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A ke ola nei kēia stereotype e pili ana i ka moekolohe i ka manaʻo o nā kāne a me nā wahine he nui. Ua hōʻole ʻia e kā mākou poʻe loea, sexologists Alain Eril a me Mireille Bonyerbal.
ʻO Alain Eril, ka mea noiʻi psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Eia mākou e pili pono ana i nā moʻolelo o ka Judeo-Christian civilization, ka mea i hilinaʻi i kekahi mau hoʻopunipuni, i hoʻokaumaha i nā wahine ma lalo o ka manaʻo, ma muli o kā lākou insatiability wahine, ʻaʻole pono lākou e ʻae ʻia e leʻaleʻa. I ke kenekulia XNUMX, ua ʻoi aku ka hopohopo o ke kaiāulu i ka wā i ʻike ʻia ai i ka wā o kekahi ʻāpana o ka pōʻai, ʻaʻole hiki i kahi wahine ke hāpai. 'O ia ho'i, i kēia manawa, 'a'ole i ho'āpono 'ia ka wahine ma ka hanau keiki, 'oiai hiki i ke kanaka ke hapai i ke keiki me ka ejaculation.
No ke aha i pili ʻole ai nā wahine i kekahi mau lā i ke kaʻina hana hānau? Ua hopohopo kēia nīnau. A laila ua ʻike ʻia kēia moʻolelo me ka clitoris - he ʻokena e hoʻohauʻoli ai, akā inā ʻaʻole pono ʻole!
Hiki i nā kāne ke ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa ikaika loa, a ʻaʻohe kumu e manaʻo ai ʻoi aku ka ikaika o nā manaʻo o nā wahine.
ʻO nā wāhine iʻike i ka leʻaleʻa i ka wā lōʻihi iʻaeʻoleʻia e ke kaiaulu. Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke kumu i hōʻike ʻia ai ka poʻe kilokilo (ka mea i manaʻoʻiʻo ʻia e hele i ka lā Sābati e hui pū me ka diabolo ma ke ʻano he kao) e holo ana i kahi broom - paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i kahi hōʻailona phallic ʻoi aku ka nui. ʻAʻole pono mākou e poina i ka nui o nā wahine i puhi ʻia i ke ahi, me ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana iā lākou he mau kupua.
ʻO Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist:
ʻO kēia stereotype e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka wahine ma ke ʻano he mea hiki ʻole ke ʻai i nā mea ʻē aʻe. Akā, koe wale nō ʻo Tiresias, ka moʻolelo kilokilo mai Phoebus, ka mea laki i lilo i wahine no ʻehiku mau makahiki a aʻo mai loko mai i nā ʻano o ka leʻaleʻa wahine o nā kāne ʻelua, ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke mahalo i ka ikaika hoʻohālikelike o nā manaʻo me ka ʻike. o ka hihia.
Ua ho'āʻo nā kānaka ʻepekema (no ka laʻana, ʻo ka Austrian psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich) e ana i ka ikaika o ka leʻaleʻa, akā ʻo nā hopena o ia mau ana he mea kikoʻī loa. Hiki i nā kāne ke ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa ikaika loa, a ʻaʻohe kumu e manaʻo ai ʻoi aku ka ikaika o nā manaʻo o nā wahine.