Eugene Onegin: he narcissist hiki ʻole ke aloha?

Ua ʻike mākou i ka haʻawina kula ma ka palapala Lūkini, ua kākau mākou ma mua o hoʻokahi ʻatikala. Akā ʻaʻole maopopo ka noʻonoʻo o kekahi o nā hana i hana ʻia e nā kiʻi. He mau nīnau kā mākou no ka poʻe kahiko. Ke ʻimi nei i nā pane iā lākou.

No ke aha i aloha ai ʻo Onegin iā Tatiana ma ke kinipōpō, āna i hōʻole ai ma mua?

He kanaka ʻo Onegin me ke ʻano pili pono ʻole. Me he mea lā ʻaʻole i hoʻoluhi pono nā mākua i kā lāua keiki: ua hānai mua ʻia ʻo ia e Madame, a laila e Monsieur. No laila, ua lilo ʻo Eugene i «ʻepekema» ma kahi ʻoihana kikoʻī - "ka ʻepekema o ke aloha aloha" a me ke aloha, āna i hoʻāʻo ai e loaʻa i loko o ka ʻohana, a laila ma nā pilina pili.

Ua maʻa ke kanaka ʻōpio i kāna mea e makemake ai. ʻO ka hoʻoilina o ʻAnakala i waiwai ʻo ia, nā mea aloha - ʻaʻohe manaʻo. Eia nō naʻe, lilo nā pōpō a me nā hana aloha aloha i mea hōʻoluʻolu, no ka mea ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā Eugene nā manaʻo - nā manipulations a me nā pāʻani wale nō. A laila hui ʻo ia me Tatyana. He malihini ia ia, a ua hai aku oia i kona aloha ia Eugene. Akā, ua pepehiʻo Onegin i ka manaʻolana i loko o konaʻuhane,ʻaʻole i hāʻawi iā ia iho i kahi manawa no kahi pilina'ē aʻe, me ka manaʻoʻole he mea'ē aʻe.

No ke aha la, i kona halawai ana me Tatyana ma ka poepoe, ua lilo ia i mea waiwai nui nona? He aha ka "hoʻohuli" i kona mau manaʻo? ʻO ka mea mua, kona hiki ʻole. Ua anuanu ʻo ia me ia, a ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo Eugene e hoʻoheheʻe i ka puʻuwai o kahi kaikamahine i aloha mua iā ia a koho i ka papa inoa o nā lanakila.

Ke alakaʻi ʻia nei ʻo Eugene e ka lili ʻike ʻole a me ka manaʻo. ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo Tatyana iā ia, aia kahi malihini i kona mau manaʻo āpau

ʻO ka lua, hoʻohana ʻo Eugene i kona ikaika a pau i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā manaʻo hou. ʻO ka luhi, ka noʻonoʻo numbness, swing «idealization — devaluation» — ʻo ia nā hiʻohiʻona o ka narcissist. ʻO kāna pilikia ʻo ia ka nele o ke aloha. ʻO ka lanakila o Tatyana he ho'āʻo e ola hou. I ka manawa like, hoʻowahāwahā ʻo ia i nā manaʻo o ke kaikamahine, ʻaʻole ʻike i kona ʻeha a me kona ʻeha, uhi ʻia me ka mask o ka manaʻo ʻole.

ʻO ke kolu, ua alakaʻi ʻia ʻo Eugene e ka lili a me ka manaʻo ʻole. ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo Tatyana iā ia, aia kahi malihini i kona mau manaʻo āpau.

ʻO ka pilikia o ke ʻano o ka moʻolelo ka hiki ʻole ke aloha. Ua hoʻokaʻawale ʻia: makemake kekahi ʻāpana i ka pilina, ʻo kekahi e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā mea āpau. Aloha mākou iā ia, me ka ʻike ʻana ʻaʻole kēia ka hewa o Onegin, akā ʻo ka pōʻino o Onegin. Aia kahi ʻāpana hau i loko o kona ʻuhane, pono ʻo ia i ke aloha like e hoʻoheheʻe ai. Akā ua hana ʻo ia i kāna koho ponoʻī. Ke aʻa nei mākou iā Tatyana me ko mākou naʻau a pau: ua huhū ka ʻino i loko o kona ʻuhane, ua ʻeha ʻo ia a mehameha, akā pono ʻo ia e mare, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hanohano ma mua o ke aloha.

He ʻokoʻa paha?

Inā ua manaʻoʻo Eugene e hiki ke pili pono, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻole iā Tatiana, hiki i kēia mau hoa ke hauʻoli. ʻO ia, hohonu a heluhelu maikaʻi, aloha a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e kaʻana like i nā ʻono a me nā makemake o Onegin. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i hoaaloha, ipo, kāne, kumu - a ʻo ia iho e hoʻololi, no ka manawa mua i kona ola, ʻike i ke ʻano pili maoli.

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