ʻO ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka hānau he koi ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki. Āhea e pono ai e hana? He aha kāu e pono ai e hoʻolako? Kahi alakaʻi liʻiliʻi i ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka hānau ʻana.

ʻO ke kumu o ka hoʻolaha hānau ka haʻi ʻana i ka hānau ʻana o ke keiki i ke keʻena kūlana kīwila o ka hale kaona o kahi hānau kahi i huki ʻia ai kahi palapala hānau. Pono e hana ʻia e kahi mea i hele i ka hānau. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, na ka makuakāne nāna kēia ʻōlelo. Hāʻawi ka hoʻolaha hānau i ke keiki i kāna kamaʻāina Farani a me kāna uhi kaiapili a me ka lāʻau no ka ʻinikua olakino.

He koi kēia kūkala.

ʻO ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka hānau he koi ma waena o 3 mau lā o ka hānau ʻana o ke keiki, ka lā o ka hānau ʻana ʻaʻole e helu ʻia i loko o kēia wā. Inā he Pōʻaono ka lā hope, he Lāpule a i ʻole he lā nui lehulehu, hoʻolōʻihi ʻia kēia wā 3 mau lā i ka lā hana e hiki mai ana (kahi Pōʻakahi inā he lā Sābati ka lā 5). Inā ʻaʻole mahalo ʻia kēia palena manawa, hōʻole ʻia ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka hānau e ka mea kākau inoa. A laila he hoʻoholo hoʻolaha ia no ka hānau ʻana (i hāʻawi ʻia e ka tribunal de grande instance) e lawe i kahi o ka palapala hānau.

Ua huki koke ʻia ka palapala hānau e ka mea kākau inoa e ka mea kākau inoa ma ka hōʻike ʻana i kahi palapala hānau i huki ʻia e ke kauka a i ʻole ka pale keiki nāna i hānau ka hānau keiki, ka puke moʻolelo ʻohana a i ʻole ka palapala male a nā mākua no nā keiki kūpono, nā palapala ʻike ʻike o nā mākua. a i ʻole ka palapala hānau a nā mākua no nā keiki kūlohelohe.

He aha kā mākou e nīnau aku ai iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he ʻike no ka hoʻolaha hānau:

• ʻO ka lā, kahi a me ka manawa hānau,
• ʻO ka moekolohe o ke keiki, kona mau inoa mua a me hope.
• nā ʻoihana a me nā hale o ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine,
• ʻO nā inoa mua, ka inoa, ka makahiki a me ka ʻoihana o ka mea hoʻolaha
• ʻO ka lā, ka makahiki a me ka manawa o ka hoʻolaha
• Kuhi ʻia ka hana inā ua male nā ​​mākua a i ʻole inā he ʻae no ka makua kāne.

E ʻoluʻolu, no nā mākua i male ʻole ʻia: ʻaʻole ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka hānau ʻana i ʻike ʻia koe wale no ka makuahine inā hōʻike ʻia i ka palapala hānau. Pono e hoʻokō ʻia kahi hana ʻike manawaleʻa e hoʻokumu i ka loulou makua.