Moolelo o Xenia.
I ka makahiki 25, ua hānau au i nā māhoe. I kēlā manawa, ʻo wau wale nō, ʻaʻohe kāne kāne, hānau wau ma kahi hale hānai hānai St. Petersburg, ma o ka caesarean, i ʻehiku mau manawa. Ua hānau au me ka maopopo ʻole i ke ʻano o nā keiki, pehea e hana ai me lākou a pehea e hoʻololi ai i koʻu ola. Ua hānauʻia nā kaikamahine i kahi liʻiliʻi loa - 1100 a me 1600. Me kēlā kaumaha, ua hoʻounaʻia lākou i ka haukapila no hoʻokahi mahina e loaʻa ai ke kaumaha a hiki i ka 2,5 kg. Ua like ia me kēia - e moe ana lākou i loko o nā pahu plastik-moena, i ka manawa mua ma lalo o nā kukui, hele wau i ka haukapila no ka lā holoʻokoʻa, akā hoʻokuʻu lākou i nā kaikamahine i loko o 3-4 mau manawa i ka lā no 15 mau minuke e hānai. Ua hānai ʻia lākou me ka waiū i hōʻike ʻia, i hōʻike ʻia e 15 poʻe i loko o ka lumi hoʻokahi hapalua hola ma mua o ka hānai ʻana, me ka lima me nā pulu umauma. ʻAʻole hiki ke wehewehe ʻia ka mea nānā. He kakaikahi ka poe i ike i ka hana me ka bebe kilokani, aole no i manao kekahi e noho loihi me ke keiki a i ole e hanai i ka u, a i ole e poha iloko o ka lumi ke ike oe e uwa ana kau keiki e like me ke oki, no ka mea, o ka manawa ma waena o ka hanai ana, ua oki ia. ekolu hora a ua pololi ia . Hoʻohui pū lākou me ka hui ʻana, ʻaʻole i nīnau nui, akā ʻoi aku ka ʻōlelo ʻana iā ia ma mua o ka umauma.
I kēia manawa ua maopopo iaʻu ke ʻano hihiu a makemake wau ʻaʻole e hoʻomanaʻo, no ka mea, hoʻomaka koke wau i ka hewa a me ka waimaka. I loko o nā halemai hānai, ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻo nui i ke ola e hiki mai ana, he kāʻei conveyor wale nō ia, a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo, e lawe ʻia ke keiki me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana e nānā pono ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. No ke aha ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa me ke pēpē inā makemake nui ʻo ia iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ia i ka wā ʻōpio a ʻaʻole maopopo iki i kekahi mea, uē ʻo ia mai ka mālamalama, mai ke anu a i ʻole ka wela, mai ka pōloli a me ka ʻole o kona makuahine. , a kū ʻoe ma hope o ke aniani a kali i ka helu ʻana o ka uaki i ʻekolu hola! ʻO wau kekahi o kēlā mau robots i ʻike ʻole i ka mea e hana nei a hana i ka mea i haʻi ʻia mai. A laila, i ko lākou piha ʻana i hoʻokahi mahina, lawe au i kēia mau puʻupuʻu ʻelua i ka home. ʻAʻole au i aloha nui a pili pū me lākou. ʻO ke kuleana wale nō no ko lākou ola, a i ka manawa like, ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake wau e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mea maikaʻi loa. No ka mea he paʻakikī loa ia (ua uē lākou i nā manawa a pau, ʻino, kāhea mai iaʻu, ʻeleu loa lāua), luhi wau a hāʻule i ka hopena o ka lā, akā i ka pō a pau, pono wau e ala i kahi moe, hoʻoluliluli iaʻu. ma koʻu mau lima, etc. