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Ma nā ʻōlelo i kekahi kikokikona kaulike e pili ana i ka wahine, ke kaulike a me ka pilikia o ka wahine, hiki i kekahi ke ʻike pinepine i nā huaʻōlelo e like me: "ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he wahine, akā ʻae loa wau ...". A he mea kupanaha kēia: inā ʻae ʻoe, he wahine ʻoe - no laila no ke aha ʻoe makemake ʻole e kapa iā ʻoe iho pēlā?
ʻO ka Feminism kahi hana hoʻohui a ākea, no ke aha he mea koʻikoʻi i nā wahine he nui ke koʻikoʻi i kā lākou ʻaʻole pili iā ia, ʻoiai ke ʻano maʻamau o nā manaʻo a me nā waiwai? Ua noʻonoʻo wau a ʻike i nā kumu nui ʻehā.
Ka ʻike ʻole a me nā hui maikaʻi ʻole
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ua hoʻopuni ʻia ka neʻe wahine e ka lehulehu o nā moʻolelo a ka hapa nui o nā wahine e hōʻole ʻole e ʻike. Hoʻopili ʻia ka wahine me ka inaina o nā kāne, ka ʻike ʻole o waho, ka huhū a me ke kāne. Hoʻopiʻi ʻia nā wahine no ka hakakā naʻaupō me nā wili makani a me nā pilikia mamao loa ("i ka wā kahiko he wahine, hakakā lākou no ka pono koho balota, akā i kēia manawa, he mea lapuwale wale nō").
Hāʻawi wale iā lākou i kahi mea e pāpā ai, e hoʻopau a hamo i ke koko menstrual. ʻAʻole me ke kōkua ʻole o ka media, ʻo ke kiʻi o nā feminist e like me ka ʻino, nā freaks hewa me nā pilikia i loko o ka moe kolohe, ka mea i moeʻuhane i ka pāpā ʻana i nā kāne a me ka noho aliʻi ʻana i ka honua, ua paʻa i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu. Aʻaʻohe mea kupanaha no ka makemakeʻole o nā wāhine iʻikeʻole i kaʻoihana wahine maoli a me kona mauʻelele e pili pū me kēia "hua'ōlelo hoʻohiki".
Makaʻu nā wahine i ka lawe ʻana o ka wahine i nā kuleana a ʻoi aku ka "emasculate" i nā kāne
Hiki ke kau ʻia kekahi mea liʻiliʻi akā koʻikoʻi ma ka papa o nā moʻolelo. He nui nā wāhine i maopopo i ka hakakāʻana o nā wāhine no nā wāhine e lilo i ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka ikaika,ʻo keʻano o "nā kāne i kaʻaʻahu", e iho i lalo i ka maka, e kiʻi i kahi moe a lawe. "Akā ma hea kahi e pono ai mākou i kahi mea hiamoe inā loaʻa iā mākou kahi hana a me ka lua o ka neʻe ʻana a puni ka hale a me nā keiki? Makemake mākou i nā pua, kahi lole, a me ka manawa e moeʻuhane ai e hele mai kahi aliʻi nani a hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaha iki ma luna o kona poʻohiwi ikaika, "ke kūʻē nei lākou.
Makaʻu nā wahine i ka lawe ʻana o ka wahine iā lākou i nā kuleana ʻoi aku ka nui a me ka "emasculate" i nā kāne ʻoi aku ka nui, e luku ana i ke kumu o nā mea loaʻa maoli a me nā mea pale, nona ka manaʻolana e kau ʻia. A ke alakaʻi nei kēia manaʻo iā mākou i kahi ʻaoʻao aʻe.
Makaʻu i ka lilo ʻana o nā pono, ʻoiai ka liʻiliʻi
He paʻakikī mau ka lilo ʻana i wahine. Akā, i loko o ka patriarchal paradigm, aia kekahi ʻano ʻuhane no ka kūleʻa e hoʻohiki ai i ka wahine i ka lani ma ka honua (ʻo ka hale he kīʻaha piha, ʻo ke kāne he mea ʻai a he ola hānai maikaʻi) inā lele ʻo ia i kahi kiʻekiʻe a hiki ke hālāwai lōʻihi. papa inoa o nā manaʻolana pilikanaka.
ʻOiai i ka wā kamaliʻi, aʻo mākou: inā pāʻani ʻoe ma nā lula, noho mālie, ʻono a ʻoluʻolu, nānā maikaʻi, mai hōʻike i ka huhū, mālama, hoʻomanawanui, mai ʻaʻahu i nā lole hoʻonāukiuki, ʻakaʻaka, ʻakaʻaka i nā ʻakaʻaka a kau i nā mea āpau. kou ikaika i nā hana "wahine" - hiki iā ʻoe ke huki i kahi tikiki laki. ʻO ʻoe, inā he laki ʻoe, e kāpae i nā mea weliweli a pau o ka hopena o ka wahine, a ma ke ʻano he makana e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka paipai ʻana mai ke kaiāulu a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, ka ʻae kāne.
Ke wehe nei ke kūlana wahine i nā manawa like ʻole, akā pani pū kekahi i nā puka he nui - no ka laʻana, hoʻokaʻawale ia i ke koho ʻana o nā hoa.
No laila, e kapa iā ʻoe iho he wahine, ʻo ia ka haʻalele ʻana i ka wahi hoʻomaka i ka heihei no ka inoa o ka "kaikamahine maikaʻi". Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ka lilo ʻana iā ia he mea hōʻoluʻolu. ʻO ke kūlana wahine, ma kekahiʻaoʻao, e wehe i nā manawa kūpono no ka ulu ponoʻana i kahi kaikuahine kākoʻo, a ma kekahiʻaoʻao, ua paniʻo ia i nā puka'ē aʻe he nui, no ka laʻana, e hōʻemi loa i ke kohoʻana i nā hoa hiki (e like me ka laʻana. , nā huahana moʻomeheu hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻai me ka ʻole o ka nausea liʻiliʻi).
