Mai lawe koʻikoʻi i nā "wahine".

ʻO nā kaikamahine'ōpio a iʻole nā ​​wāhine i noho lōʻihi i loko o ka male aʻaʻole iʻike i ka pilina me nā psychotypes'ē aʻe, me kaʻikeʻole i kahi puʻuwai puʻuwai, e hoʻomaka e hālāwai me ia ma keʻano he hoa pili no ka pilina koʻikoʻi. Hāʻule lākou i ke aloha, wehe i ko lākou naʻau, hilinaʻi, a laila ʻike lākou i ka kumakaia paʻakikī.

ʻAʻole hiki ke lawe koʻikoʻi ka wahine, ʻaʻole hiki ke kūkulu ʻia kahi pilina me ia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke māʻona. ʻO kaʻoluʻolu, kaʻoluʻolu a me ka volatility konaʻano. ʻAʻole e pau ka mea aloha i nā wahine ma ka hoʻokahi wale nō, ʻoiai ʻo ia ka nani.

ʻO Don Juan:

— Pilikino. ʻO ia hoʻi, loaʻa iā ia kahi makemake ʻeha, pathological, maikaʻi ʻole no ka moekolohe. Hoʻowalewale ʻo ia i ka "pololi" pau ʻole. Hoʻololi ʻo ia i kekahi pono ʻē aʻe me ka moekolohe. ʻO ka mea nui loa, nele ʻo ia i ke aloha a me ka ʻae ʻana mai kona makuahine i ka wā kamaliʻi, a ʻo kona ola a pau ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kiʻi i ka manaʻo mai nā wahine. Makemake ʻo ia i ka poʻe a pau āna i ʻimi ai e aloha a ʻae iā ia. A e noho mau ʻo ia ma kahi o ka lewa e ʻike i kahi kaikamahine uʻi i aloha ʻole iā ia.

- Psychopath a / a narcissist paha. Loaʻa iā ia kahi manaʻo "pahu" i ka wahine a he pilikia nui me nā manaʻo, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ke ʻano o ke aloha. Hiki iā ia ke mahalo (narcissist) a i ʻole ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli mai ka loaʻa ʻana (psychopath). I kekahi hihia, he wahine ka manao o ka «objectivity».

ʻAʻole ʻike ʻo Narcissus i ka wahine maoli me nā nāwaliwali a me nā hemahema, akā ʻike ʻo ia i ka Lede Nani maikaʻi loa (ʻo ia naʻe, hiki ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kēlā me kēia manawa). ʻIke ka psychopath i loko o ka wahine i kahi mea ʻoluʻolu e pono ai, e hōʻike aku, pono e nani i ka helehelena a, ʻoi aku hoʻi, makemake, palupalu, a me ka sexy.

ʻO ka hopena, ʻike mākou ʻaʻole kūpono kēlā kanaka i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi.

Pehea e ʻike ai i kahi rake?

“Hoʻoikaika mau ʻo ia i nā mea. Kūleʻa ʻo ia, kelepona koke, hana koke i kahi manawa, hoʻāʻo koke e hoʻokō i ka moekolohe.

— Hoowalewale ikaika ma na ano a pau i loaa ia ia. Nānā maikaʻi mau, mālama pono iā ia iho. He hilinaʻi ʻo ia iā ia iho, ʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻowalewale a hoʻohiwahiwa i ka wahine.

- Hāʻawi mau i nā hoʻomaikaʻi e hoʻoikaika ana i ka wahine a me ka moekolohe o ka mea i nānā ʻia. 'Ōlelo pololeiʻo ia e like me ka wahine ma keʻano o ke kāne, e'ōlelo ana i nā hua'ōlelo e uhaki i nā palena o ka pilina, e hana i ka pilina kino i ka noʻonoʻo.

- Hoʻohana ʻo ia i ka hoʻopili maʻalahi. Hoʻopā pinepine i ka wahine i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai, akā hana akamai, me ka ʻole.

- Ma kāna ʻōlelo, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi ambiguity maʻalahi, a i ʻole "objectivity", me he mea lā iā ʻoe ua hoʻohālikelike ʻo ia iā ʻoe me kahi mea. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻonohonoho mua i nā fetishes, e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana he pono ke loaʻa i ka wahine i nā lole komo waiwai, manicures, a i ʻole stilettos. Akā ʻaʻole ʻike koke ka wahine i ka mea i huikau iā ia ma nā ʻōlelo a ka mea hoʻopunipuni.