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻaʻole wau i hiamoe iki. Hiki iaʻu ke hoʻōho a paʻi paha iā lākou, he mea hihiu ia iaʻu i kēia manawa (ʻelua makahiki lākou). Akā, ua hāʻawi ikaika nā aʻalolo. Ua ʻoluʻolu au a hiki i koʻu noʻonoʻo wale nō i ko mākou haʻalele ʻana i India no ʻeono mahina. A ua maʻalahi iā lākou wale nō ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi makuakāne a hoʻomaka lākou e kau liʻiliʻi ma luna oʻu. Ma mua o kēlā, ʻaneʻane ʻaʻole lākou e haʻalele. I kēia manawa ua aneane ʻelima mau makahiki. Aloha au iā lākou. Ke ho'āʻo nei au e hana i nā mea a pau i ulu lākouʻaʻole i loko o ka pūnaewele, akā i ke aloha a me ke kūʻokoʻa. He kamaʻilio, hauʻoli, ʻeleu, ʻoluʻolu nā keiki, puliki i nā kumulāʻau 🙂 He mea paʻakikī iaʻu i kekahi manawa, akā ʻaʻohe huhū a me ka negativity, he luhi maʻamau wale nō. He paʻakikī, no ka mea, hoʻolimalima wau i ka manawa nui me ka pēpē, akā hāʻawi iki wau iā lākou, a makemake lākou e noho pū me aʻu, ʻaʻole lawa lākou iaʻu. I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole au i hāʻawi nui iā lākou e like me ka mea e pono ai lākou e hoʻokuʻu i koʻu makuahine, i kēia manawa ua pono lākou ʻekolu manawa. Akā, i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia, e hoʻāʻo wau, a e hoʻomaopopo lākou aia wau ma laila a ʻaʻole pono wau e koi a māhele ʻia. I kēia manawa e pili ana i ka pēpē. I koʻu hāpai ʻana no ka lua o ka manawa, ua heluhelu au i ka pūʻulu puke e pili ana i ka hānau hānau maoli a ʻike wau i nā hewa āpau aʻu i hana ai i ka hānau mua. Huli nā mea a pau i loko oʻu, a hoʻomaka wau e ʻike pehea a me hea, a me wai e hānau ai i nā pēpē. I koʻu hāpai ʻana, hiki iaʻu ke noho ma Nepal, Farani, India. Ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe a pau i ka hānau ʻana ma Farani i mea e loaʻa ai nā uku maikaʻi a me ke kūpaʻa maʻamau, kahi hale, kahi hana, ʻinikua, kauka, etc. Ua ho'āʻo mākou e noho i laila, ʻaʻole au makemake, ua aneane au i ke kaumaha, ʻoluʻolu, anu, hana kaʻu kāne, hele au me nā māhoe no ka hapalua lā, makemake i ka moana a me ka lā. A laila ua hoʻoholo mākou ʻaʻole e ʻeha a hoʻi wikiwiki i India no kekahi manawa. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi pale keiki ma ka Pūnaewele, ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i ka album aʻu i ʻike ai e hānau pū me ia. Aia i loko o ka album nā kāne me nā keiki, a ua lawa ka nānā ʻana i ka hauʻoli a me ka nani o lākou a pau. ʻO nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā keiki ʻē aʻe!
