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Ma waena o nā luna kiʻekiʻe o Silicon Valley, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā introverts ma mua o nā extroverts. Pehea e holomua ai ka poʻe e pale ana i ke kamaʻilio? ʻO Carl Moore, ka mea kākau o nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻomohala alakaʻi, manaʻoʻiʻo ua ʻike nā introverts, e like me ka mea ʻē aʻe, pehea e hana ai i nā pilina pono.
E like me kāu e ʻike ai, ʻo nā pilina nā mea āpau. A i ka honua ʻoihana, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana me ka ʻole o nā hoaaloha pono. ʻO kēia ka ʻike pono a me ke kōkua i kahi kūlana paʻakikī. ʻO ka hiki ke hana i nā pilina he mea pono no ka ʻoihana.
Ke hana nei ʻo Rajeev Behira ma Silicon Valley no nā makahiki 7 i hala, e alakaʻi ana i nā mea kūʻai aku ma nā ʻano hoʻomaka. Ke alakaʻi nei ʻo ia i kahi hoʻomaka i hoʻomohala i ka polokalamu Reflective, kahi e hiki ai i nā limahana ʻoihana ke hāʻawi a loaʻa i nā manaʻo manawa maoli i ka manawa mau. E like me ka hapa nui o nā luna kiʻekiʻe ma Silicon Valley, ʻo Rajiv kahi introvert, akā hiki iā ia ke aʻo pehea e mālama ʻole ai i nā extroverts sociable a me ka ikaika, akā e ʻoi aku hoʻi ma mua o lākou i ka helu o nā hoaaloha ʻoihana. ʻEkolu o kāna mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
1. E nānā i ke kamaʻilio maka a me kāu luna
ʻO ka poʻe Extroverts, ka poʻe maʻamau maʻamau, mākaukau mau e kūkākūkā i kā lākou hana o kēia manawa, nā pahuhopu a me ka holomua i hana ʻia me ka maʻalahi. Kūkākūkā lākou e pili ana iā ia me ka maʻalahi, no laila ʻike maopopo loa nā luna i kā lākou huahana. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā introverts haʻahaʻa i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana.
ʻO ka hiki i ka Introverts ke kamaʻilio hohonu e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻolauna wikiwiki me nā hoa.
Ke kono nei ʻo Rajiv Behira i ka poʻe introverts e hoʻohana i ko lākou mau ikaika - ʻo ia hoʻi, no ka laʻana, ke ʻano o ke kūkākūkā hohonu ʻana i nā pilikia, e ʻimi ana i nā kikoʻī. E ho'āʻo e kamaʻilio me kāu luna hoʻokele hoʻokahi no 5 mau minuke i kēlā me kēia lā, e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i ka holo ʻana o ka hana. ʻAʻole wale kēia e ʻae iā ʻoe e haʻi i kāu mau manaʻo i ka hoʻokele, akā kōkua pū nō hoʻi i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina ikaika me kāu mau luna.
No ka mea ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka poʻe introverts ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana i mua o nā hoa hana, e kōkua kēia ʻano hana iā lākou e "ʻike" i ko lākou mau mana.
"I ka wā kamaʻilio, ʻo ka mea nui ke kaʻana like i nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi a kamaʻilio maopopo i kāu hana e hana nei. E kūkulu i kahi pilina pilikino me kāu luna ma waho o nā hālāwai hui.»
2. E nānā i ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka nui
ʻO nā hui hui - nā ʻaha kūkā, nā ʻaha kūkā, nā symposiums, nā hōʻikeʻike - he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ke ola ʻoihana. A no ka nui o nā introverts, he mea kaumaha a ʻoluʻolu ʻole. I ka wā kamaʻilio pūʻulu, neʻe koke ka extrovert mai kekahi kanaka a i kekahi, e kamaʻilio pū me kēlā me kēia no ka manawa pōkole, a ʻo ka introverts ke kamaʻilio lōʻihi me kahi helu liʻiliʻi o nā kānaka.
ʻO ia mau kamaʻilio lōʻihi hiki ke lilo i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā pilina pili aloha (a me nā ʻoihana) e mau ai no hoʻokahi makahiki. E hoʻi mai kahi extrovert mai kahi ʻaha kūkā me kahi ʻāpana mānoanoa o nā kāleka ʻoihana, akā ma hope o kahi kamaʻilio pōkole a me ka papa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, e hoʻololi ʻo ia i ʻelua mau leka uila me nā kamaʻāina hou, a poina lākou kekahi i kekahi.
Ua noi pinepine ʻia nā introverts no ka ʻōlelo aʻo, no ka mea ʻike lākou i ka synthesize ʻike.
Pēlā nō, hoʻomohala a mālama nā introverts i nā pilina pili i loko o ka hui. Ke piʻi ka limahana i kahi pae i ka hierarchy o kahi hui, lilo ʻo ia i ʻāpana o kahi hui liʻiliʻi o nā hoa pili kokoke.
Akā ʻoiai kēia, pono e mālama i nā pilina me nā limahana e hana ana ma nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe a me nā keʻena. ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ka introverts e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai ua ʻike maikaʻi ʻia lākou i loko o ka ʻoihana, ʻaʻole paha nā limahana āpau, akā ʻo ka poʻe i hoʻokumu ʻia ka pilina pilikino, ʻike maoli iā lākou.
3. Hoʻopili i ka ʻike
He mea kōkua mau inā loaʻa i ka luna kekahi kumu ʻike hou aku. No Rajiv Behira, ua lilo nā hoa hana āna i kūkulu ai i kahi pilina pilikino maikaʻi. Ma nā hālāwai i kā lākou hui hana, ua hoʻohui kēia mau limahana i ka ʻike a hāʻawi i ka mea nui iā ia.
ʻO kekahi o ka ikaika o ka introverts ko lākou hiki ke hana i ka nui o ka ʻike. Ma nā hālāwai, ma kahi o ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana, hoʻolohe pono lākou a haʻi hou i nā mea nui i kā lākou luna. Ma muli o kēia akamai, ʻike pinepine lākou, no laila e huli pinepine ʻia lākou no ka ʻōlelo aʻo a hoʻokomo iā lākou i ke kaʻina hana e like me ka hiki.
Pono ka poʻe introvert e lohe a mālama ʻia ko lākou manaʻo.