PSYchology

ʻAʻole he mea hoʻoponopono, akā he mea hoʻoponopono, ʻaʻole he loea, akā he loea, ʻaʻole he polopeka, akā he polopeka… He mau wahine kēia a pau - nā ʻōlelo a kekahi mau wahine e wehewehe ai i kā lākou ʻoihana pili. Ua kamaʻilio mākou me nā poʻe akamai e pili ana inā kūʻē lākou i nā lula o ka ʻōlelo Lūkini, inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi i nā stereotypes, a no ke aha e kūʻē ai kekahi i kā lākou hoʻohana ʻana, a ua makemake kekahi me nā lima ʻelua.

Ke hoʻomākaukau nei au i kēia kikokikona a noʻonoʻo i nā kaua koko me kahi mea heluhelu. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo kēlā me kēia "hoʻoponopono" a me "ka loea" e lanakila hou me ka hakakā. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana ʻana i kēia, inā wale nō no ka mea kūʻē koʻu kino holoʻokoʻa i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā wahine.

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i lohe i kēia mau ʻōlelo, akā koi ikaika ka poʻe kākoʻo o ka neʻe wahine i kā lākou hoʻohana. Mai ko lākou manaʻo, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻole o kēia mau huaʻōlelo ma ka ʻōlelo e hōʻike pololei ana i nā ʻano patriarchal o ko kākou kaiāulu, kahi e mau nei nā wahine i hope. Akā, me he mea lā aia lākou i ka hapa liʻiliʻi.

Nui nā wahine i makemake i kā lākou ʻano kūikawā i ke kani ʻana i ke kāne: ʻo kēlā me kēia mea e ʻōlelo ai, aia kekahi mea i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i nā "mea aʻoaʻo" a me nā "accountants". ʻOi aku ke koʻikoʻi o ke kani ʻana o "Lecturer" a me "accountant". Eia naʻe, i kēia manawa.

"HAIOLELO NO KA HUI IDEOLOGICAL"

ʻO Anna Potsar, philologist

ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo, akā e pili ana i ka hakakā ideological ma hope o ia. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo "kakau", "kaʻi" he mea hou i loko o lākou iho, ʻaʻole lākou i loko o nā puke wehewehe. ʻO ka "mea kākau", "biller", "hoʻoponopono" i ʻike ʻia he hoʻokuʻu. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo wahine i hoʻokumu ʻia me ka suffix "k" kani ʻoi aku ka kū ʻole.

Akā ʻokoʻa. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia huaʻōlelo ka hakakā o ʻelua mau manaʻo. Wahi a ka mea mua, aia kahi ʻōnaehana ʻōlelo e hōʻike ʻia ai ka pilina ʻoihana e nā huaʻōlelo kāne. No laila, ua hoʻopaʻa paʻa ʻia ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe o nā kāne.

ʻO kēia nā «huaʻōlelo polyphonic» — nā huaʻōlelo e hui ai nā manaʻo like ʻole.

ʻO nā mea lawe (a no ka hapa nui, nā mea lawe) o kahi manaʻo ʻē aʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo he kuleana like ko ka wahine kāne. ʻAʻole lākou e haʻi wale aku, akā e hoʻoikaika a "paʻa" i kēia manawa o ka hakakā ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine, e haʻi i ko lākou kuleana i ke kūlana kūlike me nā kāne.

No laila, i loko o nā hua'ōlelo "mea kākau", "hoʻoponopono", "ka loea" i kēia kū'ē. ʻO kēia nā mea i kapa ʻia ʻo «polyphonic huaʻōlelo» kahi e hui ai nā manaʻo like ʻole. A hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo me ka hilinaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana ʻaʻole lākou e stylistically neutral a ʻaʻole e lilo i mau ʻōlelo normative.

"NANA I KE HONUA MA KA MAKA O KA WAHINE"

ʻO Olgerta Kharitonova, he kanaka akeakamai wahine

"ʻO ka ʻōlelo ka hale o ka noho ʻana," wahi a Heidegger, he kanaka akeakamai, e ʻoi aku ka pololei, he kanaka. ʻO ka mea akeakamai ʻo Arendt, ʻoiai ʻo ka hui pū ʻana o Heidegger me nā Nazis, hoʻomanaʻo iā ia ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea hoʻokalakupua koʻikoʻi o ke kenekulia XNUMX. Ma ka manawa like, he kanaka koʻikoʻi loa ʻo Arendt i ka manaʻo politika, psychology a me ke akeakamai o ke kenekulia iwakālua. No ka mea, he wahine. A ke heluhelu ʻoe i ka The Philosopher Arendt, ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo he hiki i ka wahine ke lilo i mea akeakamai. Malia paha.

Hiki i nā wāhine ke lilo i ʻenekinia, locksmiths, plumbers, alakaʻi, talents, colonels and pilots.