Ua hōʻea mākou i India, hālāwai me nā kaikamāhine hāpai ma kahakai, ua aʻo mai lākou iaʻu i kahi palekeiki i hele mua i Goa a hāʻawi i nā haʻi'ōlelo no nā wāhine hāpai. Ua like au me ka ha'i'ōlelo, he nani ka lede, akā, 'a'ole au i 'ike i ka pilina me ia. Ua holo wikiwiki nā mea a pau - e noho pū me ia a ʻaʻole hopohopo hou e waiho wale ʻia wau i ka hānau ʻana, a i ʻole e manaʻoʻiʻo a kali i ka mea "mai ke kiʻi". Ua hoʻoholo wau e hilinaʻi a kali. Ua hōʻea ʻo ia. Ua hui mākou a ua aloha au i ka ʻike mua ʻana! He lokomaikaʻiʻo ia, mālama, e like me ka lua o ka makuahine:ʻaʻoleʻo ia i hoʻokau i kekahi mea a,ʻo ka mea nui loa, ua mālieʻo ia, e like me ka pahu, i kēlā me kēia kūlana. A ua ʻae pū ʻo ia e hele mai i o mākou nei e haʻi mai iā mākou i nā mea a pau e pono ai, ʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole i hui pū ʻia, ʻoiai ʻo ka hui o nā wahine hāpai me kā lākou mau kāne he ʻōlelo Lūkini a pau, a haʻi ʻo ia iā mākou i nā mea a pau ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania i hiki ai iā ia. e maopopo ana ke kane. ʻO nā kaikamāhine a pau i loko o ia ʻano hānau hānau ma ka home, me nā kāne a me kahi pale keiki. Me ke kauka ole. Inā he mea, kāhea ʻia kahi kaʻa kaʻa, a hele nā mea a pau i ka haukapila, akā ʻaʻole wau i lohe i kēia. Akā, i nā hopena pule, ua ʻike au i ka ʻākoakoa ʻana o nā makuahine me nā keiki liʻiliʻi he 6-10 mau lā ma ke kai, ʻauʻau kēlā me kēia poʻe i nā pēpē i nā nalu ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli loa, hauʻoli a hauʻoli. ʻO ka hānau ʻana iho. I ke ahiahi, ua ʻike naʻe au e hānau ana au (ma mua o kēlā, aia nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻomaʻamaʻa no hoʻokahi pule), hauʻoli wau a hoʻomaka wau e hīmeni i nā ʻokiʻoki. Ke hīmeni ʻoe iā lākou ma mua o ka uē ʻana, hemo ka ʻeha. ʻAʻole mākou i hīmeni i ka poʻe Lūkini, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua huki wale i ka "aaaa-ooo-uuu" me ko mākou leo, e like me kou makemake. Oli hohonu loa. No laila, hīmeni wau e like me kēia i nā hakakā a pau i ka hoʻāʻo. Ke ho'āʻo mai nei iaʻu, e kau mālie, kāhāhā. ʻO kaʻu nīnau mua ma hope o ka pana mua ʻana (me nā maka poepoe): "He aha kēlā?" Ua manaʻo wau ua hewa kekahi mea. ʻO ka palekeiki, e like me ke kanaka psychologist paʻakikī, ʻōlelo: "ʻAe, hoʻomaha, e haʻi mai iaʻu i kou manaʻo, pehea ia." Ke ʻōlelo nei au ua ʻaneʻane au e hānau i ka hedgehog. Ua noho mālie ʻo ia me ka kānalua, a ʻike wau ua pā wau! A ʻo kēia ka lua o ka manawa a ʻaʻole ka hope - ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo i kēlā ʻeha. Inā ʻaʻole no kaʻu kāne, ka mea aʻu i hopu ai me koʻu mau lima i kēlā me kēia hoʻopaʻa ʻana, ʻaʻole no ka pale keiki, nāna i ʻōlelo ua holo pono nā mea a pau, ua haʻalele wau a hana i ka caesarean iaʻu iho).
Ma keʻano laulā, ʻauʻau ke pēpē i loko o ka wai inflatable home ma hope o 8 mau hola. Me ka uē ʻole, ka mea i hauʻoli ai iaʻu, no ka mea, ʻo nā keiki, inā maikaʻi nā mea a pau, mai uē - ʻōhumu lākou. Ua ʻōhumu ʻo ia i kekahi mea a hoʻomaka koke ʻo ia e ʻai i nā umauma, maʻalahi a maʻalahi. A laila holoi lākou iā ia, lawe mai iā ia i koʻu wahi moe, a ʻo mākou, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole mākou - ua hiamoe ʻo ia, a ʻo wau a me kaʻu kāne i hoʻomaha no ka hapalua lā me nā kaikamahine. ʻAʻole mākou i ʻoki i ke kaula umbilical no 12 hola, ʻo ia hoʻi, a hiki i ke ahiahi. Makemake lākou e haʻalele iā ia no hoʻokahi lā, akā makemake nui nā kaikamahine i ka placenta, e waiho ana ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka pēpē i loko o kahi kīʻaha paʻa. Ua ʻoki ʻia ke kaula ʻōpū i ka wā i pau ʻole ai ka puʻupuʻu a hoʻomaka e maloʻo. He mea nui loa kēia. