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ʻO ka hāpai ʻana ʻelua: no ke aha e luhi ai au?
ʻOi aku ka nui o ka luhi no a hapai lua. E hoʻomaopopo mākou i ke kumu: ʻaʻole ʻoe i loaʻa, nīnau nui ka lunakahiko iā ʻoe. Mai hūnā i kou makuahine iā ia, ʻike pono kāu keiki i ka mea e hana nei. E hōʻike ʻo ia i kekahi ala a i ʻole.
Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole hauʻoli i kaʻu hāpai lua
He pēpē ʻelua, manaʻo mākou he ʻokoʻa. No ka mea mua, ua nui kou manawa e kau ai ma kou ʻōpū. ʻAʻohe keiki nāna e mālama ma ka home. Ma kekahi ʻano, ua maikaʻi kou noho ʻana i kou hāpai ʻana. Ma laila, ʻoi aku ka nui o kou hana ʻana i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā ma ke ʻano he makuahine. E hala ana kēia mau mahina ʻeiwa o ka hāpai ʻana me ka wikiwiki. Akā ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻonui. Aia nā mea a pau i ka makahiki o kāu keiki hiapo, kou ʻano o loko a me ka maikaʻi o kou makemake i kahi keiki.
ʻO ka hapai lua: ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻōki i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana!
Ua wehe ka pēpē mua i ke ala e pili ana i ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo. No ka lua, pōmaikaʻi mākou i ka ʻike. Ua oi aku kou koi, ʻoi aku kou ʻike pehea e koho ai. Akā, hoʻohālikelike ʻoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, manaʻo ʻoe ua ʻoi aku ʻoe i loko o kou poʻo a emi i loko o kou kino i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole naʻe e hana like ka hāpai ʻana. Ma kēlā me kēia keʻena hānai, hoʻomaka ka hana hānau o kekahi makuahine. I kekahi manawa pilikia ka hapai mua. A ʻo ka lua o ka manawa, holo pono nā mea a pau.
ʻO ka manaʻo e hoʻāʻo e ʻike i nā mea e hana nei i ka maikaʻi loa, ma ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e pōmaikaʻi mai nā mea a mākou i aʻo ai ma mua, me ka ʻole o ka hana ʻana iā mākou iho. E wehe i ka mea hou, e kāhāhā me he mea lā ʻo ia ka manawa mua ma hope o nā mea āpau.
ʻO ka hāpai ʻelua: ʻoi aku koʻu hopohopo ma mua o ka manawa mua
No ka hāpai mua, hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā mea ma ke ʻano, ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike i ka mea e hiki mai ana iā mākou. Hāʻawi mākou iā mākou iho e kāhāhā. ʻOiai ʻo ka lua o ka manawa, ʻike mākou iā mākou iho me nā nīnau existential ikaika loa, e kū hou ana nā hopohopo. ʻOi aku, inā ʻaʻole i hele maikaʻi kāu hāpai mua ʻana a i ʻole he paʻakikī nā mahina mua me kāu pēpē.
ʻO ka hāpai ʻelua: Makaʻu wau ʻaʻole wau e aloha nui iā ia
ʻAʻole anei ʻo ia e hoʻohewa mai iaʻu? E aloha au i kēia pēpē e like me kaʻu mua? He mea maʻamau ke nīnau iā ʻoe iho i kēia mau ʻano nīnau a manaʻo hewa. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi keiki, ʻo ka ʻae ʻana e loaʻa i kahi keiki ʻē aʻe kahi ala e hele ai. Pono kēia i kahi huakaʻi o ka detachment mai ka mua. No ka mea, inā he nui, noho lōʻihi ka mua no ka makuahine i kāna keiki liʻiliʻi. Hoʻololi kēia hāpai hou i ka pilina o ka makuahine me kāna keiki hiapo. Hiki iā ia ke ulu, e wehe. ʻOi aku ka laulā, ʻo kēlā me kēia lālā o ka ʻohana e loaʻa i ko lākou wahi me ka hiki ʻana mai o kēia keiki hou.
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