ʻO ka holo kaʻa kaʻa mua, ka rink skating mua, ʻo ka hoʻokele "ʻaʻole makaʻu" mua ... Maikaʻi a ʻaʻole pēlā nā ʻaoʻao o ka wā i hala. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi mau hanana o ko mākou wā kamaliʻi. No ke aha ia mea?
"Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au ma ʻaneʻi, ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomanaʻo ma ʻaneʻi." Pehea ko kakou hoomanao ana e hookaawale ai i ka palaoa a me ka opala? ʻO kahi pōʻino iʻelua makahiki i hala aku nei, kahi honi mua, kahi hoʻolauleʻa hope loa me kahi mea aloha: e mau ana kekahi mau mea hoʻomanaʻo, akā ua piha ko mākou mau lā i nā hanana'ē aʻe, no lailaʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke mālama i nā mea a pau,ʻoiai inā makemake mākou.
ʻO ko mākou wā kamaliʻi, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, makemake mākou e mālama - ʻo kēia mau hoʻomanaʻo o kahi manawa ʻoluʻolu a me ke ao ʻole ma mua o ka chaos pubertal, i hoʻopili pono ʻia i loko o kahi "pahu lōʻihi" ma kahi hohonu i loko o mākou. Akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hana ʻana! E hoʻāʻo iā ʻoe iho: ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ʻoe i nā ʻāpana a me nā kiʻi mai ka wā kahiko? Aia nā ʻāpana nui o kā mākou "piʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni" i mālama ʻia kokoke loa, a aia kekahi mea i ʻoki ʻia e ka censorship.
He nui ka poʻe e ʻae ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomanaʻo i nā makahiki ʻekolu a ʻehā paha o ko mākou ola. Manaʻo paha kekahi ʻaʻole hiki i ka lolo o ke keiki i kēlā mau makahiki ke mālama i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo a me nā kiʻi āpau, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i hoʻomohala piha ʻia (koe naʻe ka poʻe me ka eidetic memory).
ʻOiai ʻo Sigmund Freud i hoʻāʻo e ʻimi i ke kumu o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hanana kamaliʻi. Ua pololei paha ʻo Freud e pili ana i ka pau ʻana o ka hoʻomanaʻo i nā keiki ʻeha. Akā he nui ka poʻe i loaʻa i ka wā kamaliʻi maikaʻi ʻole, akā, hauʻoli a me ka trauma-free, e like me nā mea hoʻomanaʻo liʻiliʻi a nā mea kūʻai aku e kaʻana like me kahi psychologist. No laila, no ke aha i emi loa ai ka moʻolelo o ka wā kamaliʻi ma mua o kekahi?
“Poina i nā mea a pau”
ʻIke nā neurons i ka pane. Ke liʻiliʻi loa mākou, koi ʻia ko mākou lolo e kiʻi i nā kiʻi i mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai i kekahi mea, akā i ka wā lōʻihi, ʻike ʻia kahi māhele linguistic o ka hoʻomanaʻo: hoʻomaka mākou e ʻōlelo. ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ke kūkulu ʻia nei kahi "pūnaewele hana" hou loa i loko o ko mākou mau manaʻo, kahi e pani ai i nā faila i mālama mua ʻia. ʻO nā mea a pau a mākou i mālama ai a hiki i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole i nalowale loa, akā paʻakikī ke haʻi ʻōlelo. Hoʻomanaʻo mākou i nā kiʻi i hōʻike ʻia i nā leo, nā manaʻo, nā kiʻi, nā manaʻo i loko o ke kino.