Ke kāhea nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho he wahine, nalowale ʻoe i kēlā manawa hoʻopunipuni e lilo i "kaikamahine maikaʻi", kahi manawa no ka liʻiliʻi, akā uku.
ʻAʻole makemake e manaʻo e like me ka pōʻino
Ma nā kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka hoʻokaumaha ʻana i nā wahine, ʻo nā huaʻōlelo "ʻaʻole au i ʻike i kēia", "ʻaʻohe mea hoʻokaumaha iaʻu", "he pilikia mamao loa kēia" e paʻa mau. Hōʻike nā wahine ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i nā hale patriarchal, ʻaʻole i hiki kēia i ko lākou ola, ʻaʻole loa.
A ʻaʻohe mea kupanaha i kēia. I ka ʻike ʻana i ke ola ʻana o ka hoʻokaumaha, ʻike mākou i ko mākou kūlana i hoʻokaumaha ʻia, ke kūlana o ka mea nāwaliwali, ka mea i hoʻopilikia ʻia. A ʻo wai ka mea makemake e lilo i mea pōʻino? ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻokaumaha ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻae ʻana ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohuli i nā mea āpau i ko mākou ola, ʻaʻole nā mea āpau i kā mākou mana.
ʻO kā mākou poʻe pili loa, nā hoa pili, nā makuakāne, nā kaikunāne, nā hoaaloha kāne, aia i nā kūlana ʻokoʻa loa i kēia pyramid hierarchical.
ʻO ke kūlana "ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻokaumaha iaʻu" e hoʻihoʻi i ka mana hoʻopunipuni i nā lima o ka wahine: ʻaʻole wau nāwaliwali, ʻaʻole wau he mea pōʻino, hana wale wau i nā mea āpau, a ʻo ka poʻe e ʻike nei i nā pilikia, ʻoi aku ka hewa. He mea maʻalahi loa kēia e hoʻomaopopo, no ka mea, ʻo ka makaʻu o ka nalo ʻana i ka mana a me ka ʻae ʻana i kona nāwaliwali ponoʻī kekahi o nā makaʻu hohonu loa o ke kanaka.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana iā mākou iho he loulou nāwaliwali i kekahi ʻano a me ka hierarchy, ua koi ʻia mākou e kū i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO ia hoʻi, me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kā mākou poʻe pili loa, nā hoa, nā makuakāne, nā kaikunāne, nā hoaaloha kāne, aia i nā kūlana ʻē aʻe i kēia pyramid hierarchical. Hoʻomāinoino pinepine lākou iā ia, ola i kā mākou kumuwaiwai, loaʻa hou aku me ka hoʻoikaika liʻiliʻi. A i ka manawa like e noho mau i kā mākou poʻe aloha a me nā mea aloha. He manaʻo koʻikoʻi kēia e koi ana i ka noʻonoʻo lōʻihi a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻoulu i ka ʻino o nā manaʻo maikaʻi.
ʻO ka makemake e hōʻailona iā ʻoe iho a me ka makaʻu i ka hōʻole
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ke kumu hope loa ʻaʻole makemake nā wahine e kapa iā lākou iho he wahine ʻo ia ka makemake ʻole a i ʻole hiki ʻole ke hoʻopili i ka paʻakikī holoʻokoʻa o kā lākou mau manaʻo i loko o kahi keʻena liʻiliʻi. Manaʻo ka nui o nā wahine noʻonoʻo i kā lākou ʻike honua ʻaʻole he ʻano manaʻo i hoʻokumu ʻia, akā ma ke ʻano he kaʻina hana, a ke kānalua nei lākou i nā lepili a me nā ʻāpana ideological artificial. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana iā lākou iho, e like me ka haʻaheo e like me ka "feminist", ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻemi i kā lākou ʻōnaehana paʻakikī a me ka "wai" manaʻo i kekahi manaʻo a no laila e kaupalena i ko lākou ulu ʻana.
He mea maʻalahi ke nalowale i loko o kēia ululāʻau ʻeleʻele a kapa ʻia ʻo "kekahi wahine hewa e hana hewa ana i ka wahine"
Hoʻokomo pinepine ʻia kēia ʻāpana i nā wahine makemake e kapa iā lākou iho he wahine, akā nalowale lākou i ka hopena pau ʻole o kā mākou neʻe ākea a makaʻu e hana i ka hana ʻoi aku o ka hekili a me ka uila a me nā hoʻopiʻi hewa ʻana i ka wahine.
He nui nā lālā o ka wahine, pinepine i ke kaua me kekahi, a ma kēia ululāʻau pōʻeleʻele he maʻalahi ke nalowale a hala no "kekahi wahine hewa i hana hewa i ka wahine." Ma muli o ka makaʻu o ka hōʻole ʻana, ka makaʻu ʻaʻole e komo i loko o kahi hui kaiaulu a i ʻole ka huhū o ka poʻe like like o nehinei, he mea paʻakikī i nā mea he nui ke kau i ka lepili "feminist" a lawe me ka haʻaheo.
ʻO kēlā me kēia o kēia mau kumu, ʻoiaʻiʻo, he kūpono loa, a he kuleana ko kēlā me kēia wahine e hoʻoholo a inoa i kāna ʻōnaehana ponoʻī, e koho i kahi ʻaoʻao a hōʻole paha i kēia koho. Akā ʻike ʻoe he aha ka mea ʻoluʻolu loa o ia mea? Ua hāʻawi ʻia kēia kuleana koho iā mākou e nā wahine ʻē aʻe.