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ʻOiaʻiʻo, lawa ka heluhelu ʻana i nā moʻolelo erotic i kākau ʻia e nā kāne, wahi a kā mākou poʻe loea. No ke aha i koho ai nā kāne i nā huaʻōlelo e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i kēia stereotype o ka moekolohe?
"Pēlā ke hoʻāla ʻana o nā kāne i ko lākou makemake"
ʻO Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist
Maikaʻi loa kēia ʻike ʻia a i kekahi manawa, auwe, hoʻopiʻi nui i ka hihia, no ka mea, ʻaʻole makemake nā wahine i ke kapa ʻia he "hoʻokamakama." Akā ʻaʻole ʻōlelo nā kāne i kēia no ka mea makemake lākou e hōʻeha i ka wahine - ʻo ia ke ala e hoʻāla ai i ko lākou makemake.
Eia kekahi, ma kēiaʻano makemake lākou e hoʻokaʻawale i ke kiʻi o ka wahine mai ke kiʻi o ka makuahine. Hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo i nā huaʻōlelo palupalu ma mua a ma hope o ka pilina, akā ʻaʻole i ka wā o ka orgasmic arousal. Nui nā kāne i loko o kā lākou oedipal complex.
"maka'u na kanaka e hooluolu i ko lakou ikaika me na olelo akahai"
ʻO Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist
No ka maopopo ʻana i ka pono o kēia manaʻo, ua lawa ka heluhelu ʻana i nā moʻolelo ponokala i kākau ʻia e nā kāne. Ua piha i nā huaʻōlelo e like me ka "hoʻokamakama" a me nā mea ʻino ʻē aʻe. Aia kekahi mau wahine i ʻae e pāʻani i kēia pāʻani a lawe i ka huaʻōlelo "kāne", me ka ʻike ʻana ua hoʻohuli ʻia nā kāne e ia mau huaʻōlelo.
Akā no nā kāne, hiki ke paʻakikī ke haʻi ʻana i ka palupalu i ka wā moe, no ka mea makaʻu lākou i ka hoʻomaʻalili ʻana i ko lākou ʻuhane.