Me ka makahiki, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iā mākou e hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi mau mea - ʻoi aku ko mākou manaʻo iā lākou ma mua o ka hiki ke wehewehe ma nā huaʻōlelo. Ma hoʻokahi haʻawina, nīnau ʻia nā keiki ma waena o nā makahiki ʻekolu a me ʻehā e pili ana i nā hanana i loaʻa iā lākou i kēia manawa, e like me ka hele ʻana i ka zoo a i ʻole ke kūʻai ʻana. I kekahi mau makahiki ma hope mai, i ka makahiki ʻewalu a me ʻeiwa, ua nīnau hou ʻia kēia mau keiki e pili ana i ka hanana like, hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hoʻomanaʻo. No laila, hiki mai ka "amnesia kamaliʻi" ma mua o ʻehiku mau makahiki.
kumu moʻomeheu
ʻO kahi mea nui: ʻokoʻa ka pae o ka amnesia kamaliʻi ma muli o nā ʻano moʻomeheu a me ka ʻōlelo o kekahi lāhui. Ua ʻike nā mea noiʻi mai New Zealand ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ka "makahiki" o nā hoʻomanaʻo mua loa o ka poʻe ʻAsia ma mua o ko ʻEulopa.
Ua ʻike pū ʻia ʻo Carol Peterson psychologist Kanada, me kāna mau hoa hana Kina, ma ka awelika, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe ma ke Komohana e "nalo" i nā makahiki ʻehā mua o ke ola, ʻoiai nalo nā poʻe Kina i kekahi mau makahiki. ʻIke ʻia, pili maoli i ka moʻomeheu i ka mamao o kā mākou hoʻomanaʻo "hele".
E like me ke kānāwai, ʻōlelo ka poʻe noiʻi i nā mākua e haʻi nui i kā lākou mau keiki e pili ana i ka wā i hala a nīnau iā lākou e pili ana i ka mea a lākou e lohe ai. ʻAe kēia iā mākou e hāʻawi nui i kā mākou "puke hoʻomanaʻo", i hōʻike ʻia hoʻi i nā hopena o nā haʻawina o New Zealanders.
ʻO ia nō paha ke kumu e hoʻomanaʻo nui ai kekahi o ko mākou mau hoa i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi ma mua o mākou. Akā, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ko mākou mau mākua iā mākou, no ka mea, he liʻiliʻi kā mākou hoʻomanaʻo?
Pehea e "hoʻihoʻi i nā faila"?
ʻO nā hoʻomanaʻo he mea pilikino, a no laila he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻololi a hoʻololi iā lākou (hana pinepine mākou iā mākou iho). Ua hānau ʻia ka nui o kā mākou "hoʻomanaʻo" mai nā moʻolelo a mākou i lohe ai, ʻoiai ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike i kēia mau mea āpau. Hoʻohui pinepine mākou i nā moʻolelo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me kā mākou hoʻomanaʻo ponoʻī.
Akā, ua nalo maoli paha kā mākou mau hoʻomanaʻo nalowale - a i ʻole ma kahi kihi pale o ko mākou ʻike ʻole a, inā makemake ʻia, hiki ke "hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia i luna"? ʻAʻole hiki i nā mea noiʻi ke pane i kēia nīnau a hiki i kēia lā. ʻAʻole ʻo ka hypnosis e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o "nā faila i hoʻihoʻi ʻia".
No laila, ʻaʻole maopopo loa i ka mea e hana ai me kāu "mau wahi hoʻomanaʻo". Hiki ke hilahila ke kamaʻilio me ka hauʻoli o ka poʻe a puni e pili ana i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi, a kū mākou ma kahi kokoke a hoʻāʻo e hele i loko o ka noe i kā mākou hoʻomanaʻo ponoʻī. A he mea kaumaha loa ke nānā aku i kāu mau kiʻi kamaliʻi, me he mea lā he malihini, e hoʻāʻo ana e hoʻomaopopo i ka hana a ko mākou lolo i kēlā manawa, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻomanaʻo iki.
Eia nō naʻe, mau nā kiʻi me mākou: inā he mau kiʻi liʻiliʻi i ka hoʻomanaʻo, a i ʻole nā kāleka analog ma nā album kiʻi, a i ʻole nā kiʻi kiʻi ma ke kamepiula. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻae iā lākou e hoʻihoʻi iā mākou i ka manawa a i ka hopena i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia - ko mākou mau hoʻomanaʻo.