No laila, ʻo ka ʻōlelo ka hale o ke ola. Aia ma ka ʻōlelo ke ola a ke ola nei. ʻAʻole ola ka mea ʻaʻole i loko o ka ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole ola i ke ola. ʻAʻohe wahine polopeka, no ka mea, a hiki i kēia manawa ma ka ʻōlelo Lūkini, ʻo ka wahine a ke kaukaʻi he wahine a ke kaukaʻi, a ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka huaʻōlelo "professor". ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe wahi o ka wahine polopeka ma ka ʻōlelo, a no laila, ʻaʻohe ona wahi i ke ola. Akā naʻe, ʻike wau iaʻu iho i kekahi mau wahine he mau polopeka.

Hiki ke wāwahi ʻia nā stereotypes kāne wale nō ma ka hoʻohuli ʻana i nā mea āpau i lalo, e hoʻololi i ke kihi o ka ʻike i ka ʻaoʻao.

Kāhea ʻia nā wahine e hoʻopau i kēia mea lapuwale a me ka pono ʻole. Pono lākou e ʻike ʻia nā wahine ma nā ʻoihana ʻoihana, a ma ke kahua o ka politika, a ma ke kahua pilikanaka, kahi wahine he makuahine, kaikamahine, kupuna wahine, ʻaʻole ke poʻo o ke kūlanakauhale a ʻaʻole ka mea nāna i hana. ʻoiaʻiʻo hou.

ʻO nā stereotypes kāne, e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, hiki ke wāwahi wale ʻia ma ka hoʻohuli ʻana i nā mea āpau i lalo, e hoʻololi i ke kihi o ka ʻike i ka ʻaoʻao. A hiki i kēia manawa, nānā mākou i ke kaiāulu a me ke ola i loko o ia mea ma o nā maka o nā kāne. Hāʻawi nā wahine e nānā i ka honua ma o nā maka o nā wahine. I kēia hihia, ʻaʻole i hoʻololi wale ka ʻike, akā ʻo ka honua pū kekahi.

"KA WAIWAI O KA KANAKA"

ʻO Yulia Zakharova, ka mea hoʻonaʻauao kino

ʻO ka puka ʻana o nā wahine e pili ana i ka neʻe anti-discrimination. Ua ʻike ʻia he mea kūʻē i ka manaʻo o »kekahi, ʻokoʻa iaʻu, mai ka hapa nui - no laila, he malihini.» Akā inā i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kēia neʻe ʻana ka manaʻo i ka kaulike: "Ua like nā kānaka a pau, ua like!" I kēia manawa ua loli nui. ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka like o kēlā me kēia kanaka, hoʻohālikelike i nā wahine me nā kāne, he ʻano hoʻokae ʻole. Hōʻike ka hiʻohiʻona o nā wahine i ka slogan hou o ka neʻe anti-discrimination — «E mahalo i nā ʻokoʻa!».

He ʻokoʻa ka wahine mai nā kāne, ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā kāne. ʻAʻole nāwaliwali ka wahine a ʻaʻole like me ke kāne. He ʻokoʻa wale nō ʻo ia. ʻO kēia ke kumu o ke kaulike kāne. Hōʻike ʻia ka ʻike o kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo ma ka ʻōlelo. He mea nui i nā wahine he nui i kēia lā ke hōʻike ʻaʻole i ke kaulike o ke kāne, akā i ka waiwai o ka pili ʻana i kā lākou kāne.

"He ʻino ka mea ʻike ʻole"

ʻO Suyumbike Davlet-Kildeeva, ka mea ʻepekema kanaka

ʻOiai, he mea nui ka wahine. He mea maʻalahi loa ia: a hiki i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻana o ka hanana i ka ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole i paʻa i ka ʻike. Nui ka poʻe i hoʻopā ʻia e ka huaʻōlelo "mea kākau", a ʻo ka mea maʻamau ka poʻe e hōʻike ana i ka huhū e pili ana i ia mea e kuhikuhi ana he nui nā wahine kākau a aia iā lākou nā kuleana āpau, akā ʻaʻole pēlā.

I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa i ka haku mele ʻo Faina Grimberg kahi kikokikona e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o ka wahine, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kākau e like me ke kāne, no ka mea, ʻo kāna kumu ola e hānau ʻaʻole i nā kikokikona a me nā manaʻo, akā i nā keiki. A ʻoiai e hoʻopuʻi ana kēia manaʻo i loko o ka noʻonoʻo, pono mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea kākau wahine a me nā mea kākau, i hiki ʻole i ka poʻe kānalua hope loa ke kānalua ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke kākau ʻoi aku ka hewa ma mua o ke kāne.