— Ke nānā nui nei iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he wahine, ʻaʻole ia e hoihoi iki iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka. I kekahi manawa, nīnau nā wahine i kekahi mau nīnau e pili ana i nā makemake i mea e hoʻopunipuni ai i kahi lede, e hana i ka hoʻopunipuni o nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi. Akā i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi pilina, nalowale ka hoihoi i kou ʻano ma kahi wahi, e iho ka pilina i ka wahine wale nō.

— ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i kāu mau pilikia, ka hana, ka ʻohana, nā keiki, nā mea aloha. ʻO kēia ka ʻike superfluous no ka mea hoʻopunipuni, a e komo i loko - hoopau manawa.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻolilo kālā iā ʻoe. E mālama ʻo About i ka pilina me ʻoe. Makemake ʻo ia e loaʻa ka moekolohe me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokomo kālā. Hoʻopili nā mea hoʻopili, ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia.

- ʻOiai ma nā pilina pili, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manaʻo ʻaʻohe pilina, me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i loko o kona ʻuhane ma kekahi ʻano.

— I kekahi manawa hiki i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele ke hāʻawi i ka ʻike he nui e pili ana i ke kāne. E ʻike ʻoe i nā kiʻi he nui ma nā wahi nani me nā wahine like ʻole. ʻO kēia inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hūnā i kona ʻano a me kona nohona. Akā inā hūnā ka wahine, inā e hoʻohālike ʻo ia i kahi kāne koʻikoʻi a hāʻawi kēia iā ia i kekahi mau bonus, no ka laʻana, he mea pono iā ia ke noho ʻelua, a laila ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i nā wahine ʻē aʻe i kāna kiʻi koe wale nō kāna wahine a i ʻole "official. ” hoaaloha.

He aha kāu e hana ai inā hālāwai ʻoe me kahi kāne aloha

1. Mai manao oe e loli ana ia. He nui nā wahine ʻike ʻole e komo i nā moemoeā e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻōla i kahi puʻuwai puʻuwai me ko lākou aloha. Manaʻo lākou ua like ʻo ia no ka mea ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia ke "aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo". ʻAʻole kūpono nā hoaaloha a pau iā ia, a ʻo ia wale nō ke aloha nui a kūkulu i nā pilina e hoʻololi iā ia. Mai hoʻopunipuni ʻia e ka hoʻopunipuni. Hoʻoikaika ʻia ke kanaka e hoʻopau i kahi kumu wale nō i ka wā e ʻeha ai ʻo ia mai ia mea, a ʻo nā loli e koi i nā makahiki he nui o ka hana me kahi psychotherapist ʻoihana. I kēia manawa, hauʻoli ka wahine wahine i kāna ʻano maʻamau, ʻaʻole ia e loli.

2. Mai hōʻino iā ʻoe iho. Ke hoʻopunipuni a haʻalele paha ʻo Casanova, hoʻomaka nā kaikamahine a me nā wahine e hoʻopiʻi iā lākou iho, e noʻonoʻo ana: he aha kaʻu i hana hewa ai? a inā wau i mālama pono iaʻu iho, ʻoi aku ka palupalu, ʻoi aku ka wahine, ka wahine, ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e haʻalele? ʻAʻole ʻo ʻoe ka hewa, ʻaʻole ia e pili ana iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono iā ʻoe iho i nā pono o kahi kanaka paʻakikī a mālama i kēia pilina. moe kolohe - he maʻi maʻi. A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kēia manawa mai kahi pilina hoʻopunipuni me kahi kanaka olakino, maikaʻi ia.

3. E hoʻopau koke i ka pilina. E nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau, pono ʻoe i kahi hui like ʻole: me ke aloha ʻole, ka pilina pili kino, nā kuleana? Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe nā manaʻo, inā ʻoe i loko o ke ʻano no kahi pilina koʻikoʻi, ua contraindicated ʻo Don Juan iā ʻoe, hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha nui iā ʻoe, e hōʻeha iā ʻoe. E ʻeha ʻoe a hōʻino iā ʻoe iho. E wehe i kou puʻuwai i kahi kanaka hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi e mahalo iā ʻoe a koho iā ʻoe no kahi pilina koʻikoʻi.