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoki wikiwiki e like me nā hale maternity. ʻO kekahi manawa e pili ana i ka lewa - he mele mālie mākou, a ʻaʻohe kukui - he mau kukui wale nō. Ke ʻike ʻia kahi pēpē mai ka pōʻeleʻele i loko o ka haukapila hānai, ʻeha ke kukui i kona mau maka, hoʻololi ka mahana, puni ka walaʻau, manaʻo lākou iā ia, hoʻohuli iā ia, kau iā ia i ke anu, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi pōkole. manawa i kona makuahine. Me mākou, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia i loko o ka pōʻeleʻele, ma lalo o nā mantra, me ka leo ʻole, a noho ʻo ia ma kona umauma a hiki i kona hiamoe ʻana ... A me ke kaula umbilical e pili mau ana me ka placenta. I ka wā i hoʻomaka ai kaʻu mau hoʻāʻo ʻana, ala aʻela kaʻu mau māhoe a makaʻu, hele kaʻu kāne e hoʻomaha iā lākou, akā ʻo ka manawa wale nō e hana ai i kēia, ʻo ia ka hōʻike ʻana ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau me koʻu makuahine (ma muli o) J. Lawe mai la oia ia'u, paa iho la lakou i ko'u mau lima a hooikaika mai ia'u. Ua ʻōlelo wau ʻaneʻane ʻaʻole ia e ʻeha iaʻu, a i kekona hoʻomaka wau e ʻuwē (mele) iā J. E kali ana lākou i ko lākou kaikuahine, a ma mua o kona ʻike ʻana, ua hiamoe lākou no ʻelima mau minuke. I kona puka ʻana mai, ua hoʻāla ʻia a hōʻike ʻia. ʻAʻohe palena o ka hauʻoli! A hiki i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole kī ka ʻuhane i loko. Pehea mākou e ulu ai? ʻO ka mua ka umauma mau a ma nā wahi a pau, ma ke koi. ʻO ka lua, ua moe pū mākou ʻekolu ma ka moena hoʻokahi mai ka hānau ʻana a i kēia makahiki a pau. ʻAʻahu au i ka maʻa, ʻaʻohe oʻu kaʻa kaʻa. Ua ho'āʻo wau i nā manawa he nui e hoʻokomo iā ia i loko o kahi stroller, akā noho ʻo ia ma kahi o 10 mau minuke, a laila hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hele i waho. I kēia manawa ua hoʻomaka wau e hele, i kēia manawa ua maʻalahi, ke hele nei mākou ma ke alanui me nā wāwae. Ua hoʻokō mākou i ka pono "e noho me ka makuahine no 9 mau mahina a me 9 mau mahina me ka makuahine", a no kēia mea ua uku mai ka pēpē iaʻu me ka mālie maoli ʻole, ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻakaʻaka i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua uē ʻo ia no kēia makahiki, ʻelima paha manawa… ʻAe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā ia ʻo J! ʻAʻole loa au i manaʻo he mau keiki kēlā! Pīhoihoi nā kānaka a pau iā ia. Hiki iaʻu ke hele pū me ia e kipa, kūʻai, ʻoihana, no nā ʻano pepa like ʻole. ʻAʻohe pilikia a i ʻole ka huhū. Ua hoʻohana ʻo ia i hoʻokahi makahiki ma nā ʻāina ʻeono a ʻo ke alanui, a me nā mokulele, a me nā kaʻa, a me nā kaʻaahi, a me nā kaʻa kaʻa, a me nā ferry i ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ma mua o kekahi o mākou. Moe a kamaʻāina paha ʻo ia me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hahau ana iā lākou me ka sociability a me ka ʻakaʻaka. ʻO ka mea nui ka pilina aʻu me ia. ʻAʻole hiki ke wehewehe ʻia kēia. Ua like ia me ke kaula ma waena o kāua, manaʻo wau he ʻāpana ia iaʻu. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokiʻekiʻe i koʻu leo iā ia, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hōʻeha, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka paʻi ʻana i ka pope.