'Ōlelo pinepine lākou e pili ana i nā wahine he mea ʻokoʻa lākou a hōʻino i ka ʻōlelo, akā he mea lapuwale kēia. No ka laʻana, he ʻino iaʻu nā huaʻōlelo "parachute" a me "codpiece", akā ʻo kēia ka loiloi kumuhana like. He mea ʻino ʻole ke ʻano maʻamau, akā he manawa. Ke kau kēia mau ʻōlelo, pau ka ʻoki ʻana i ka pepeiao. ʻO kēia ka ulu maoli o ka ʻōlelo.

"KA HOOLOLI OLELO HOOLAHA"

ʻO Elena Pogrebizhskaya, ka luna hoʻomalu

Nou iho, ʻokiʻoki i koʻu pepeiao. I koʻu manaʻo, he hana naʻaupō kēia o ka ʻōlelo. No ka mea ma ka Lūkini he nui nā ʻoihana i kapa ʻia ma ke kāne kāne, ʻo ʻoukou e kākau nei i ka "mea kākau" a me ka "loio" he nui ka manaʻo hoʻokiʻekiʻe iā ʻoe iho, inā ʻoe e manaʻo mai kou kākau ʻana i kēlā, i kēia manawa e kūlou ka ʻōlelo Lūkini ma lalo ou a ʻae i kēia. ʻo ka mea maʻamau.

"HE WAIWAI E IKE AI KA HAAWINA O NA WAHINE"

Lilit Mazikina, mea kākau

Ua ʻike au he nui nā hoa hana e manaʻoʻiʻo nei ʻaʻole pono ka "mea kākau moʻolelo" a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hōʻike ʻana e ka mea kākau moʻolelo (a ʻo ka haku mele hoʻi, no ka mea, he mele hoʻopunipuni ka haku mele), akā ma ke ʻano he mea kākau moʻolelo, manaʻo wau ua hōʻoia ka poʻe nūpepa i kā lākou ʻoihana. ka mōʻaukala o nā kenekulia XNUMXth a me XNUMXst hana paʻakikī peni, keyboard, kamera a me nā microphone. No laila, kākau pinepine wau e pili ana iaʻu iho: he mea kākau moʻolelo, he mea kākau, he haku mele. Hiki iaʻu ke lilo i "poetess", akā makemake nui wau i ka polonism a ma waena o nā wahine hou, kaulana i kekahi mau wahine, mālama wau i ka poʻe me "-ka" me ka wela nui loa.

Inā nui ka poʻe e hoʻokomo i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo hou i kā lākou haʻiʻōlelo, ʻo ia hoʻi, aia kahi noi no lākou. Pehea ka laula a me ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi, he nīnau ʻē aʻe. ʻO wau a me nā mea he nui ʻē aʻe he noi e hana i ka hāʻawi ʻana o nā wahine i ka ʻoihana, i ʻike ʻia i ka ʻepekema, no laila ʻaʻole pili ʻia ka ʻoihana me ke kāne kāne a, no laila, ke kāne. Hōʻike ka ʻōlelo i ko mākou ʻike a hoʻoikaika i ka ʻike, he ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻepekema kēia, a ke hilinaʻi nei au iā ia ke aloha au i nā wahine ʻike ʻia.

"HOOLI I KA POLITIKA POLITIKA"

Anna S., mea kakau nupepa

Malia paha, i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ua hoʻohui ʻia nā wahine i ka ʻōlelo, akā i kēia manawa he mea hoʻohanohano nui ia i ka pololei politika e like me ke kākau ʻana "ma our country". No laila, he mea pōʻino kēia noʻu iho.

ʻAʻole ia e hōʻeha iaʻu i ke ʻano o kēlā me kēia lā inā kākau lākou "na ke kauka i kuhikuhi." ʻAʻole au i ʻike i kekahi hewa i kēia, akā ʻae wau he mea paʻakikī ke koho ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo i ke kāne kūpono inā ʻike ʻole ke ʻano. No ka laʻana, «loio Kravchuk» — pehea e maopopo ai ina paha ia? Ma keʻano laulā, ʻoiai ua ʻike wau i ka plasticity a me ka ʻokoʻa o ka ʻōlelo, i kēia manawa, ʻoi aku ka mea nui iaʻu nā kuʻuna i hoʻokumu ʻia.

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"ʻAʻole wau makemake e kapa ʻia he psychologist, akā ʻaʻole oʻu manaʻo e kāhea aku i ka poʻe e koi nei," wahi a Yulia Zakharova i ka pau ʻana o kā mākou kamaʻilio ʻana. ʻAe wau me ia. ʻOi aku koʻu kamaʻāina ma mua o ka hoʻoponopono a i ʻole ka mea hoʻoponopono. Manaʻo wau ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka wahine ma mua o kaʻu i noʻonoʻo ai, a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka conservative. Ma kahi huaʻōlelo, aia kekahi mea e noʻonoʻo ai.

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