manawa no ka hānai ʻana. ʻO kēia hoʻi ka hoʻokō o ka makahiki.

I ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, ʻaʻohe oʻu hoʻopiʻi a ʻoi aku ka mahalo. Ke nānā nei au i hope, ʻike au i nā mea maikaʻi he nui a hoʻomaopopo i ka nui o koʻu laki. Laki wale. Ma nā kānaka, nā hanana, nā manawa. ʻAe, maikaʻi, ʻaʻole au i nalowale, ʻaʻole au i hala.

He maʻalahi ka hoʻolālā no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. ʻAʻole au e hakakā no kekahi mea. Hauʻoli wau i kaʻu mea i loaʻa. Hoʻolohe wau i kaʻu mau makemake maoli - lilo lākou i mea maʻalahi a maʻalahi i nā makahiki. Hauʻoli wau i nā mākua a me nā keiki. Ke ho'āʻo nei au e hoʻonui i ka manawa ma ke ʻano a hoʻolimalima manawa me nā poʻe ʻoluʻolu iaʻu. Ma mua ka mālama pono a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻomohala.