Contents
- 1. Wehe i nā kāmaʻa o kāu keiki
- 2. E kākau i kahi noho i mua o kāu keiki
- 3. E lawe i ka holoholona pā'ani punahele a kāu keiki ma ke alanui
- 4. Lawe pū me ʻoe i ke kiʻi paʻi nui o kupuna wahine
- 5. E kau i nā wāwae o kāu pēpē ma kou uha
- 6. Hāʻawi i ka uku i ka mea kaʻa i ʻeha
- 7. E hoʻoikaika i kāu keiki
- 8. Inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea holo e kiki ʻia e ke keiki, e hoʻopili pololei iā ia.
Ke hoʻopau nei ka wā hoʻomaha, ʻo ia hoʻi he nui o mākou e lele i ka home i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma ka mokulele, ʻaʻole mākou e leʻaleʻa i ke kaiāulu me nā keiki, ʻoiai inā e noho ana ke keiki ma hope o mākou. Haʻalulu ʻo ia, huki i ke kua o ko mākou noho, kikeke me kona mau wāwae. Kamaʻāina? Hāʻawi mākou i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua i nā mākua ʻelua i ka wā o ka lele ʻana me nā keiki, a me nā poʻe kaʻa i lilo i poʻe i ʻike ʻole ʻia.
ʻO kēlā me kēia o mākou ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka wā o ka lele i lilo i hoalauna o kahi keiki hoʻomaha. A ʻo ia paha ka makua i ʻāhuehu no ka ʻano o kāna keiki. He aha ka hana ma ia mau hihia? Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i kahi mea pilikia?
1. Wehe i nā kāmaʻa o kāu keiki
ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kīkē ʻana i kahi noho me nā wāwae ʻole. Eia hou, ʻaʻole ʻeha. No laila, no ka mea kaʻa e noho ana ma mua, e emi loa ka naʻau.
2. E kākau i kahi noho i mua o kāu keiki
Ma kahi o ka noho ʻana ma hope ona, e noho i mua ona. No laila, ʻo ke kua o ka makua, ʻaʻole ke kaʻa o haʻi, e loaʻa i ka hahau.
3. E lawe i ka holoholona pā'ani punahele a kāu keiki ma ke alanui
ʻO kahi uluna holoholona a i ʻole kahi mea pāʻani pāʻani - hele kēlā me kēia keiki me hoʻokahi. E waiho ma ka ʻeke o ka noho ma mua, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kīkē i kāna hoa aloha. Inā hana ke keiki i kēia, e ʻōlelo ʻoe e lawe ʻoe i ka pāʻani inā "hōʻino" ʻo ia.
4. Lawe pū me ʻoe i ke kiʻi paʻi nui o kupuna wahine
E hoʻopili iā ia ma ke kua o kou noho ma ka mokulele. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kīkē i ke kupuna wahine!
5. E kau i nā wāwae o kāu pēpē ma kou uha
No laila e ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ke keiki a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kīkē kino i ka noho i mua.
6. Hāʻawi i ka uku i ka mea kaʻa i ʻeha
Inā hoʻopilikia kāu keiki i kekahi, e hāʻawi i kēlā kaʻa e kūʻai i mea inu. Ma ia ala hiki iā ʻoe ke kala mai no ka pilikia.
7. E hoʻoikaika i kāu keiki
ʻO kahi koho palekana ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu keiki i kāu iPhone a haʻi iā lākou inā e paʻi hou lākou i ka noho, e lawe ʻoe i ke kelepona.
8. Inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea holo e kiki ʻia e ke keiki, e hoʻopili pololei iā ia.
Huli a haʻi i kāu keiki e hoʻōki i ke kīkī ʻana no ka mea e ʻeha a hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe. He hana paha kēia, ʻoiai ʻo nā keiki, ʻoi aku ka poʻe ma lalo o ʻelima mau makahiki, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe pinepine i ko lākou mau mākua a makemake lākou e ʻike i kahi mamao e hiki ai iā lākou ke hele, akā i ka manawa like e pane koke i kahi ʻōlelo a kahi malihini.
Minamina ʻaʻole hiki i ka luna ʻauwaʻa ke hele a puni ka hale a kāhea aku i nā keiki e kauoha. E hoʻolohe pono lākou iā ia!
No ka mea kākau: He mea kākau moʻolelo ʻo Wendy Perrin nāna e hoʻokele i kāna pūnaewele ponoʻī kahi e pale aku ai i nā mākaʻikaʻi i loaʻa i nā lawelawe huakaʻi haʻahaʻa.